Kay_Seeker
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- Apr 5, 2002
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- 28
Jewelz said:kay, you are profound , really. you shouldnt feel odd for doing what you do, nor typing it out. it is total anonymity and i think it is doing you alot of good to get things out. i think tasting or licking your own cum is NOT out of the ordinary and in my personal opinion, you should bring it up to her, in that, i may in fact turn her on. it would me. just the whole experimentation of sexual things with someone you love is very exhilarating. I am a serious voyeur ...little bit exhibitionist and with the right love, an actor. it has to be consentual for it to even be exciting and such. i mean , think about it, if you like to spank, but your wife doesnt like it at all...then what will YOU get from doing it.....nothing really...just a bunch of heat from her. acting it out with her shouldnt be a chore, it should be part of the thrill. i know you yearn for more, but if you dont want to jeopardize what you have..then you better get used to is quite fastwhy not casually mention to her about your desire to let her watch you cum on yourself...or maybe ask her what she thinks about someone doing it...and you will know from her answer whether or not you should approach her with your desire. something i just learned today though is DONT sacrifice yourself completely for someone else's happiness. ever. and i think it is great that you have such a cool wife...so maybe if she is that cool..she may be open to at least listening to your confessions herself
as for the quote thing...at the bottom right of the message you want to reply to is a button that says "quote"...click it and it will automatically tag the message for you
and as for the smilies..you can just click on them over there instead of typing them in too
my fresh situation is that i told my husband of 8 years, and the man that i have shared my life with for 14 years now...well, just told him yesterday that i wasnt happy and was ready to move on. and im not sure where my life is going to take me...actually when..cuz i know where i am going..
my husband has been very neglectful and he has been slowly pushing me away. and i was missing a huge part of myself for a long time until love found me recently. i feel complete now and i feel my life is meant to be spent with that someone else. its a scary thing, but lifes about change, nothing ever stays the same.
Okay, I didn't cut and paste, and it was talking to you Jewelz and I do feel better. It's nice to be able to open about this side of me. I've been to therapy before, and I was told that I was a highly sexualized person, but it wasn't until tonight that I felt it, and it is okay to feel that.
As for you fresh situation, it is hard, the whole relationship thing. We were meant to be a part of something bigger than ourselves, and at the same time we were meant to be independent. It is a constant push and pull. The last six months have been the most stressful months of my five year marriage, and you know, all we needed to do was sit down and talk it all out, but it's easy to pretend. To easy to pretend. So I wish you luck in your new venture!
And yeah, no spanking for me, but we'll see about this whole cum thing. And you were totally right, now is the time, and the thing is, she is open. It's not like I married an ice queen! She will get turned on!
Goodnight, J.
Love,
K.
Yeah, I guess they do.
