Too submissive.

[KPaulNeilson]

Is there such a thing as too submissive?

Someone who shows no preference, no likes or dislikes, just to serve. Think beginning of "Coming to America".

 

[midlifecrisispanties]

Is there such a thing as too submissive?

Someone who shows no preference, no likes or dislikes, just to serve. Think beginning of "Coming to America".

Only if it causes you physical, emotional, or mental self harm. Be sure the one you serve is in tune with your needs as well. Otherwise, no. There is no such thing as too submissive.

 

[KPaulNeilson]

Only if it causes you physical, emotional, or mental self harm. Be sure the one you serve is in tune with your needs as well. Otherwise, no. There is no such thing as too submissive.

I mean one that has no preferences, no likes or dislikes, is just a blank slate that will do what they're told without fear or enthusiasm.

 

[bushyTrail]

I mean one that has no preferences, no likes or dislikes, is just a blank slate that will do what they're told without fear or enthusiasm.

It's called a boring person.

 

[Moochienanu]

I mean one that has no preferences, no likes or dislikes, is just a blank slate that will do what they're told without fear or enthusiasm.

This isn’t submission, this is apathy.

Submission is having nerves, fear, anxiety about a task or a possible punishment, but still doing it because your Dominant asks.

Submission is putting your whole heart into every moment in your Dom’s presence and serving with enthusiasm because you need to please Them.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Only if it causes you physical, emotional, or mental self harm. Be sure the one you serve is in tune with your needs as well. Otherwise, no. There is no such thing as too submissive.

I was going to write something like this. It is only a problem if it’s causing the person real harm.

 

[GroverLang]

Is there such a thing as too submissive?.

Would you like to have sex with someone who puts no effort into it? I don’t think many men, or women, would enjoy it.

The dominant needs something to work with. You might pay a Pro-Domme for an hour of her time but if you are “too submissive” she wouldn’t want you back.

 

[SissySalina]

Is there such a thing as too submissive?

Someone who shows no preference, no likes or dislikes, just to serve. Think beginning of "Coming to America".

If you are "someone" then you are not "too submissive". That word would refer to some type of personally which is not what you described.
A human form would be more correct. The form is for molding in any direction, lacking a will would present not barriers in which to shape.
In truth have never seen what you seek, all have some form.

 

[amofiga]

I've generally preferred women who are not necessarily submissive in real life and definitely have some assertiveness with people they deal with like co-workers, waiters, service people, etc. However, I like when they adopt a submissive persona in a sexual environment. I once had a lady friend that was vice president of an ad agency who in her job and as a mom and wife, quite well in control of the situation. However, in a motel with me, she was a crawl on the floor ball licking submissive because she chose to be. I think a person has to have confidence in themselves to know when and where and how to tap into the "submissive" part of them that provides sexual satisfaction but doesn't turn them into a doormat as a real life person.

 

[KPaulNeilson]

My experience was
"What do you like?"
"Whatever people want to do to me.
"Do you have any preferences?"
"Them to do what they want."
"Do you have any hard noes?"
"Not of they want me to do it."
Etc.

 

[Bramblethorn]

Is there such a thing as too submissive?

Someone who shows no preference, no likes or dislikes, just to serve. Think beginning of "Coming to America".

Surely that depends on the partner. One person's "too submissive" is another person's "just right".

 

[Lascivity]

I've stopped playing with people before because they didn't seem to have a handle on what was safe for them. They'd do whatever I wanted, never ask questions, never provide preferences, never say when something was too much. In short, they didn't provide enough information for me to be confident that I wasn't going to really hurt them.