naughtygirl
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Good morning TC.
EL -- You are very much a part of TC. I, personally, do not see you just as a "hanger-on". I will admit when I read your post, it upset me on some level, and Im not sure why exactly -- maybe because I felt like I am one who has played a part in your feeling that way. I thought about it for a bit, and I can see why you feel that way. I feel close to you, but not as close to you as I feel to others. And that is only because I have more "history" with some of the people who have been in this thread longer or who joined at the same time I did. I think that is just natural, just as you are closer to some other members than I am. But when I come in here and read, I take a sincere interest and concern in your life, as I do others. The one thing that TC has always offered was a place to come and unload your deepest feelings, thoughts, or share things that you would not share with most people. And always, always it is a place for support. And that is what brings me back to this thread.
When I speak of the "old days" I speak of a time when the pages moved so fast some nights you could not keep up and many strong friendships and relationships were built, and as Red said, many were broken. Relationships are still built in this thread, but it does not seem to have the same "intensity" it once did. And maybe that is because it has evolved, or maybe because people have gotten what they needed from the thread and moved on to focus on their "RL" or whatever. I know that I do not post nearly as much as I used to, mainly because its how I choose to spend my time now and because my focus is on building my life in California with Nigel. And as Soron said about Red, I, too, feel like I have grown considerably as a person because of this thread. But I can guarantee, I check in at least once a day to see how everyone is, even if I don't take the time to post. Nigel often asks me "so how are the TCers today?" and I will fill him in our how y'all are doing. He knows that the members of TC are very important to me.
I agree with everything that Red, Lusty, and Oman have said. We look out for each other and offer each a "soft place to fall" when we need it. We are like a family, and like with any family, members contribute differently and we will take each other for granted. But in the end, we will stand up and support each other. I hope that you choose not to leave this family, and that you will eventually feel like its your family.
Just my thoughts.
I hope y'all have a wonderful weekend.
EL -- You are very much a part of TC. I, personally, do not see you just as a "hanger-on". I will admit when I read your post, it upset me on some level, and Im not sure why exactly -- maybe because I felt like I am one who has played a part in your feeling that way. I thought about it for a bit, and I can see why you feel that way. I feel close to you, but not as close to you as I feel to others. And that is only because I have more "history" with some of the people who have been in this thread longer or who joined at the same time I did. I think that is just natural, just as you are closer to some other members than I am. But when I come in here and read, I take a sincere interest and concern in your life, as I do others. The one thing that TC has always offered was a place to come and unload your deepest feelings, thoughts, or share things that you would not share with most people. And always, always it is a place for support. And that is what brings me back to this thread.
When I speak of the "old days" I speak of a time when the pages moved so fast some nights you could not keep up and many strong friendships and relationships were built, and as Red said, many were broken. Relationships are still built in this thread, but it does not seem to have the same "intensity" it once did. And maybe that is because it has evolved, or maybe because people have gotten what they needed from the thread and moved on to focus on their "RL" or whatever. I know that I do not post nearly as much as I used to, mainly because its how I choose to spend my time now and because my focus is on building my life in California with Nigel. And as Soron said about Red, I, too, feel like I have grown considerably as a person because of this thread. But I can guarantee, I check in at least once a day to see how everyone is, even if I don't take the time to post. Nigel often asks me "so how are the TCers today?" and I will fill him in our how y'all are doing. He knows that the members of TC are very important to me.
I agree with everything that Red, Lusty, and Oman have said. We look out for each other and offer each a "soft place to fall" when we need it. We are like a family, and like with any family, members contribute differently and we will take each other for granted. But in the end, we will stand up and support each other. I hope that you choose not to leave this family, and that you will eventually feel like its your family.
Just my thoughts.
I hope y'all have a wonderful weekend.
LOL
