Triggered - Why The Hell Am I So Turned on Right Now

[ShalayaDellanotte]

I thought for some fun we could have a frank and open discussion about those mundane phrases and situations that due to past experiences got you turned on when you were least expecting it. You were just minding your own business and going about your day and through no fault of your own or theirs' something a stranger said or a situation you found yourself in got you all worked up. Or maybe there are certain things you have to avoid because you know it will get you all hot and bothered.

I'll start us off with a couple situations that happened to me recently. In the first situation a sweet older gentleman probably 60-70 who looked like he had never had an inappropriate thought in his life came to the store I work at looking to replace a belt that was cracking and falling apart. He didn't have his receipt and I offered to try to look it up for him to see if we could replace it to which the old man said "Oh you're such a good girl, aren't you?" Unfortunately for me "good girl" has a rather strong association with certain situations and I had to muster every ounce of strength not to respond with "You have no idea."

In the second recent instance our delivery driver was heading back to his truck to get more stock when an optical illusion with a mirror in the store was messing with him so he asked me to come over to see what he was seeing and had asked me to stand where he was standing and turned my shoulders to the mirror and pointed over my shoulder at the spot on the mirror he had been looking at. You could see the back of his truck but the reflection from the mirror was of the empty road so it looked like the rest of the truck was missing. Well with him standing behind me speaking to me and having grabbed me by the shoulders I was left wishing he had touched a lot more than my shoulders.

I've also discovered over the years that I can't mark alterations for customers while kneeling in front of them. I have to stay off to the side or behind them. And if a customer has tried on a belt it's better if I don't watch them take it off. Although plenty of other things pop up here and there.

So now it's your turn. What left you thinking "Why the Hell am I so Turned on Right Now?"

 

[sayjam1973]

This happened to me a couple months ago in the mall. I was walking around Nordstrom's and eventually made my way the men's and woman's shoe section. When I got there, a very attractive woman was trying on a pair of sexy, black leather boots. I glanced for a bit, her body language was very arousing. The way she bent over to zip up the boots and they way she walked when she was testing them for proper fit.

 

[Ropebunny]

It’s not even anywhere near my usual kinks but pulling up to the mall yesterday in the stinking heat and I spot this adorable model-like late teens couple, both blonde haired and tanned and both with these... expresssions... looking a bit lost and vulnerable...

Was bloody surprised that my next thought was of me, directing them to fuck like wind-up toys for my amusement. Thank god I hadn’t have been closer to them or I’d have blushed beetroot!

 

[ShalayaDellanotte]

New to the boards. I used to come here a lot to read about 10 or so years ago but I've just come back recently and started posting some of my own writing on here.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I’m trying to think of a worthy story to tell here.

Me, too! My mind just went blank reading the OP....

 

[Bluebird369]

Who knew

I was at the salon getting a pedicure, when a man came in to have a pedicure also...I couldn't keep my eyes off of the woman at his feet cutting and shaping his nails, rubbing hot stones along his feet and calves, then applying lotion to his skin...I so wanted to be that woman, to be of service to a Dominant man, doing something so intimate for my Dom

 

[barefootgirl69]

There's always something about a man who is in charge. The way he talks, the posture or way he carries himself - he doesn't have to say anything that is sexual in any way, and my pulse increases, my senses heighten. He can be in flannel and jeans or a suit.. but it certainly catches my attention.

 

[Cumlover999]

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[ShalayaDellanotte]

Thank you to everyone who has shared so far. Sorry I wasn't able to respond sooner. If anyone else has something they want to share please do

 

[Texastuffbbc]

I am a breast man and was at the Walmart garden center when a fairly attractive blonde came to the checkout. She was asking a question, but in the process she bent over to get something out of her basket and her top fell away from her breast. Damn her cleavage was amazing, even more so because she was not wearing a bra. I am glad I was close to the counter and was not commando.

Again a breast man, and was going into a Restaurant yesterday, waiting in line outside, yes they were busy. If you want good Bar-B-Que and you are in Dallas try Hutchins. Anyway, she is coming straight toward me, small probably B-cup and Her nipples were amazing. As she came closer, her white top allowed me to see her dark nipples and her aureoles. Damn I love the summer!

 

[Mrtenant]

I am a fairly tall person, 6'4". It's when I choose to "exercise my tallness" when entering a room that I feel it the most.

This past Saturday, walking into the office, the workers, mostly female, immediately noticed, stopped immediately what they were talking about, looked at me expectantly. One woman in particular, there with her husband dropped her hand away from him and looked straight to my eyes, then shifted uncomfortably and looked away. I notice all this immediately. I smile slightly and greet everyone.

My perverted mind immediately goes through any one of a dozen scenarios as I find my way to the desk, and take my seat.

I am not especially good looking or anything. My presence in the room is like a shock to everyone in it. Fun for me.

 

[Acktion]

Not only am I a guy (which being easily turned on pretty much goes with the territory I always thought), but I was also diagnosed as a sex addict under the old DSM-III (which, at the time, I thought "so, basically, a post-pubescent male, then").

This is relevant because I've pretty much fought a lifelong battle to not be turned on so easily. To accept and allow that if a gal is dressed (or undressed) in such a way or acting in such a way, it was not really anything to do with me at all. In fact, for about three decades (give or take), gals who wanted to turn me on have had to be pretty darn blatant for me to get the memo and not just assume they were being "polite" or "nice" or "just succumbing the socially accepted norms of behavior" or whatever.

But, one thing I have failed to not get my switches flipped just about every single time; remembering.

Sounds pretty silly, I know. Believe me, I know.

But, frankly, I had a little gal, a former student, show me her nude modeling portfolio and I seriously had no clue she was trying to flirt. I got out my red pen and post-its and started critiquing the shots for her, being my helpful self. Some her poses and some her camera operator. (Natural sunlight, bareback on a roan horse in the paddock... didn't really work for an extremely pale natural strawberry blonde and a neophyte photographer.)

On the other hand (odd as it may seem considering some of my posts) I just don't typically give out... eh, personal information about myself. Birthday, for example. Or favorite food. Those little personal details that perhaps even more oddly I study about the people I'm interested in as assiduously as a kid who needs to pass a test or repeat a course.

I've just always believed that you remember what you are interested in and care to and don't what you're not and don't.

Yes, I know. This is a "friend" thing. But, almost invariably learning and then remembering some little detail about me and actually acting on it... remembering my birthday and surprising me with my favorite dish from a favored restaurant for example will send my mind straight to a chain of "what ifs" that tend to include collars and leashes when sharing a nude photo with an actual collar and leash won't necessarily get the point across. I still don't act on it. I learned that lesson the hard way. But, it will twang my antenna.

 

[Mrtenant]

I was out walking the dog this evening. It's a thing. Walk the dog, talk to whoever I'm with or listen to music, think about this person's yard, that person's and how much better mine looks than theirs.

And then there is this really cute gal who lives several houses down the road who was trimming her bushes.

Could have been so much more interesting, and right in the front yard.

 

[AlexBailey]

I was on the river, busy with other paddlers on all sorts of human powered craft. One gorgeous sister smiled and checked me out as she cruised by on her SUP board. She was in a strappy fettishy thong bikini that looked like buckskin leather, her toned muscles were straining, swollen and glistening under beads of sweat, heavily tanned and tattooed everwhere....

I was in my kayak in a neoprene surfsuit and a smile... I winked back when she winked at me.

 

[petes478]

There's always something about a man who is in charge. The way he talks, the posture or way he carries himself - he doesn't have to say anything that is sexual in any way, and my pulse increases, my senses heighten. He can be in flannel and jeans or a suit.. but it certainly catches my attention.

Yes honey. It’s as ancient an attraction between woman and man as time itself. Called Cock Of The Walk. Yes you may sweet girl. No need to explain. As you can see and feel in your heart with your eyes closed it’s hard thick bulging. Standing ramrod straight up for you. Eleven inch dick. Bow your heads. Let us pray.