To Thine Own Pleasure Be True: To Toy or Not to Toy?

Toys —> e-stim ⚡️ & fleshlight 🔦

A whimsical enchantress watching me would be interesting. 🤔
 
You’re quite the seductive coquette blowing kisses and batting your long luscious lashes.
 
To thine own pleasure and self be true, what brings you the most pleasure? Toys, or other sensual erotic delights? Please share.

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I tried using toys a little bit when I got out of college, but ultimately ditched them and just use my hand for self pleasure. Toys definitely can do things my hands can’t, but I found most of them to be too over the top for my liking. Love the simplicity and ease of my own touch.
 
I tried using toys a little bit when I got out of college, but ultimately ditched them and just use my hand for self pleasure. Toys definitely can do things my hands can’t, but I found most of them to be too over the top for my liking. Love the simplicity and ease of my own touch.
Hands give you more control. If you want to edge and extend things for an hours, hands and fingers are the way to go You know EXACTLY when to back off a little.

Toys are good for getting the job done quickly.

I find this to be true to touching someone else too. With my hands I get that tactile feedback from her body. I can feel the pulsing intensify and know it's time to slow down to let her recover a bit to make the push over the edge later so much stronger. If I am holding her bullet vibe or whatever it works fast but I'm not really doing it. I am just holding it there. That is not without its own enjoyment but it's not as intimate and probably doesn't feel as good.

Each has their place in the world.
 
There's something so erotic about a toy, designed solely to bring maximum pleasure, limited only by their power source
 
Hands give you more control. If you want to edge and extend things for an hours, hands and fingers are the way to go You know EXACTLY when to back off a little.

Toys are good for getting the job done quickly.

I find this to be true to touching someone else too. With my hands I get that tactile feedback from her body. I can feel the pulsing intensify and know it's time to slow down to let her recover a bit to make the push over the edge later so much stronger. If I am holding her bullet vibe or whatever it works fast but I'm not really doing it. I am just holding it there. That is not without its own enjoyment but it's not as intimate and probably doesn't feel as good.

Each has their place in the world.
I disagree. I use multiple toys to give my cock and balls different "touches" and vary the sensations, which enable me to edge. Plus, there is a degree of eroticism for me since toys provide the illusion of "the other," that is, someone or something else stimulating me. Your bullet example is a good example of too much without providing satisfactory enjoyment. So, I guess it depends on the toy. For me, hands and fingers are for a quicker release.

I guess different "strokes" for different folks. lol. :giggle:
 
In day to day life I am an active sexual partner rather than passive. I'm trans feminine so it's not all that surprising that I enjoy experiencing sex the other way round. I'm faithful to my partner so I have a number of toys for that, the latest being a fucking machine. I have the HiSmith, which is a budget model that's become very popular and I have a number of cocks that attach to it. I also own a Lovense Hush that can be controlled from anywhere.
 
For an efficient orgasm, my hitachi is the only choice. That thing as seen some shit.

Sensual delights? I like flower petals and silk dragged over my body while I'm blindfolded... And of course, I go nuts for the feeling of anything wet. My sweaty thighs rocking over his sweat thighs - nnnngggg. And my heart beats just a bit faster when I hear the creak of leather.
 
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