To the ladies..Masterbating for your man

[Knightstlkr]

I am wondering if you consider touching yourself for your man a turn on does it make you feel uncomfortable or does it turn you off..I have tried to get my wife to use toys or touch her self during sex but she tells me she hates when I ask her to do this ..If it was reversed I would have no prob stroking myself for her..So help me out and tell me your thoughts on this subject..Thanks and have a great day

 

[ShyGuy68]

It's spelled "masturbating"

 

[flapperchic]

Um...ok well I'll kick this off then.

The first time I did this I was terribly nervous and felt ridiculous...until I saw how much it was turning him on. I didn't think I was doing anything especially hot and he was loving every minute of it. And that in turn turned me on.

 

[rrocks37]

I'll gladly oblige as long as he is a silent observer. I've had guys critique my technique and try to modify my methodology and that just screws up the flow in my brain. I have been doing this for years!!

 

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[monique1971]

I'll gladly oblige as long as he is a silent observer. I've had guys critique my technique and try to modify my methodology and that just screws up the flow in my brain. I have been doing this for years!!

You're joking, right? That's hilarious. What kind of control freaks have you been sleeping with, dear?

 

[MsTexas]

It's spelled "masturbating"

LOL ... how did I know you would correct him?

 

[activelysexual]

I'll gladly oblige as long as he is a silent observer. I've had guys critique my technique and try to modify my methodology and that just screws up the flow in my brain. I have been doing this for years!!

First and foremost it's your pleasure, enjoy, enjoy! Watching is a privilege, not a right. Some people.

 

[yours2nite]

My bf loves it when I play with myself for him. He often gives me instructions and I love to see the pleasure it gives him. Needless to say I enjoy it myself as well. I also like to tease him and play with myself in public, especially if it gives him a boner just as we get off the bus or get up to leave the restaurant. A subtle hand under my skirt or through my jeans and I can see him get hard. What fun

 

[MsTexas]

Ooooo I forgot to answer the question ...

I would masturbate for him and have done it in the past. I think it is so erotic to watch his facial expressions as I am playing and pleasing myself, the look of anticipation on his face is worth its weight in gold. I love watching him masturbate as well, can vision sitting across from him as hes stroking and I'm fingering myself.

The goal is in sight again and soon ... dreaming of it makes me smile

 

[Perfect_Trust]

I am wondering if you consider touching yourself for your man a turn on does it make you feel uncomfortable or does it turn you off..I have tried to get my wife to use toys or touch her self during sex but she tells me she hates when I ask her to do this ..If it was reversed I would have no prob stroking myself for her..So help me out and tell me your thoughts on this subject..Thanks and have a great day

My thoughts are it's damn hot. I have no problem doing this.

 

[uniden]

To Knightslker, I read your post. I really think it is a woman's place to decide if she wants to use toys. I think too you may have scared her off by suggesting her to use them as it is possible she may feel not as sexually adventurous as you appear to be and as you would her like to be.
It may be a good idea to back off and let her in her own time come round.
Your woman no doubt a good woman, I get the impression she is a very deep person who is more into feeling rather than play. If that is the case she wants your connection, ie cuddles, nice or sexy talk,warmth, and a nice work up to nice sex, and when she is feeling really hot , she may even surprise you.

 

[rrocks37]

You're joking, right? That's hilarious. What kind of control freaks have you been sleeping with, dear?

It's seriously ridiculous! Critiquing my hand positioning. I guess it's because they wanted to be able to see everything. But it's still ridiculous, nonetheless.

 

[ShyGuy68]

It's seriously ridiculous! Critiquing my hand positioning. I guess it's because they wanted to be able to see everything. But it's still ridiculous, nonetheless.

If I could watch you masturbate in real life, I would get turned on by it, and definately not want to tell you how to do it, just wait until it gets my turn to help you out

 

[chris9]

Can be hot for me by itself. Can be hot because a he is getting hot, and getting him hot is getting me hot. Can feel awkward. In a good or in a bad way. Depends on the situation, how comfortable I am with him, the situation in that moment in time.
Usually something I'd do only if and when he asks me to.

 

[ShyGuy68]

Can be hot for me by itself. Can be hot because a he is getting hot, and getting him hot is getting me hot. Can feel awkward. In a good or in a bad way. Depends on the situation, how comfortable I am with him, the situation in that moment in time.
Usually something I'd do only if and when he asks me to.

I would definitely ask you

 

[Dirty_Angel26]

I do on a regular basis with my husband.. but you are talking about newlyweds that are up for almost anything

 

[shy slave]

I'll gladly oblige as long as he is a silent observer. I've had guys critique my technique and try to modify my methodology and that just screws up the flow in my brain. I have been doing this for years!!

LOL

God I would slap any man who did that.

Can you imagine the reverse.
His hand wrapped around his cock whilst you say 'Faster, only go as far as the head of your cock. Don't cover the head with your hand I can't see it properly. I said faster!!'

What an image!!

Yes, I have done this. I found it embarrassing and awkward. I prefer to use toys than my hand it seems less personal somehow. OK I admit that probably makes little sense.

As for a Danish guy correcting english spelling errors...I hate it when that happens to me *sigh*

(Thank God for the google tool bar spell check button.)

 

[monique1971]

It's seriously ridiculous! Critiquing my hand positioning. I guess it's because they wanted to be able to see everything. But it's still ridiculous, nonetheless.

Although-- now that I think about it --being told what to do might be very hot. It could be a little game: "I'll direct your pleasure, and if you do as I say, you will feel very, very good." But that's a different matter from someone just telling you what to do because he thinks you don't know how to do it.

 

[pookies]

 

[pookies]

 

[rrocks37]

LOL

God I would slap any man who did that.

Can you imagine the reverse.
His hand wrapped around his cock whilst you say 'Faster, only go as far as the head of your cock. Don't cover the head with your hand I can't see it properly. I said faster!!'

What an image!!

Yes, I have done this. I found it embarrassing and awkward. I prefer to use toys than my hand it seems less personal somehow. OK I admit that probably makes little sense.

As for a Danish guy correcting english spelling errors...I hate it when that happens to me *sigh*



Danish or not, his spelling of the word is correct.. So damn the difference..

Oh I can totally imagine that. He'd get sooo pissed!! Men are funny sometimes. I also hate when they try to speed me up. Or join in when I'm just about to cum. Like, it's okay if they ask so they can finish the job but some guys are just so grabby! Hahaha.

 

[pookies]

 

[eyeretinaeye]

Nothing more sexy then to watch your lover masturbate over your face, inches away, almost close enough to dart your tongue out and touch them. Second to none is making a masturbation video for them and then leaving it in the player with a note attached; watch me. Then getting home and finding out what it waiting for you when you walk in the door.

 

[Medue69]

I love to masturbate and think its great fun. As far as my spouse forget it..he won't do it for me and doesn't like when I try to do it for him....yes I think its strange too!!

Now Its one of them things I like to fantasize about and would do with others as its fun, and what the heck it gets you super worked up...who wouldn't like a girl standing over them playing with their hot pussy and let it drip allover your face...then theres the one where I tie you up and make you watch me masturbate and not let you touch me and then I cum right in front of you......

Masturbation is just like everything else sex wise...its a persons preference..plus I think you are more open sexually if you do masturbate as then when you are with a partner you can tell them what you like etc..Plus how else do you release that stress that work gives you all day....