Top tips please?

[shelleb4]

Can i have some ideas on how to restrain someone who's not into ropes. So far im using wine glasses in each hand with command to not spill any and hold them still.

Also, ive discovered a extreem reaction to me putting broken glass in my mouth that i knew to be blunt and harmless, they did not however and freaked (ummmm?) Ideas of how i may use this anyone? This is the second such reaction to potential cutting, that has been in his head, not reality, but his reaction is such that i must be able to put this to some use?

 

[Marquis]

You could put the glass in your mouth and threaten to give him head.

Do dommes give head?

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

You could put the glass in your mouth and threaten to give him head.

Do dommes give head?

I do.

 

[heckle]

You could get a penny for each finger and have them hold them against a wall with fingertips. Or you could always just say "don't move".

 

[WriterDom]

If you have restraints you could try bondage with thread. But make sure you know the breaking strength. Depending on the thread it can be stronger than it looks.

 

[A Desert Rose]

If you have restraints you could try bondage with thread. But make sure you know the breaking strength. Depending on the thread it can be stronger than it looks.

Yikes... dolly, that sounds really painful, if I'm understanding it.

 

[navarre]

Yikes... dolly, that sounds really painful, if I'm understanding it.

UH HUH

Especially if tied tightly around a breast.

 

[Netzach]

balls

crochet


hm.


I like the BJ with broken glass threat, I have to say.

 

[crimsonlace]

You could have them gently lay on the glass. They will think that the slightest movement of their body will cause them to be cut.

 

[shelleb4]

Do dommes give head? who cares? labels, even those on this board are restrictive, i care for them not.

pennies on the wall sounds good, im going to try that.

bj with a wine glass in my mouth, er not sane enough for me, but i would be delighted to see the look on his face as i attempted it, but some things are best left for the vinegar strokes at the moment.

laying on glass, ummmm maybe in the future?

thread ergo rope and restraint, so not a option.

wheres the topping for dummies guide anyway?

 

[Queen Bee]

If this person is of the penis persuasion, you might find good ideas here:

Cock Under Lock

It's a favorite blog of mine, except for their irritating habit of breaking up dramatically every 15 minutes.

You could have this person hold the wine glass in his or her mouth, slightly more challenging than the hands.

Since this person squeaks about sharp things, you might look into these pricey little toys that I'm currently coveting. One U.S. source is blowfish.com; sorry, but I don't know a UK source:

 

[shelleb4]

links

oh them fingers! wow, where do i get them? I want them now.
Thanks for the link.
Im going to go read through the femmedomme library, hoping to get the topping for dummies guide, but if anyone does have some good links, please post them, coz although ive got 40 yrs of fantasies to work through someone elses are always delightful to interpret.

 

[Queen Bee]

I don't know why I thought you were in the UK. I've seen those for sale at http://www.blowfish.com .

Don't know if they ship out of the U.S.

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

Can i have some ideas on how to restrain someone who's not into ropes. So far im using wine glasses in each hand with command to not spill any and hold them still.

There is such a thing as wrist cuffs that the person wearing them can unfasten. Made for those who read Gerald's Game, I guess. I'm afraid I don't have any links for you to find a pair like that though. But if you do find some and test them, that should work pretty good because he knows he can get out of them, but he'd be under orders not to. Good luck.

 

[Netzach]

www.frugaldomme.com

great how we do what we do's.

Pick what you like, ditch the rest.

 

[Waltheof]

not into ropes ????

Does he/she have the choice?
if so how about a safe word or phrase. My little sub was terribly scared, until I gave her a safe phrase, "fish & chips", in our case. Now she has been trained I have no need of safe codes, she simply complise with any instruction.


have fun

W>

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

www.frugaldomme.com

great how we do what we do's.

Pick what you like, ditch the rest.

Thanks for the link!

 

[shelleb4]

this person has choice. this person chooses that bondage, is a hard limit. shame coz it looks soooo good too, never mind.

the frugal domme is in fact rather a fabulous site. Id only been to see the cheap things, now im reading and find it very good.

Castlerealm is geared for males and subs it seems to me? Not enamoured of that quite so much.

And yeeeehaaaaa, ive finished my 7 months stint of working night shifts so ill be in the bed at the same time, which should help things enormously. How the hell do you guys that have ltd exposure get all this stuff done? I shall have to work very hard to cram this all in on the one night, oh god, yes please, i wish!

 

[Netzach]

play parties

that's why I go

it gets us out of the house and MAKES us pay attention to our scene.

 

[Phoenix Stone]

Hi, just wanted to make sure you've seen this one for Domme's and had a chance to look around on other pages, here, too.

http://www.akashaweb.com/goodgirl.html

 

[shelleb4]

Netzach, in a parallel universe somewhere is a shelleb4 that attends many play parties. In this universe, i am monogomous.
I find it very hard at times to remain this way, but i do seem to manage it mainly.

Thanks Pheonix, ive not seen this one, ill go look now.

 

[FungiUg]

I use leather restraints, because I can't tie knots to save myself. A subbie friend of mine thought I was pathetic, so sent me a "Knots for Idiots" book -- which is a pratical worked guide! How cool!

I like the look of the leather restraints though. And being able to clip them to things is durned handy.

 

[shelleb4]

restraint - any physical thing that stops him from moving is a hard limit for him, its non negotiable, as stated earlier. Or id be using rope.

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

Ok, I have an idea about this. It would take time though.

Have him practice holding his hands clasped behind his head for periods of time, outside of a regular scene. Gradually increase the amount of time in sessions. Give a reward every time he increases the amount of time by 10 minutes or so. Then start having him pose like this during your scenes.

Did that make sense? I probably still need more coffee.

 

[shelleb4]

Oh yes, perfect sense, this IS the sort of restraint he requires. Im going to try this tomorrow. Thanks ps.