Toys for a sensitive clit?

[Ms.Tootsie]

I've been told to try toys, but I'm afraid the toy will be too intense. Clit's to sensitive to be touched directly, I can't orgasm during sex or masturbation (but closer at the first activity than the second one!) - so what should I try? I'm afraid that the recommendations I usually read about are best for a clit that's less sensitive than mine.

Anyone with a sensitive clit that can recommend something? I would really be fantastic to find something that works.

 

[BiBunny]

Buy whichever vibrator interests you. If it's too intense, a towel between your body and the toy will kill a lot of the intensity. I'm very sensitive, and that's how I do it.

I like toys that can be inserted, too. For that, I recommend the Hitachi Magic Wand with the insertable attachments. The Magic Wand is way too intense for me for just clit stimulation alone, but I love the hard vibrations when using the G-spot attachment.

 

[Ms.Tootsie]

Buy whichever vibrator interests you. If it's too intense, a towel between your body and the toy will kill a lot of the intensity. I'm very sensitive, and that's how I do it.

I like toys that can be inserted, too. For that, I recommend the Hitachi Magic Wand with the insertable attachments. The Magic Wand is way too intense for me for just clit stimulation alone, but I love the hard vibrations when using the G-spot attachment.

Thanks! I actually have some kind og magic wand-knock-off, but it does absolutely nothing for me.

It's kind of hard to explain - but my clits seems either to sensitive or totally insensitive. So I actually don't "feel" the vibrations from the wand. It just doesn't feel right, it's either too much or nothing at all. Sometimes I can stroke my clit as much as I like without it reacting. Is yours the same way? Or can it be, that mine just doesn't react on vibes at all?

It's totally weird, but, I mean, I'm almost 23 by now, I'm getting kind of frustrated because I don't know what I'm doing "wrong".

 

[kimbernee]

Vibrators don't really do it for me either. If you get closer from sex than masturbation then you might enjoy pressure like I do. Find something semi-hard, put it between your legs, and grind into it. Some women use pillows. I've used the corners on couches a lot. Squeeze your legs together and wiggle and rub until you find the magic spot. You don't even have to take your panties off.

 

[where]

glass dildo with bumps or swirls. Non-vibrating so no issue there. Aesthetically pleasing, hygienic and versatile. You could also try a rock chick (google it). it has a bullet vibe but it's removable and works with or without

 

[tickety_tock]

i have one of these: http://www.lelo.com/shop/default.asp?id=lily and i love it!

You can put it on a really low setting and it just sort of hummmms. Much less intense than a Hitachi Magic Wand.

You could also try a bullet type vibe with a silicone attachment that you can put on top of it to diffuse the vibrations. The good thing about this option is that you can take the silicone part off and boil it to get it clean.

 

[Ms.Tootsie]

Vibrators don't really do it for me either. If you get closer from sex than masturbation then you might enjoy pressure like I do. Find something semi-hard, put it between your legs, and grind into it. Some women use pillows. I've used the corners on couches a lot. Squeeze your legs together and wiggle and rub until you find the magic spot. You don't even have to take your panties off.

Yeah, totally! I react better to pressure than I do to stroking. I have tried pillows etc., still doesn't get me there.

 

[kimbernee]

Try something harder and put more of your weight behind it. Also pressure on/pressure off. Sustained pressure will stop feeling like anything but press and release lets you feel the pressure anew with each press.

 

[Ms.Tootsie]

Try something harder and put more of your weight behind it. Also pressure on/pressure off. Sustained pressure will stop feeling like anything but press and release lets you feel the pressure anew with each press.

Alright, I guess I'll have to try the no-toys way once again to see if it does anything for me. It just would've been nice to find the perfect toy.

 

[sassypeach]

Alright, I guess I'll have to try the no-toys way once again to see if it does anything for me. It just would've been nice to find the perfect toy.

Experiment, bullets are usually quite cheap and a good start.
Have you tried using a showerhead attachment on full power? Just make sure the water's not too hot!

 

[mynameiskate]

Yes, try bullets and pocket rockets. Cheap and satisfying.

 

[Ms.Tootsie]

Experiment, bullets are usually quite cheap and a good start.
Have you tried using a showerhead attachment on full power? Just make sure the water's not too hot!

Not on full power, but then again, it's too sensitive to stand af pressure like that, I have tried with modest power. I wonder what's wrong with me.

As I said before: I seems like I either feel to much in an unpleasant way (ouch) or nothing at all (boring). Except during intercourse when he "bumps" into me .

 

[lulufriday]

ok. try this. get a nice hard vibe or dildo. Get a realistic shaped one, not one that looks like an extra long bullet. It can be cheap, my favorite one for this activity was probably like seven bucks. Actually, the cheaper the better probably! ha! Just make sure its hard, not cyberskin, not jelly, but nice and solid so you can get pressure without sinking into it so to speak. And get some lube!

Lube up, get horny, whatever you gotta do. Lay on your tummy and insert the vibe/dildo into you and just sort of hump it. you'll figure out how you liek the feeling. To get the presssure on your clit you just need to angle it a little until you get just the right spot for you and then you basically are pushing your clit against it and thus pressure and la la land !

Hope i explained it well enough!

 

[Dripinwet]

Try a small finger sized vibe.. on that you can hold on your clit or slide in you.. Try using it in the shower.. Get your shower head all set with a long spray cord. lay down in the tub and prop up your legs wide open.. Start with the vibe rubbing your clit with it.. Get your clit all nice and hard and slide it in.. Grab your massager.. IF you have settings on it, set it to pulse..that is the hardest pounding setting... spreas open your lips and move it slowly around your clit area... Before you cummm.. Spread open again and put the pulser right onto your lips.. where it actually pounds in you, not just on your clit... make sure to lay.. I don't know about you.. But I can not stand and do this as my massager is really hard and it make me weak at the knees...

Good Luck... Lacy