To Orgasm or Not? =^.^=

[AdorablySassy]

Pleasure Yourself or Not?

I'd like to know people's views about orgasm denial. Really, it’s all about orgasm control for me.

When? Where? How often?

Sometimes, I like not knowing these things in advance. I like being taken, being pumped vigorously, teetering on the edge and begging for release, not sure if I will be allowed to cum.

Wondering will I be able to stop? Do you prefer to orgasm quickly, slowly, or being denied?

To Orgasm or Not? Which brings more satisfaction?

 

[sarabrowning]

Pleasure Yourself or Not?

I'd like to know people's views about orgasm denial. Really, it’s all about orgasm control for me.

When? Where? How often?

Sometimes, I like not knowing these things in advance. I like being taken, being pumped vigorously, teetering on the edge and begging for release, not sure if I will be allowed to cum.

Wondering will I be able to stop? Do you prefer to orgasm quickly, slowly, or being denied?

To Orgasm or Not? Which brings more satisfaction?

I find orgasm denial very arousing and feel, when I finally get release it is very intense. I love the feeling of being constantly horny. Many times when I masturbate I repeatedly deny myself. I love long foreplay that drives me to the point of sexual frustration before finally being able to cum.

Denying myself for a week causes me to become irritable and very tense. At that point I usually succumb to my physical need.

With a partner (I am "bi") I like to be controlled and not know, if I am going to be permitted to cum. I am not into the BDSM scene, but like to be controlled and occasionally restrained. I also like my partner to get physical within reason on occasion. I find it arousing.

 

[Jaime_H]

Slightly different fro a guy I think. Generally we are only capable of one orgsasm before losing it, so it's more a question of timing rather than denial....

 

[AdorablySassy]

Thank you for sharing, Sara; I feel much the same way! Foreplay adds to the sensuality, lust, and passionate building, finally, culminating in a hot, carnal, climactic release.

"Purrs, pondering the satisfaction." =^.^=

 

[AdorablySassy]

Slightly different fro a guy I think. Generally we are only capable of one orgsasm before losing it, so it's more a question of timing rather than denial....

Jaime, imagine having one climax, one right after the other? Utter erotic bliss. =^.^=

*Sighs contentedly, picturing the moment.*

 

[Jaime_H]

Jaime, imagine having one climax, one right after the other? Utter erotic bliss. =^.^=

*Sighs contentedly, picturing the moment.*

I think every guy has imagined it. It would be very messy though....

 

[AdorablySassy]

I think every guy has imagined it. It would be very messy though....

The fun is always in the mess, Jaime, for after, she gets to clean it all up! *Moans as I lick my soft, pink mouth with my agile, warm wet tongue.*

 

[Bighammerfucker]

I think it's super hot but I lack the self control and get very frustrated. I've never been fully denied because of it, save for the odd time I get really aroused and can't get myself off with my hands or toys and need sex when it is unavailable in which case I find it very difficult. Such sexual frustration! I have a love/hate relationship where I always want to last longer because the sex is fantastic or whatever but at the same time I can barely handle it if I'm aroused and can't come right away I don't find that orgasms are guaranteed to be more intense after. Actually if I had to say I would say the best orgasms are always the ones if I am forced into them rather quickly after being moderately turned on for a while. I think because I'm more likely to be relaxed and enjoy it in such a state opposed to overly tense and aching and with forced orgasms you have less time to prepare so it's more surprising and pleasurable

 

[AdorablySassy]

I think it's super hot but I lack the self control and get very frustrated. I've never been fully denied because of it, save for the odd time I get really aroused and can't get myself off with my hands or toys and need sex when it is unavailable in which case I find it very difficult. Such sexual frustration! I have a love/hate relationship where I always want to last longer because the sex is fantastic or whatever but at the same time I can barely handle it if I'm aroused and can't come right away I don't find that orgasms are guaranteed to be more intense after. Actually if I had to say I would say the best orgasms are always the ones if I am forced into them rather quickly after being moderately turned on for a while. I think because I'm more likely to be relaxed and enjoy it in such a state opposed to overly tense and aching and with forced orgasms you have less time to prepare so it's more surprising and pleasurable

"Why do you feel so frustrated?" I murmur softly, my bewitching blue eyes gazing deeper in yours. "So you like the orgasms to be forced?" Rushing into a headlong, screaming abyss of deep seated, lust with an unquenchable thirst for more. *Nibbles my bottom lip, pondering.* =^.^=

 

[MatthewVett]

Orgasms are an infinite resource. Why not have as many as I can handle?

 

[AdorablySassy]

Orgasms are an infinite resource. Why not have as many as I can handle?

The more, the merrier, Matt!!!

 

[MatthewVett]

The more, the merrier, Matt!!!

That being said, there's definitely an appeal in being denied orgasm until you just can't stand it anymore. I used to have a masseuse who was *amazing* at that...

 

[sarabrowning]

An Erotic Massage...."The Big Tease"

That being said, there's definitely an appeal in being denied orgasm until you just can't stand it anymore. I used to have a masseuse who was *amazing* at that...

I have watched a couple of videos of a masseuse giving an erotic massage to a female client and the teasing and build-up of sexual tension is magnificent. Watching her breasts and mons coated with oil and the delicate fingers of the masseuse parting her wet pussy lips to torment her emerging clitoris is priceless. The moans and facial expressions are delectable, as she is continually brought to the brink and left wondering, if this is the time she will enter Shangri-La.

 

[gregy70]

I do like orgasm denial & control. My longest denial was 45 days . The most times I've edged till I produced just one drop of real cum each time without fully ejaculating was 9 times, I came huge on number 10. Ruined orgasms are also darn erotic. My favourite way to cum is while I'm on my knees naked licking a woman to orgasm & being denied for some time & I have my own orgasm just from giving oral & not even touching myself.

 

[gabriel16]

Begging

And so many women get turned on either asking for permission to cum, or being told not to, and having to beg to be allowed

 

[AdorablySassy]

And so many women get turned on either asking for permission to cum, or being told not to, and having to beg to be allowed

I agree with the posters, I do feel, I, too, get more stimulated the orgasm is delayed. Feeling the anticipation, I eagerly moan, and my warm juices drip down my satiny thigh. "Purrs."

 

[PrincepsCyberius]

Pleasure Yourself or Not?

I'd like to know people's views about orgasm denial. Really, it’s all about orgasm control for me....

I regularly employ orgasm delay of my partner as a method for enhancing both the adventure and pleasure of sex. This usually includes light bondage to emphasize and ensure the denial of the increasingly desired climax. It does not take long to learn what drives a partner nearly insane with unsatisfied lust.

In the end though, albeit sometimes after several hours of such torment, I always permit my partner the orgasm she by then so desperately needs. Orgasms are too wonderful not to include every time a couple makes love.

 

[AdorablySassy]

I regularly employ orgasm delay of my partner as a method for enhancing both the adventure and pleasure of sex. This usually includes light bondage to emphasize and ensure the denial of the increasingly desired climax. It does not take long to learn what drives a partner nearly insane with unsatisfied lust.

In the end though, albeit sometimes after several hours of such torment, I always permit my partner the orgasm she by then so desperately needs. Orgasms are too wonderful not to include every time a couple makes love.

I do, believe it heightens the experience for both partners, feeling bodies writhing and the final outcome being one of utter passionate release. Add in a little bondage, and it allows a person to relax, and gives her partner the control to pleasure or deny. Hmmmm......"Purrs; how delicious!"
=^.^=

 

[lovelygirlatin]

Most of the times I like to delay the orgasm so it'll be more intense, teasing it's a good way, love to feel I'm about to lose it but I have to hold it until lover says cum

 

[AdorablySassy]

That is the powerful catalyst to the denial of orgasms. *Sweet Purrs.* =^.^=

 

[luv2bfkd]

I like a mixture of both. Once his cock is in me I prefer to allow him total control. I want to be shown that he and his cock are the master of me and my pussy.

There are times when he’s fucking me that I’ll be getting near an orgasm and he can recognize that. Then he’ll stop his thrusting, being very still with his cock buried inside me and wait for my near orgasm to subside before he resumes fucking me. He may do that three or four times before he finally carries me over that edge and allows me to cum all over his cock. I will say those can be some very intense orgasms.

Then there are those times when he can have me really aroused, cumming again and again, one orgasm right after the other. Then he wants to have me cumming as quickly as possible. Each time I cum he’ll pause his thrusting with his cock balls deep inside me as I cum so he can enjoy feeling those uncontrolled contractions of my pussy on the length of his cock. Then he resumes with the goal of taking only a few thrusts to have me cumming all over him again. He enjoys seeing my coherence waning as he makes me cum again and again and knowing that he’s on his way to fucking me senseless.

 

[Jaime_H]

I like a mixture of both. Once his cock is in me I prefer to allow him total control. I want to be shown that he and his cock are the master of me and my pussy.

There are times when he’s fucking me that I’ll be getting near an orgasm and he can recognize that. Then he’ll stop his thrusting, being very still with his cock buried inside me and wait for my near orgasm to subside before he resumes fucking me. He may do that three or four times before he finally carries me over that edge and allows me to cum all over his cock. I will say those can be some very intense orgasms.

Then there are those times when he can have me really aroused, cumming again and again, one orgasm right after the other. Then he wants to have me cumming as quickly as possible. Each time I cum he’ll pause his thrusting with his cock balls deep inside me I cum so he can enjoy feeling those uncontrolled contractions of my pussy on the length of his cock. Then he resumes with the goal of taking only a few thrusts to have me cumming all over him again. He enjoys seeing my coherence waning as he makes me cum again and again and knowing that he’s on his way to fucking me senseless.

Very hot!!!