*True Confessions*

[meop79]

Let me sum it up for em darlin....

jewelz came out here and we had a damn good time. She got home to a Hubby that realized what he was losing and was gonna do everything in his power not to lose Jewelz. I love Jewelz and want her to be with me, but she has 3 kids and 13 (?) years with hubby and I told her that for the sake of those 13 years and for the sanctity of her family unit, she had to give him a chance and forget about me. I'm single, no ties (other than my son who is across the state) and will get over it all sometime, she on the other hand would be sacraficing a lot to move out here and give up on her hubby and I can't ask that. I just want her and her girls to have what is best for them and that is a whole, unbroken family with both original parents happily together. Hence, my conspicious absence in the last week or so.

That sound about right, Jewelz?

Hmmmmm let me get this straight you love her?

Then why do you seem to not give a shit that the husband who has been ignoring her for years and has been a general shit is trying to win her back he doesn't deserve her but then from what I've seen of your actions recently maybe you don't either?

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[Jewelz]

Mari, RH and Daddy..........my love to you all. thanks for your words of advice, wisdom and support. Thank you from the depths of my heart. *tears*

*hugs*

 

[meop79]

Come pleasure Jewelz to 10k

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=97641

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[naughtygirl]

*ok, my boss is such a pig

*just returned from smoking a cigarette with him and a co-worker...and while we were outside he made a comment about one of this co-worker "flying to her knees" whenever she hears her husband's zipper

*then he made a comment about watching a woman do a blow job shot...he said "the first time i saw 2 women doing these at a bar, i couldnt stop watching" and then he imitates the shot being done, but at the end he mimics "spitting" it back in the shot glass...and doh! I say..."you dont spit it back in"...to which he replied "oh so you swallow it all?" with a huge shit ass grin on his face

*half the time Im not sure if I should be amused or slap the shit out of him...yea yea I know blah blah blah women should be taken seriously in the workplace....

*in fairness, when we are talking business he is all business and treats me with much respect about my role here in the job that I do....i have never felt like I was threatened or my job was compromised if I didnt go along or perform for him in such a way. he is just such a smartass.

*i am just shocked at how blatant he is, especially in today's day and age.

ok just had to say spew that

NG

 

[RawHumor]

Hmmmmm let me get this straight you love her?

Then why do you seem to not give a shit that the husband who has been ignoring her for years and has been a general shit is trying to win her back he doesn't deserve her but then from what I've seen of your actions recently maybe you don't either?

Is it just me, or was that WAY out of line?

 

[Nickton]

Never Easy!

Hmmmmm let me get this straight you love her?

Then why do you seem to not give a shit that the husband who has been ignoring her for years and has been a general shit is trying to win her back he doesn't deserve her but then from what I've seen of your actions recently maybe you don't either?

Meop79@yahoo.com

Sorry to butt in Meop - and I'm mindful that this is Jewelz' business - it is NEVER easy and NEVER straightforward in situations like this - believe me, a single father of 3 kids, I know!

No-one is 100% right, no-one is 100% wrong, there's no total black or total white - it's all very murky shades of grey.

One thing I CAN promise Jewelkz though is - it DOES always work out in the end.


Nick

 

[meop79]

Is it just me, or was that WAY out of line?

do you know the whole story?

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[meop79]

Re: Never Easy!

Sorry to butt in Meop - and I'm mindful that this is Jewelz' business - it is NEVER easy and NEVER straightforward in situations like this - believe me, a single father of 3 kids, I know!
No-one is 100% right, no-one is 100% wrong, there's no total black or total white - it's all very murky shades of grey.
One thing I CAN promise Jewelkz though is - it DOES always work out in the end.
Nick

That's true. I'm sure you're partly right.

But. the point is that while there maybe shades of gray there is a preponderance of evidence suporting the belief that phelan's being a dumn ass he may be doing it for what he thinks are the right reasons.... but that doesn't make itany less stupid.

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[RawHumor]

do you know the whole story?

Yes, I do believe that I do. I'm not going to turn her thread into a dick-slapping match though.

 

[Phelan]

do you know the whole story?

Meop79@yahoo.com

Do you? Nope. Nuff said.

 

[meop79]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Are you addicted to confessional?

*smirks* im a geek!!

LoL and we love ya

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[meop79]

Do you? Nope. Nuff said.

Nope I don't but I know a good deal of it... enough to have been ever so pissed at you when I found out mind explaining why you did what you did?

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[Marilyth]

Re: Re: Never Easy!

I can see where you guys are coming from. Everyone makes their own choices though. Maybe Phe & Jewelz spoke about this. Maybe he wants badly to pursue and win her back, but that can be very difficult giving the geographical circumstances, and real world complications.

Wouldn't it be nice if we could all go half a country away and fight for the one we love, like in the movies? It would be awesome if we could just go to work and tell our boss that we're leaving until we can bring him/her home with us. That would be amazing. We would all be unbelievably happy, but unfortunately, it doesn't work that way for all of us.

I would love nothing more to see Phe & Jewelz here in NE. I would love to meet her and get to know her and everything. But there's always something that keeps love separate, whether it be a physical person, pride, honor, whatever. In this case, I think it's been a very rough ride for the two of them.

**The above statement is the opinion of one naive woman in Nebraska, and is not supported by any facts or logic, just the opinion of an honest romantic in search of her one true love.**

 

[gr8dad2]

Marilyth

there is nothing naive about your statement.. what happened or happens is between them and for whatever reason they do what they think is right for them at that moment... they don't need or want anyone to critize them only support them in their decisions and help them along the way...

 

[meop79]

Marilyth,

I really respect you for putting your opinion in here and you may be right I know I'm not normal. But I would walk across the ocean if I had to to get to whisper if she needed me and honestly.... Jewelz deserves the same... she's not getting it and I think that Phe should have figured out whether he was ready for the relationship before hand not afterwords...

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[Marilyth]

Marilyth

there is nothing naive about your statement.. what happened or happens is between them and for whatever reason they do what they think is right for them at that moment... they don't need or want anyone to critize them only support them in their decisions and help them along the way...

Thank you for understanding my thought. I simply could not put it into those terms.

Well said

 

[meop79]

Marilyth
there is nothing naive about your statement.. what happened or happens is between them and for whatever reason they do what they think is right for them at that moment... they don't need or want anyone to critize them only support them in their decisions and help them along the way...

I would so agree... shame I can't

It's a shame Phelan isn't a gentleman enough to talk all this out with Jewelz....

It's a shame he isn't man enough to admit to his discrasefull actios on thier weekend beg forgiveness and tell her he loves her...

Because she most asuradly loves him...

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[RawHumor]

Marilyth,

I really respect you for putting your opinion in here and you may be right I know I'm not normal. But I would walk across the ocean if I had to to get to whisper if she needed me and honestly.... Jewelz deserves the same... she's not getting it and I think that Phe should have figured out whether he was ready for the relationship before hand not afterwords...

Like I told Jewelz privately, it's much MUCH easier to feel that way and say those things than it is to carry through on them.

I honestly don't think that Phe and Jewelz are meant to be. It's not his fault. It's not her fault. Just let it be. You're not helping anyone.

 

[Marilyth]

I would so agree... shame I can't

It's a shame Phelan isn't a gentleman enough to talk all this out with Jewelz....

It's a shame he isn't man enough to admit to his discrasefull actios on thier weekend beg forgiveness and tell her he loves her...

Because she most asuradly loves him...

Meop79@yahoo.com

Since I don't know what happened on the weekend in question, I can't say yay, or nay.

I just go from what I know, which isn't much. Just to try to support as well as I can, and to remember, there's always three sides to a story.

One side, the other side, and the truth. Not that either is lying, it's just a saying.

 

[meop79]

Since I don't know what happened on the weekend in question, I can't say yay, or nay.
I just go from what I know, which isn't much. Just to try to support as well as I can, and to remember, there's always three sides to a story.
One side, the other side, and the truth. Not that either is lying, it's just a saying.

So true and I only know one side of the story not that I haven't asked for the other side... but...

What I've heard I really don't like RawHumor In a way I think you're right that they aren't ment to be but simply put I wish he had bothered to tell her that before she went there and not waited till afterword....

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[Marilyth]

I totally see where you are Meop! It's so hard to see and even ask for another side to the story after only knowing one side and caring about that person's side so much that you want to protect them at all costs. I've been there. I still can't stand my friend's ex. He's such a slime. No matter what he's tried to tell me, I still see him as bad, but... it's a totally different situation (i'm sure).

All I can suggest is to continue to support your friend in every way possible. That may even include lightening up on the other party. I know that's hard, but having such strong feelings for or against someone can make the situation more difficult for those dealing.

That's just my 2 cents. Take them for what they are.

 

[RawHumor]

RawHumor In a way I think you're right that they aren't ment to be but simply put I wish he had bothered to tell her that before she went there and not waited till afterword....

Fine. You're upset with how he handled it.

Now please, drop it.

 

[meop79]

Look I've been asked to keep my mouth shut but that's just not me I don't believ in letting it just simmer under the surface I don't like what happened and while I won't give specifics lets just say I can't imagine any of my male Lit friends doing the same.

I didn't have a feel for him before I heard about this and I'm still wondering about his motivations but....

Hell I just wish the people who know would just say... I don't like the fact that this is being hidden and just not talked about by most of the people who know

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[meop79]

I totally see where you are Meop! It's so hard to see and even ask for another side to the story after only knowing one side and caring about that person's side so much that you want to protect them at all costs. I've been there. I still can't stand my friend's ex. He's such a slime. No matter what he's tried to tell me, I still see him as bad, but... it's a totally different situation (i'm sure).
All I can suggest is to continue to support your friend in every way possible. That may even include lightening up on the other party. I know that's hard, but having such strong feelings for or against someone can make the situation more difficult for those dealing.
That's just my 2 cents. Take them for what they are.

I know....

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr......

*shakes head....*

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[RawHumor]

I don't like the fact that this is being hidden and just not talked about by most of the people who know

Maybe that's because that's how Jewelz and Phe want it. What you want and what I want are not important. They're the only ones who were directly affected by it.