To whom did u lose your virginity?

[billwindows]

I actually got an idea for this from another thread of mine. I was just wondering if people would like to share their experience when they had sex for the first time, with who (high school swwetheart, current husband, some stranger) and how it felt (great, okay but i have had better, don't even like to THINK about it)

 

[Prime]

who i lost my virginity to? hmmmmm........

oh yeah, no one

 

[billwindows]

hey prime congrats. If you are a guy, excellent self control. If you are a lady, excellent resistance. you should lose your virginity only to someone you love.

 

[Prime]

male, and it isn't self control, its just i haven't had the opportunity yet.

 

[dclabrecque]

Husband -wedding night. Pretty good - 31 one years since then, now its incredible most of the time. I agree, it should be given to someone you love, it's not something you just need to rid one self of.

 

[ammre]

My friend allen in a rutgers dorm room... right after a bad breakup where i ALMOST slept with the guy... i decided i didn't want to waste my first time on someone who could hurt me with it... me and allen are still really good friends too... me and my boyfriend go to dungeons with allen and his girlfriend AND we play yhatzee...

 

[psyche]

My first sexual experience was with a man who was 10 years older than me, and he was married. He was good for me in many ways........first of all, he was very gentle the first time and it was a very good experience for me. The best thing about him is that he had a very high sex drive, so we were fucking everywhere, all the time............inside, outside.....lol, it really didn't matter to us. It was probably the only time in my life that I wasn't walking around dreaming about sex all the time.

 

[drew62]

I honestly dont know who the girl was. I was in college, it was a Friday night and was shitfaced drunk. I remember doing it and enjoying it, but damn if I can remember her name. The only thing I remember about her was that she was in town visiting a friend.

I could have asked her friend what the girl's name was, but found out that I was the sixth guy she had spent the night with in one week. I decided it was better to forget about her.

I wish I would have waited for it to be with someone special, but the nectar of the gods (aka alcohol) got the better of me.

 

[realcurious]

To my wife, about a week before the wedding
been married 28 years (only her so far)

been dreaming about losing my virginity to a 2nd person a lot lately <grin>

 

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[Bandit58]

Aged 18, to the man I married (big mistake) Neither of us knew what we were doing and I ended up hating to have sex with him. He was and still is extremely conservative and very boring in bed.

2nd time - almost 8 months ago aged 43, what a revelation. I've lost several virginities since then (oral, anal ) Still to lose my bi virginity though

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

to my first boyfriend in highschool he SUCKeD

 

[SnoManX]

I was 19 and it was at an outdoor music festival. I was pretty loaded and started dancing with her at one of the campsites. We ended up fucking in front of a motorhome and while we were going at it I could here people inside the motorhome talking and then they turned on the headlights! Real embarrassing and a real bad first time...wish I had waited! I never got her name and I don't think I ever told her mine.

 

[OSA]

It was to my wife while we were still dating. It was in her college dorm room. I think I was 16. I really sucked. I think it lasted like 30 seconds, and I was in awe even though I sucked.

Been practicing as much as I can ever since. They say it makes perfect, so I'm going to stay at it!

 

[emmessemm]

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[Noor]

I lost mine with my best friend. I was 13, he was 15, I think. It was after being at an amusement park all day, in my bed at home. My parents were not due back for hours. We used condoms and foam. I was curious, it was okay but not spectacular, I didn't understand what the fuss was about. It wasn't him so much as I just wasn't that into sex then. Didn't really get seriously into sex until I was 15 or 16.

He moved to another state when I was 15 but I would spend my vacations there with him, I was involved with his best friend too. The three of us went on a camping trip that was very interesting and great fun. During high school I was part of a pretty tight group of people and we share a lot including each other. Very uninhibited, not the usually high school stuff I am told, more like some bloomsbury social experience maybe.

Anyway we are still friends. So my first experience wasn't with someone I was in love with but it was with a good friend who loved me.

 

[NovaGuy]

Jennifer

I lost mine to one of the many many many Jennifer's out there. I was 2 years older. We were terrible, but we made up for it later in life when we became fuck buddies.

 

[StaceyR]

I lost mine to my boyfriend when I was 16. We were both rather inexperienced but we took our time and it was enjoyable. We enjoyed it quite often for the next 7 months and then he cheated on me..so that ended that! Oh well, lol

 

[entitled]

"George"

That's what we all called him, anyway. None of us could say his name right. Then again, we called each other everything in the book - all the way from snookums to 'you *&$# &&*# &(*#$^!!' depending on the mood.

i lost my 'by choice' virginity to him when i was 19, just after the second semester of college started. We stayed together until he had to go back to Russia, and have stayed in contact off and on up until a couple of years ago. If things had worked out differently we would have gotten married and i would probably be there with him. *sighs* Oh, the possibilities...

 

[SlickTony]

Aged 18, to the man I married (big mistake) Neither of us knew what we were doing and I ended up hating to have sex with him. He was and still is extremely conservative and very boring in bed.

Except for the part about him not knowing what he was doing--he was 12 years older than me and prided himself on having a lot of experience--our experiences were exactly the same. I have mentioned the Egg Timer before. Before we were married, he was just good enough to impress me and keep me coming back for more and hoping it would get better, but after we got married, he mostly didn't think he had to try all that hard. And the first time was very painful, as well. If I had it all to do over again, I'd have practiced with an object.

 

[virgin_rose]

it was the day after highschool ends... he was quite a lot older than me and we had known each other for some time... i met him at the start of one the holiday when i was on my way to the airport to go back home (i went to boarding school)... the plane was delayed... we talked and we managed to keep in touch... the day i lost my virginity... i guess i let him do it because i was kinda afraid i won't be able to see him again and he was such a great friend... and i guess i want him to remember something about me... something special... and i wanted to remember him too...

 

[Pixie Mischief]

It was this summer to my current bf.. it wasnt how I wished it to be.. I suppose I should be happy that it was with someone I love... I guess I'm too romantic LOL
He was asking if I wanted to well if I Was ready. he said "you want me to fuck you?" I nodded and he said no that wasnt good enough he wanted a verbal concent. he didnt want me to do something i would regret he said. incase he wasnt "The one" so he asked again if I wanted him to fuck me. I managed a "yes"
what I wanted well imagined was my bed full of rose petals.. candles.. soft music LOL *shrugs*

 

[Madame Manga]

To my husband, six years before I married him. We were both 19, and it was on my mother's living room floor in the middle of the night. Why not my bed? Because he's a big guy and all I had was a twin--I didn't think we would both fit. ;-) The floor worked just fine, since it was carpeted and I spread out a comforter.

I was more eager than he was--he thought a woman's virginity was a huge deal and was very concerned about whether I would regret it. I had made up my mind, however, and I loved it. I couldn't wait to do it again, so we did, and I was REALLY sore the next day!

MM

 

[Pixie Mischief]

sounds like my bf LOL he actually wished I wasnt a virgin.

 

[dickE]

When I was 14.........and she was in her early, early 40's....slender and sexy.....as hot for sex as I was. Changed both our lives. At 14, I had questions answered other guys my age didn't know to ask.

Shame this sort of relationship--older woman/younger man--is frowned upon today.