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Women have their lists of men to avoid. And it’s their right to refuse to give their time, much less access to their bodies, to men that they find undesirable. What many women don’t want, however, is for men to start talking about the concept of UNDESIRABLE TRAITS IN WOMEN. Especially when those traits have nothing to do with looks. You will always find a large number of women - particularly radical feminist zealots - who get their panties in a knot when men post lists of undesirable women. Keep in mind that the women are offended by lists like this, are offended because they're one of the lowlifes on this list.
Unfortunately for these women, consent culture goes both ways. A man has every right to refuse to associate with, much less date or spend money on women who are toxic. That is, women with bigoted, entitled or otherwise crappy attitudes. A man has a duty to channel his courtship efforts away from these kinds of women, toward better, more well-adjusted women with egalitarian attitudes about relationships and courtship. Men should also spend more time expressing what kind of woman they are looking for. What men should not ever have to do is feel afraid to express what personality traits they are attracted to... or repulsed by.
Make no mistake, this is not about getting revenge against these low quality women. This is about removing them from your life, which invariably means reducing the amount of bullshit, drama and misery that they inevitably fling your way. Make your own life easier. Avoid these types of women. And ignore the white knights who think they have the authority to tell you not to.
1) If she says she hates men’s rights groups and doesn’t distinguish between the idiots who send death threats to women and those of us who simply air our grievances… avoid her at all costs. Consign this woman to genetic oblivion. Kick her out of the gene pool… or, at least, your side of the pool. Men's rights groups don't get discussed very often, at least not YET, but perhaps you should hold off in favor of a woman who takes less of an irrational and bigoted attitude toward the subject. Would you date a woman who despises Muslims or atheists?
2) Any woman who laughs at violence against men on television… RUN LIKE HELL!!! Thanks to Ronald Reagan it’s no longer possible to commit people like this to insane asylums so the best you can do is get as many zip codes between you and her as possible. This woman sees violence against men as a trivial issue and is likely to become an abuser herself. You don’t want any part of that experience. On the other hand if you meet a woman who sees Saturday Night Live making fun of Tiger Woods being beaten by his wife and asks you to change the channel because it's disgusting... date her, if you can.
3) Ask a date about going dutch. If it turns her off, throw that fish back in the sea! Okay so you lose a date, so what? Do you really want to sacrifice your dignity to date an entitled little princess who feels her companionship is worth more than yours? (See #10 for more.)
4) If she likes thugs and bad boys, RUN!!! If she has a reputation of ignoring nice guys, then, once again, RUN!!! Need I explain why? Look for women who actually prefer decent men.
5) If she’s got kids and baby daddy issues? I mean, really? Must you ask me how to handle this? Start getting zip codes between you and her. As many as possible. She made a mess of her life dating bad boys and thugs, why should you volunteer to step into that toxic soup? That kind of desperation will get you hurt, badly. Throw her back, there’s plenty of other fish in the sea. If you're a single dad, of course, then there's a chance the two of you have something critical in common.
6) The “Men just date bitches” chick. I mean, she hasn’t noticed you, and you don’t date bitches. Obviously she’s not very observant. Trust me, this self-unaware, mentally blind woman is going to be an albatross around your neck in so many various and incompetent ways.
7) The chick who cries on your shoulder about her boyfriend. Jeez, so many nice guys get suckered by this. She’s another form of emotional vampire. She’s got girlfriends to go cry to. WTF. You know all that time you spent listening to her whine? You could have been using that time to go find yourself a real, mentally balanced woman. Your time is better off spent looking for a woman who knows how to ditch - or perhaps even avoid sbusive men - rather than cry to you about them. If you feel bad about cutting off a woman like this... at least don't let her wake you up at 2am in the morning about it. And limit her crying time to 30 minutes. Or tell her what any woman would tell you in this situation: GET PROFESSIONAL HELP.
8) The “I hate fedoras” woman. She’s a petty bigot. Not just a bigot, but a petty one. There’s one thing not to like Democrats or Republicans, but fedoras? Her petty bigotry will come back to bite you in the ass in other ways. And if she hates fedoras because it represents, in her small mind, Nice Guys? Can you say, “mentally unstable”? I thought so. See point #1.
9) The “Nice Guys are doormats” or “don’t be a doormat” chick. Usually advises you that if you want to meet a woman, you should not be a doormat. Perhaps this is true. But what is also true is that this woman is unable to comprehend the concept that perhaps being a so-called doormat IS NOT AN EXCUSE FOR ABUSE!!!!!!!!! When a woman says this, she is engaging in victim-blaming. The whole existence of the word “Doormat” is part of why the world can’t have ever seem to keep things around for long. Note: same goes for guys who give this advice to “doormat” girls.
10) If your female acquaintance says she expects men to have the confidence to approach her, PUT HER IN THE FRIEND ZONE and never, ever let her out. Women who expect men to do all the work are self-entitled brats and you will forever be struggling to keep the fire going with her. These women’s sense of entitlement typically grows as the relationship wears on, and their odds of cheating on you also go up with time. Like I said, keep her in the friend zone. Look instead for a woman who is willing to take risks just like you do, and make the first move sometimes. Also see #3.
11) If she's such a superficial low life that she makes fun of guys who can't get laid, or who aren't tall or rich enough, or any of that nonsense... really? Don't think you are so perfect that she won't at some point badmouth you, too. Especially if you break up, you lose your job... yes, even you can become an object of her whimsical and self-righteous ridicule. What's funnier is that women like this expect men to overlook their shortcomings... which are often legion. Yeah, this one you should quietly get away from. If you can fake your own death so she forgets about you, all the better.
The cold, hard reality of male-female relations nowadays is that so many women are self-entitled, overbearing and unsympathetic jerks because men allow them to be. Women of today act like men owe them something and many men comply because they are desperate to be with a woman. Millions of years of evolution has ingrained this entitlement into humanity to the point where it’s hard-wired. Thus, it will take a great deal of willpower to stop feeding the egos of these self-entitled women. You will be confronted with thoughts of desperation - such as, if you refuse to tolerate this woman, will you ever meet anyone else? What will other women say if you make a stand for your right to freedom of choice? Most importantly… how will you get laid tonight if you refuse to tolerate her bullshit?
The answers to that are not easy. It may be a long time before you meet a woman whose head isn’t up her ass. You may get piss and vinegar sprayed your way by other women. You probably won’t be getting laid tonight.
But when millions of men make use of their power to say NO!!!, they can force women to change their attitudes. Men are doing it in Japan right now; and even in Western nations, you’ll be amazed at how quickly women change their tunes when they hit their 30s and find that they’re no longer desirable.
What men need is a revolution - a nonviolent, and mostly quiet one. Self-entitled women don't even have to know why they're being rejected. You have a right to say NO!!! without saying a word. Even if they find this post they can't prove that this is why they can't find a man. You don't have to say a word, and that is the beauty of it. Just quietly steer clear of these women and let Darwin quietly do his work. This nonviolent revolution is entirely about you withdrawing consent to put up with toxic women. It is all about you channeling that energy - your efforts and your precious time - to pursuing the companionship of egalitarian women who understand the true meaning of equality and respect for all human dignity, not just that of women.
You owe it to yourself to shun low quality women and spend your time and energy pursuing someone better.
Unfortunately for these women, consent culture goes both ways. A man has every right to refuse to associate with, much less date or spend money on women who are toxic. That is, women with bigoted, entitled or otherwise crappy attitudes. A man has a duty to channel his courtship efforts away from these kinds of women, toward better, more well-adjusted women with egalitarian attitudes about relationships and courtship. Men should also spend more time expressing what kind of woman they are looking for. What men should not ever have to do is feel afraid to express what personality traits they are attracted to... or repulsed by.
Make no mistake, this is not about getting revenge against these low quality women. This is about removing them from your life, which invariably means reducing the amount of bullshit, drama and misery that they inevitably fling your way. Make your own life easier. Avoid these types of women. And ignore the white knights who think they have the authority to tell you not to.
1) If she says she hates men’s rights groups and doesn’t distinguish between the idiots who send death threats to women and those of us who simply air our grievances… avoid her at all costs. Consign this woman to genetic oblivion. Kick her out of the gene pool… or, at least, your side of the pool. Men's rights groups don't get discussed very often, at least not YET, but perhaps you should hold off in favor of a woman who takes less of an irrational and bigoted attitude toward the subject. Would you date a woman who despises Muslims or atheists?
2) Any woman who laughs at violence against men on television… RUN LIKE HELL!!! Thanks to Ronald Reagan it’s no longer possible to commit people like this to insane asylums so the best you can do is get as many zip codes between you and her as possible. This woman sees violence against men as a trivial issue and is likely to become an abuser herself. You don’t want any part of that experience. On the other hand if you meet a woman who sees Saturday Night Live making fun of Tiger Woods being beaten by his wife and asks you to change the channel because it's disgusting... date her, if you can.
3) Ask a date about going dutch. If it turns her off, throw that fish back in the sea! Okay so you lose a date, so what? Do you really want to sacrifice your dignity to date an entitled little princess who feels her companionship is worth more than yours? (See #10 for more.)
4) If she likes thugs and bad boys, RUN!!! If she has a reputation of ignoring nice guys, then, once again, RUN!!! Need I explain why? Look for women who actually prefer decent men.
5) If she’s got kids and baby daddy issues? I mean, really? Must you ask me how to handle this? Start getting zip codes between you and her. As many as possible. She made a mess of her life dating bad boys and thugs, why should you volunteer to step into that toxic soup? That kind of desperation will get you hurt, badly. Throw her back, there’s plenty of other fish in the sea. If you're a single dad, of course, then there's a chance the two of you have something critical in common.
6) The “Men just date bitches” chick. I mean, she hasn’t noticed you, and you don’t date bitches. Obviously she’s not very observant. Trust me, this self-unaware, mentally blind woman is going to be an albatross around your neck in so many various and incompetent ways.
7) The chick who cries on your shoulder about her boyfriend. Jeez, so many nice guys get suckered by this. She’s another form of emotional vampire. She’s got girlfriends to go cry to. WTF. You know all that time you spent listening to her whine? You could have been using that time to go find yourself a real, mentally balanced woman. Your time is better off spent looking for a woman who knows how to ditch - or perhaps even avoid sbusive men - rather than cry to you about them. If you feel bad about cutting off a woman like this... at least don't let her wake you up at 2am in the morning about it. And limit her crying time to 30 minutes. Or tell her what any woman would tell you in this situation: GET PROFESSIONAL HELP.
8) The “I hate fedoras” woman. She’s a petty bigot. Not just a bigot, but a petty one. There’s one thing not to like Democrats or Republicans, but fedoras? Her petty bigotry will come back to bite you in the ass in other ways. And if she hates fedoras because it represents, in her small mind, Nice Guys? Can you say, “mentally unstable”? I thought so. See point #1.
9) The “Nice Guys are doormats” or “don’t be a doormat” chick. Usually advises you that if you want to meet a woman, you should not be a doormat. Perhaps this is true. But what is also true is that this woman is unable to comprehend the concept that perhaps being a so-called doormat IS NOT AN EXCUSE FOR ABUSE!!!!!!!!! When a woman says this, she is engaging in victim-blaming. The whole existence of the word “Doormat” is part of why the world can’t have ever seem to keep things around for long. Note: same goes for guys who give this advice to “doormat” girls.
10) If your female acquaintance says she expects men to have the confidence to approach her, PUT HER IN THE FRIEND ZONE and never, ever let her out. Women who expect men to do all the work are self-entitled brats and you will forever be struggling to keep the fire going with her. These women’s sense of entitlement typically grows as the relationship wears on, and their odds of cheating on you also go up with time. Like I said, keep her in the friend zone. Look instead for a woman who is willing to take risks just like you do, and make the first move sometimes. Also see #3.
11) If she's such a superficial low life that she makes fun of guys who can't get laid, or who aren't tall or rich enough, or any of that nonsense... really? Don't think you are so perfect that she won't at some point badmouth you, too. Especially if you break up, you lose your job... yes, even you can become an object of her whimsical and self-righteous ridicule. What's funnier is that women like this expect men to overlook their shortcomings... which are often legion. Yeah, this one you should quietly get away from. If you can fake your own death so she forgets about you, all the better.
The cold, hard reality of male-female relations nowadays is that so many women are self-entitled, overbearing and unsympathetic jerks because men allow them to be. Women of today act like men owe them something and many men comply because they are desperate to be with a woman. Millions of years of evolution has ingrained this entitlement into humanity to the point where it’s hard-wired. Thus, it will take a great deal of willpower to stop feeding the egos of these self-entitled women. You will be confronted with thoughts of desperation - such as, if you refuse to tolerate this woman, will you ever meet anyone else? What will other women say if you make a stand for your right to freedom of choice? Most importantly… how will you get laid tonight if you refuse to tolerate her bullshit?
The answers to that are not easy. It may be a long time before you meet a woman whose head isn’t up her ass. You may get piss and vinegar sprayed your way by other women. You probably won’t be getting laid tonight.
But when millions of men make use of their power to say NO!!!, they can force women to change their attitudes. Men are doing it in Japan right now; and even in Western nations, you’ll be amazed at how quickly women change their tunes when they hit their 30s and find that they’re no longer desirable.
What men need is a revolution - a nonviolent, and mostly quiet one. Self-entitled women don't even have to know why they're being rejected. You have a right to say NO!!! without saying a word. Even if they find this post they can't prove that this is why they can't find a man. You don't have to say a word, and that is the beauty of it. Just quietly steer clear of these women and let Darwin quietly do his work. This nonviolent revolution is entirely about you withdrawing consent to put up with toxic women. It is all about you channeling that energy - your efforts and your precious time - to pursuing the companionship of egalitarian women who understand the true meaning of equality and respect for all human dignity, not just that of women.
You owe it to yourself to shun low quality women and spend your time and energy pursuing someone better.
