Tongue or fingers?

[Rough_gem]

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[Tnacifingisni]

What would you rather have someone go over your body with. I know alot of people prefer oral to fingering/handjobs, and being licked all over is sexy to them... but I prefer to be fingered and touched than licked.

Having said that I'd much prefer to suck a cock than give a handjob, but a guy can generally do that better for himself. I don't have the right angles to be able to finger myself the way a guy can!

So anyway I'd much rather have someone run their hands and fingertips all over my body, or gently run their fingernails up and down my back.

What's your preference?

Tongue! No contest! Women tend to be too rough with thier hands and friction without lubrication is painful! Of course, eating pussy is a favorite thing of mine. I like to eat a woman's pussy until she cums and then enter her.

 

[ashleighuk]

Definitely fingers for me and Aimee too

 

[SpecialKay62]

As a female...

I prefer fingers to tongues on myself. I fall asleep during oral. However, when giving, I like to use a combination of both; mouth for lube, suction and wetness - hands for fun.

 

[LindsayRae]

I love the way my honey's rough, calloused fingers feel...

 

[Rough_gem]

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[vangoh971]

hand job

i prefer a hand job, i have a bit of a fetish that way, but i love a blow job, but my wife won't allow me to finish in her mouth, so it turns to a hand job, but when it comes to give, i definitely prefer to use my mouth on her pussy.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Tongue! No contest! Women tend to be too rough with thier hands and friction without lubrication is painful! Of course, eating pussy is a favorite thing of mine. I like to eat a woman's pussy until she cums and then enter her.

Isn't that interesting?

In my experience, men have to be encouraged to be rough with theirs.

It's like she's thinking; "Big man, must be big hands for him" when it might be "Sweet woman, want sweet hands" in his mind. And vice versa.

 

[OralDave]

licking...

What would you rather have someone go over your body with. I know alot of people prefer oral to fingering/handjobs, and being licked all over is sexy to them... but I prefer to be fingered and touched than licked.

Having said that I'd much prefer to suck a cock than give a handjob, but a guy can generally do that better for himself. I don't have the right angles to be able to finger myself the way a guy can!

So anyway I'd much rather have someone run their hands and fingertips all over my body, or gently run their fingernails up and down my back.

What's your preference?

There's something so intimate about the tongue, so personal-- the tongue feels differently, experiences differently, than the fingers. Licking is about tasting and being tasted, licking is about wetness, saliva. I'm stating the obvious. Since we're on the subject, and I think it's relevant-- to the women reading and posting-- would you prefer your lover's fingers or his/her tongue in your pussy?
Back to you rough gem. Fingers are great, too. After looking at your photos, if you were my lover, I'd be happy doing you either way.

 

[peachydreams]

Fingers for touching my spine, hands and fingers running over my body are fantastic....but please, I want the tongue for kissing, nipples and clit. Also, I feel the same for giving....I want to touch my guy all over but my mouth aches for his cock.

 

[Rough_gem]

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[OralDave]

ok!

Definitely hands. If I could have fingers&cock versus tongue&cock, it would be hands down without question fingers and cock!! Yummm. Dunno if I can explain it eloquently enough but that's just how it is!!

Then fingers and cock it is!

 

[Rough_gem]

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[OralDave]

not at all

Coming from someone called OralDave that seems like quite the compromise!!

Not at all. If I become more proficient-- and begin to favor using my fingers... I'll need to change my name. Of course my cock is always preferred, and in play.

 

[Rough_gem]

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[The_gladiator]

For the bulk of my body I prefer touch of hands and fingers, but for my cock I love oral, especially when combined with hands and mouth...

giving I prefer to use my hands and then mouth for certain places like the neck, breasts, and clit...

 

[Rough_gem]

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[The_gladiator]

I think really of course it comes down to skill. I've had some really good oral but definitely had much better fingering!! I think a lot of people are sloppy with their tongues. A careful kisser is generally better, a sloppy kisser isn't even worth having down there!!

an interesting point... now that you mention it, some of the best kissers I've been with also gave some of the best oral.

 

[The_gladiator]

I think really of course it comes down to skill. I've had some really good oral but definitely had much better fingering!! I think a lot of people are sloppy with their tongues. A careful kisser is generally better, a sloppy kisser isn't even worth having down there!!

that's a very interesting point. I never thought about it, but someone of the women I've enjoyed kissing most, also gave some of the best oral...

 

[Rough_gem]

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[GreatGreg]

Isn't that interesting?

In my experience, men have to be encouraged to be rough with theirs.

It's like she's thinking; "Big man, must be big hands for him" when it might be "Sweet woman, want sweet hands" in his mind. And vice versa.

Nope, I have to beg to get it rough, tell her it is not going to break off if she puts some pressure on it. As far as the friction is concerned. Isn't friction the point of it all?

As far as the hands and the tongue go. I like to do both it I have the time. A nice rub down with some oil followed by a long pussy licking session. I switch it up though it is not like my tongue does all the work while I am down there my fingers are at it too.

 

[sombrablanca]

He said friction without lube. Which leads to chafing and catching. too rough + no lube might = pain. like pinched skin, etc.

 

[GreatGreg]

He said friction without lube. Which leads to chafing and catching. too rough + no lube might = pain. like pinched skin, etc.

I dunno, I have beaten my dick pretty hard without lube and haven't had it lead to pain. lol. Even after those marathon sessions. Guess if she had a grip like a vise it might be different.

 

[SlaveAtHeart]

For me it depends on who's giving. I much prefer a guys fingers but if I were playing with a female I'd have to say her tongue.

When I'm on the giving end, I use my mouth to the best of my ability with my hands thrown in for good measure.

 

[The_gladiator]

I suppose it's down to compatibility really. but yeah I tend to find the best kissers know exactly what I want. I do also love having fingers in my mouth.... sorry I'm getting distracted!

That's quite alright I certainly don't mind... I do enjoy having my fingers sucked on by a woman's mouth also.