Touch

[Ebonyfire]

Following the trend for threads about the use of the senses,

Have you ever taken you fingers and run them ever so softly over a body, just enough to catch the fine hairs that cover the skin?

I have. I find that if I have blindfolded my sub, and do this, I can get him to trail goosebumps behind my fingers. 9 times out of 10 it will also cause shivers and/or squirming.

Where shivers go, a hard on follows....

Anyone else uses touch to evoke a mood?

 

[Shadowsdream]

I do...
I like to grasp My slave firmly by his wrist when W/we are out...he is instantly under control and whimpers so cutely.
Firm fingers at the back oh his neck brings his mind into an instant focus.
I touch his ear with My breath, keeping My lips just out of reach when I wish to drive him to an instant hard on.

 

[WillowPuss]

I have been on the recieving end of touch.

Being bound and having Him run His hands lightly over my body, or using another impliment (feather, the flogger, a pen top) to do the same. The feeling is even more intense when blinfolded and I have no idea which area might be getting the attention next - or with what.

Him coming up behind me and taking the back of my neck in His hand as I sit at the computer - everything stops as I wait for the next instruction. (Sorry those I IM with who have odd delays at times in my replies)

Being suddenly stopped in my tracks as we are walking along by Him putting a hand on my arm to halt me ...



and ... possibly one of the nicest touches of all (for me)
when he has me laying facing away from Him last thing at night and He strokes my breasts (giving the nipples an occasional tweak if He feels like it) or my stomach gently until I am asleep.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Wonderful Responses

I am enjoying them all. I hope there is more to come.

 

[Hecate]

Touched - feathery light - firm and demanding ...

Touches are a mighty "tool" in my BDSM "kit...

... the mere ticklig ot the nerve ends causing goose bumps, a firmly clasped wrist in public, across a dinner table, in a bar ... anywhere - without anyone knowing, without anyone guessing except for Me and Mine!

So intense ... whispered words from behind, not seeing, but "knowing", feeling My presence ...

Aaaargghhh - now you have me all dreamy-eyed counting time till next Friday!

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Touched - feathery light - firm and demanding ...

Touches are a mighty "tool" in my BDSM "kit...

... the mere ticklig ot the nerve ends causing goose bumps, a firmly clasped wrist in public, across a dinner table, in a bar ... anywhere - without anyone knowing, without anyone guessing except for Me and Mine!

So intense ... whispered words from behind, not seeing, but "knowing", feeling My presence ...

Aaaargghhh - now you have me all dreamy-eyed counting time till next Friday!

I know, I have longer than next Friday to wait....

 

[bunny bondage]

ah, i'm glad we finally got to touch. this is my favorite of the senses. i'm a very tactile person. i'll try to avoid the obvious in my recounting of the joys of this sense.

He'll often place his hand on the back of my neck while we're in public in order to guide my movements.

i feel loved when He reaches over to my face and gently strokes my cheek.

He enjoys spinning me around (at the most random times) and pushing on my back to urge me to bend over, then delivering a few slaps to my ass.

i love the way His skin feels under my small hands, His smooth flawless flesh over muscles which relax at my touch. i feel SO special!

His large hand completly covering my eyes (another thing He'll do when i least expect it)

the way He tweaks my nose playfully always makes me giggle.

hmm..i'm sure there's more, but i go to pick Him up in half an hour, and there's still other posts i want to read! ^_^

 

[psiberzerker]

Great thread...
I love to do the finger tip brush. I keep the nails on my left hand long, and bevel the right back from the quick for vesatility. The rough pads are great for slipping gently over skin while the nails are great for that shock of a scratch. The blindfold is nice, but I just love to see what we can come up with in the dark. We're usually both suprised.
Probably my favourite touch is with breath. A heavy sigh onto a saliva slicked nipple pinched down to a cold blast without warning. I defy anyone to get surprised by that one, and keep their spine flat.
I love to see the thousand little nipples pop out on their flash, erectile response, the warm hot flush of blood running just beneath their skin. That's what I do it for, the responses you can't fake. The pleasure is nice, but I can handle myself. Doesn't hurt to have someone do it for you though, and I always like to even the score.
The human body is a wonderfull thing, to share.

 

[Iceyskye]

I've been on both the giving and recieving end of being touched like that...It's an awsome feeling to watch someone react to your touch especially when you barely touch them. I do it to my husband and his skin ripples as my fingers go over him. He's made me cum several times like that. I lie there my eyes closed and just feel. ::grin:: I love falling asleep and the last thing I feel is his fingers caressing my skin.

Skye

 

[DVS]

Others have said it, here, but I have to speak my mind. When blindfolded, her mind works wonders in my favor and against her.

I can use the most simple objects to touch her, and she hasn't a clue as to what they are. So, they are all evil at first, until I have touched her with them for a while. Then, they might slowly lose their evil personality, if the feeling they have is a nice one.

But, I have been known to give her pleasure and then without any notice, give her pain. The pain is mostly short lived, and quickly replaced by pleasure. God, she hates that. She is always on edge, not knowing if and when the pain will show up.

Her tormented mind can even create feelings that weren't there, because of the blindfold. I have a little battery opperated thing, that used to be one of thos personal fans. the fan part is gone, leaving the small smooth metal shaft and the sound of the small motor. You wouldn't believe the thrills I can give her with that.

Her ears hear the motor, and she feels the smooth metal shaft and the spinning. She can't tell it is spinning, but the sensations it produces are interesting. She says it tickles, and because I am into electricity, she thinks it is also a mild shock. But, the shock is only in her mind.

A light touch on her nipples will make them instantly hard. I can run it down the side of her body and get shivers from her. Goose bumps are soon to come, but I then take it down to her belly button. She is ticklish there, and this little thing can nearly cause convulsions.

Touch is a fun thing. Fingers touching is the most simple thing. Light touching with the finger, like Ebony said, can cause exciting reactions.

Toys you use when they can see can be new and exciting when they are blindfolded. It's like having two...two...two toys in one!

 

[Ebonyfire]

It is amazing

<snip>Toys you use when they can see can be new and exciting when they are blindfolded. It's like having two...two...two toys in one!

How just taking away the ability to see something can change the sensation on the human body.

 

[psiberzerker]

Damn, Devious...

You really know your shit. I'm going to have to get one of those fans. Touch is, naturally the most erotic sense, and blindfolding is a natural way to isolate it. I've already mentioned bubbles, which can be positively lovecraftian if you know how to use it. There's not sound but your breath, then the lightest of touches. After a while, you get good at landing them without breaking, bouncing them down their torso, or legs. Drives them up the wall.
Someone said something about pain, I think it might've been in response to a referrance to my nails. Let me clear that up, I don't draw blood with them, or anything else if I can help it. It's not a gross out thing, or even sanitary, just that a little blood goes a long way, and can be impossible to get out sometimes.
I have enough trouble with people accusing me of being a serial killer. I don't like to encourage it by showing up bloodstained. All it takes, though, is the slightest pressure, and maybe drawing lines with the edges to get the proper response. My nails aren't sharp, but they can feel that way. It's more the the fright, the anticipation of pain I go for. No marks, and no real pain. This is all in the lead up, the long twisty road up to climax we have instead of the straight, and narrow.
I'm not a sadist, I don't get off on giving pain, and I kind of feel jealous when I hurt someone I love too good. That way lies the slippery slope of escalation. At the bottom is a ditch littered with my exe's, burned out, and no longer willing to face me. I like to keep it a little cooler than that.

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

touch is such a beautiful thing I love watching my lover's body rise off the bed while ever so gently nibbling on his hands' and feet there's nothing better

 

[bunny bondage]

a little fun i had tonight invovled a VERY nice contrast of touches. He had me bent over the couch, and i knew that He held the crop. CRACK it landed on my skin with all the force of His large muscled arms, then instantly He placed His lips over the area that He just hit, softly kissing and gently licking the burning skin. over and over again He did this, and it was a combination of touch that i JUST LOVED! ^_^

 

[psiberzerker]

(Dry chuckle) I love to kiss welts, if that's the first time you've had that particular sensation, at least you now know what you've been missing. I like to add a lap, and two stage blow onto any that don't draw blood. Aside from the exquisite sensation, it places more emphasis on the pleasure than the pain. A handy technique for breaking in new Masochists.
Eventually, they tend to associate the kiss et all with the less gentle kiss of the lash. They yearn for the latter, for it brings the former, or something like that. You have to be gentle with the newbies, then they come back. Please do not take this as a personal attack, bunny. I don't know you wel enough to concider you a neophyte. Only time will tell me that, fortunately, it'll also heal it.

 

[FungiUg]

Have you ever taken you fingers and run them ever so softly over a body, just enough to catch the fine hairs that cover the skin? [...] Anyone else uses touch to evoke a mood?

Yes... often. Although it tends to be with my lover -- she gets "all sookie" (as she describes it) when I do that.

Of course, when someone is tied, the effect can be somewhat different. And if you use just the very tip of your tongue rather than your finger, that can also change the effect.

Which leads nicely into begging...

 

[Pixie Mischief]

hmm personally having the back of my neck lightly touched or kissed and my ears just gives me these huge shivers.
YUMMMMMMM

also having the feel of someones finger nails lightly dragging along your skin.

 

[Goddess Helena]

This time of year, I tend to have slightly cold hands. That can be an interesting thing to share with a pet.
Trailing My fingertips down his back as I whisper in his ear does more than send shivers down his spine.


Helena

 

[Solitude]

Touch is a wonderful tool. Nothing primes the flesh better than the everso soft brushing of fingertips. And of course goosebumps are absolutely wonderful.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

Touch is a wonderful tool. Nothing primes the flesh better than the everso soft brushing of fingertips. And of course goosebumps are absolutely wonderful.

I like many different kinds of touches and depends on my mood.
playin roughly with my nipples if I am not in THAT mood will just plain hurt wont feel good.

next time I'm not in that mood and he does it I''ll swat the back of his head LOL

just depends on my mood. I dont like it rough if I wanna make love.
then its more the light brushes of finger tips and lips very light dragging of nails.
kisses licks.. ect.
MMMMMMMM I miss my baby! lol

 

[Ebonyfire]

Wonderful posts

it is good to see the variety of techniques when it comes to the use of touch.

Thanks for sharing...