To Whom It May Concern

[ChaseMePleez]

To whom it may concern:

It has come to my attention that there are a select few on this board labeling me liar when it comes to the fact that I am a virgin at the age of 32. Well for those who feel I am lying, I have a challenge for you.

Actually ask me, instead of going behind my back, stating an opinion when you do not know any of the facts. My situation is quite real and very complicated in its component of events.

I do understand some are friends of some of the people I am on 'friendly terms' with . My skype and yahoo are always open. If you want to know, just ask because until you do, you really don't have the right to say anything about me.

To those who may be angered by this post, I ask you to try to be understanding. I am telling the truth about my situation and to have rumors circulate that I am a liar is very upsetting.

I am more than willing to explain things if anyone is curious as to exactly how someone becomes a 32 year old virgin. If you have the time then I have the patience.

 

[Davesmith42]

Hey I think that is awesome of you to stick to your beliefs.
As far as people going behind you back who needs or cares what they think.
Would seem they be the ones with the problem
You have my support
Have yourself a great day

 

[dougsan]

How to become a 32 yo virgin: not have vaginal sex, have a doc rebuild your hyman. Any other ways to become a 32 yo virgin? Why a person is a 32 yo virgin is a question of a different color. Why, may I ask?

 

[Tappy_McWidestance]

If other people can't handle the truth then screw them. I really don't see the benefit about complaining about anonymous people online either, but I'm just weird that way.

 

[appleapps]

If people talk behind your back then they aren't truly your friends! You shouldn't have to explain yourself to anyone! I say stand by your word and offer no explanations, they either believe your or they don't!

 

[ChaseMePleez]

Thank you to those who are willing to stand by me. For those who still don't believe I am willing to explain.

https://soundcloud.com/chasemepleez/how-to-be-a-32-year-old-virgin

 

[pcookie]

chin up Ginny! Just be true to yourself.

 

[ChaseMePleez]

chin up Ginny! Just be true to yourself.

*wraps my arms around you and kisses ur neck* I am trying, Cookie.

 

[Seasidegal]

Don't let it bother you what other people say. Many have their own petty insecurities to behave as they do. Be proud of your convictions and the reasonings behind them. You are beautiful inside and out. I don't know you but I know we all are. Some of us just get off track once in a while . Myself included. No one is totally perfect. You are what you are. If you are a good person. Look inside and be your own cheerleader. Let the rest be. It is as it is. You're the only one that can be you. So that makes you perfect as you are. Just be yourself ... But be the best "you" that you can be.

 

[Weaseldiesel]

When I was an apprentice, what we would have termed one of the auld hands gave me this advice!

Never explain yourself!

 

[southerncharm77]

My Two Cents

I will be willing to bet that 99% of the people on Lit have lied about something to someone on here. Even if it was a "little white lie" it's still a lie!! The way I see it Chase is that you owe NOTHING to anyone on here. The only reason that they have to not believe is they are jealous of you. Most people on here are here to have a little fun and/ or add a little spice to their lives. The rest well let's just say that they have no life so they choose to fuck with others to make it seem they have one. I say "fuck em and feed em fish" if they don't want to believe you. No one is holding a gun to their head and forcing them to read your threads. I for one have no reason not to believe you.

 

[2TitsNoWaiting]

Honestly, I just truly don't understand why people make it their business to stick their nose into other people's business. It doesn't matter to me one way or the other if you are telling the truth (no offense), but why people would feel a need to discuss it with others is beyond me.

 

[Porkwarrior]

Ginny, just fuck'em. And the horse they rode in on.


<big bear hug>

 

[jakereeder22]

Kaka handheld

 

[niv78]

My response is who cares? Same thing I say when someone asks me about gay marriage. It does not bother me, you being a virgin or not does not affect me nor does someone sexual affiliation and or who they marry. People need to focus more on themselves and less on other people.

 

[Mindfondler]

Do I sense double-standards here? As a guy, I was a 29 year old virgin, and I wouldn't have expected anyone to accuse me of lying if I told them that. I didn't mention it, of course, because I would probably have been the subject of much finger-pointing, giggling and jeering if I did.

Incidentally, I haven't listened to the explanation from ChaseMePleez, and I don't see why I would need to.

 

[DonovanCrane]

You don't know me, nor do I know you, Chase; however, if I were you, I'd take any accusations of lying on the part of internet jerks with a very, very big grain of salt. Anyone who's taking the time to accuse you of lying is probably a liar themselves, be it the fat, balding man still living in his mother's basement who's pretending to be a gorgeous woman, or the frigid woman who pretends to be a nympho. The net is full of posers, and they're usually the first to attack anyone on any board, lest the genuine, honest people overshadow their pretentious egos.

I don't know who any of your accusers are, so I hope none of them will bother to reply to this. However, if they do, I don't really care. I'm sure they have no evidence to accuse you, and I find it unlikely that you've made up your story. It seems to me that you're very beautiful as you are, and your accusers are probably just jealous of such genuine beauty.

 

[sexy_hottie_2003]

The fact that you're still a virgin at 32 is your business and nobody else's. You shouldn't..and I repeat..shouldn't give a flying leap about what anyone thinks. If you choose to wait for the right person then I say good for you. You can only lose your virginity once. Once it's gone that's it. There ain't no getting it back. If the people who have a problem with it want to boast their big mouth let em. They're probably just jealous because they lost it to someone who didn't give a fuck. So be true to who you are. Embrace yourself and forget the haters. You are too special to give it away because of peer pressure. Don't feed the trolls. They just love getting under your skin. And you are better than them.