Tonight's the night....

[MaddyBaby]

Okay, the other day I did a thread about nervous first times. Tonight is the night that I am going home with someone for the first time... I AM NERVOUS. Well, who cares? It's a good nervous, but I need some quick tips. She is more experienced than I am.. so I wondered if any of the ladies OR men had any good tips for me. The tips can be ANYTHING. I don't want it to be a bad experience. Help? LOL

 

[tswyk]

Relax, have a good time.....














and call me tomorrow!

 

[MaddyBaby]

*giggles* Of course I'll call you, silly.

 

[Lunatic Binge]

Take many, many, many pictures.......
Report back bright and early tomorrow morning......

 

[RawHumor]

Tips? Okay, first you need a good tripod to hold the camera at the perfect angle... Just kidding.


You know she likes you and cares about you or you wouldn't be about to go on this adventure with her. Just relax and enjoy being with her.













On a purely physical note, some tongue exercises may not be a bad idea. Tongue cramps are a bitch!

 

[sexy-girl]

clean underwear and have a great time

 

[MaddyBaby]

Yes. Undies. *checks them off* Actually, I am getting some new ones today, considering I am obessesed with them.

And as for pics... NO. LOL

 

[Rambling Rose]

dirty underwear and have a great time!

 

[a lit regular]

There's just something about MaddyBaby and sexy-girl talking about lesbian lovemaking that brings a smile to my face.

 

[MaddyBaby]

*giggles* Mm-hmm. I am... nervous... nervous... but a good nervous... I hate being nervous though because then I start to ramble... *shuts up*

 

[JazzManJim]

Maddy, Hon, just relax.

Don't have any particular expectations for the evening, except that yuo're going to spend an evening with someone whose company you truly enjoy. You're ready for what could happen, but don't expect it to happen. Just let the evening go as it will and enjoy every moment of it. Yo'll relive it a lot of time in your life and you'll want to savor each minute.

Now, having said that...why go with underwear at all?

 

[MaddyBaby]

Good advice, Jim. A good thing to keep in mind... it WILL help me relax. As for going commando... I pick out great undies... and I like them... I never go without them.

 

[MaddyBaby]

Any specific precautions? I know it's a dumb question and I can think of a few, but my mind is racing so I want other's imput.

 

[bluemuse]

Read and reread LukkyKnight's advice....

....on the other thread about this. Learn it. Memorize it. Live it.

And while you're at it.......why don't you tell your lover that you are a little nervous? Chances are she'll do everything she can to reassure you. I'll bet that it won't take long before your worries are forgotten and the two of you are enjoying eachother.

Enjoy your evening, darlin.



bluemuse

 

[greeneyedgringo]

Don't forget protection young lady. Hey my Momma always told me that, so I thought I'd pass it on. Oh, same goes for breath mints, just in case.

GRG

 

[ginslinger]

Enjoy...

Best thing is relax, just let it happen... Try not to force anything, let it flow...
And don't forget the pics for us horn-dogs...

 

[MaddyBaby]

*laughs* You guys are funny. NO PICTURES. At least... not this time? Hehehehe.

And as for Lukky... he is always right in his advice to me. Thank you for the reminder, Blue. And I think she's as nervous as I am.

 

[H'venlee]

I agree!

Don't forget protection young lady. Hey my Momma always told me that, so I thought I'd pass it on. Oh, same goes for breath mints, just in case.

GRG

I agree...I forgot those on mine!!! Bad me! <slaps hand>

Just make sure you have an escape plan!!! Nowadays---you can never be too careful!

Good luck!

 

[MaddyBaby]

Hm... an escape plan? Please forgive me.. but I am not quite sure what that is you are speaking of... Help? LOL

 

[*bratcat*]

Protection???

 

[MaddyBaby]

Mm-hmm.... my thought exactly, brat. Maybe I am stupid but? LOL

 

[RawHumor]

You could buy a dental dam, but I'd say it would pretty much take away the sense of intimacy.

 

[H'venlee]

Escape!

Hm... an escape plan? Please forgive me.. but I am not quite sure what that is you are speaking of... Help? LOL

Make sure you know how to get out of a situation you do not want to be in!! It is always better to be very prepared & not need it..than to be caught in something without knowing what to do! Just be careful!!!!

(Ack...I feel like a Mom)

 

[bluemuse]

Isn't there a thing.......that you put over the thing......so you don't get any things? But does it taste good?



bluemuse

 

[Rambrat]

My guess is that your friend will be more nervous than you...
that smile is bound to make her melt.