To get hard again quick

[shrek100]

Well I am approaching 40 yrs of age quickly.
In my younger years I could cum and be hard again in minutes. I mean literally a few minutes. these days it takes me a lot lot longer, I know this is to be expected but. . . . . I want to be able to reload faster.
Any Idea's?

 

[malefica]

Overall health plays a factor, as does genetics.

 

[Cumference]

As you say: you are getting older.
(It is generally considered to be better than the alternative)

Take care of yourself, and you will slow down the decay, but only one thing stops you from getting older, and that will really ruin your sex life.


Have you considered lasting longer?

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[NOIRTRASH]

Hit the target the first time.

 

[Primalex]

Well I am approaching 40 yrs of age quickly.
In my younger years I could cum and be hard again in minutes. I mean literally a few minutes. these days it takes me a lot lot longer, I know this is to be expected but. . . . . I want to be able to reload faster.
Any Idea's?

Use a different woman for the second time.

(This is actually scientifically proven.)

 

[SlightlyGone]

Well I am approaching 40 yrs of age quickly.
In my younger years I could cum and be hard again in minutes. I mean literally a few minutes. these days it takes me a lot lot longer, I know this is to be expected but. . . . . I want to be able to reload faster.
Any Idea's?

I got an idea for a car that changes its own tires.

 

[wdbtchr]

Something to think about!

Do you know the difference between concern and panic?





Concern is the first time you can't get it up for the second time.
Panic is the second time you can't get it up for the first time.

It's pretty much a function of aging although it doesn't hurt to get a testosterone level check.
I my twenties I could actually keep an erection after cumming, couldn't cum again too soon but cock stayed hard.
I noticed in my thirties the intervile growing, sadly never found any thing to help with the possible exception of some kind of perverted sex.
In my sixties now and can only say, "oh well, I had a good run."

 

[daddydomtoabbw]

Low testosterone is a serious issue and a genetic one, trust me. If you think it is something, have your doctor take some blood and check your levels.

 

[Ewobbit]

First, in a word, "why?" As in, why would you want to?

There is more to the male anatomy than a dick that can be used (often more successfully) to assuage the needs of your lover/s.

Second, yes a longer refractory period is a product of age. While there are things you can do, odds are really against a guy post-forty hitting the seconds he could when he was eighteen. And those odds increase logarithmically with each decade after.

So, what can you do?

1) Ask about your testosterone levels during your next check-up. If you have medically decreased testosterone, or medication decreased testosterone, then you are most likely screwed. And not in a good way. While you are at it, talk with the white coated menace about what else I'm listing below before you do it. Increasing your O2 and H2O uptake doesn't seem like it should be dangerous, but it can be when we are talking about doing so to a factor of five.

2) Diet. Cut the booze, brews, soda, and red meats. Increase water and fruits.

3) Smoking. Gotta go. Both tobacco and other leafy materials partaken by lighting them on fire and inhaling the smoke. It kills sex drive, ties up the hemoglobin that should be carrying Oxygen, and does the watusi with glandular production of chemicals you are trying to increase.

3) Exercise. You don't have to join a gym, just get your ass up out of the chair in front of the computer for a bit and use the muscles other than your left forearm. I'm not submitting this to Joe Weider so I'm not going to get all crazy listing out exercises. But, it has been my experience that a composite of strength and aerobic training is generally best.

4) Exercise that PC muscle. If you don't know where it is, next time you take a piss, lace your fingers on top of your head and stop the flow midstream. If you can't "pinch off" using just the muscle in your crotch once it starts, then that muscle is weak. Once you get a feel for just which muscle it is, work it out by flexing and releasing it often. Say ten times in a row one hundred times per day.

5) Masturbation as a workout. I don't care what we are talking about, being able to do something means doing it. Nobody just gets up and runs a five minute mile the first time they go for a jog in a decade. And nobody picks up an Ovation 12 string and hammers out a flawless ditty about Jack and Diane without a bit of practice first. Once you cum, keep going. Okay, if the skin starts abrading, it is probably time to give it up. But, up to that point, keep working it like you're going for a second shot. Do this three times every day.

6) Breathe. Sometime in Junior High, people start being concerned about their gut. What they often do is retrain themselves to breathe by lifting the shoulders and chest and not letting the abdomen expand. Congratulations, you've just cut your air to about twenty percent what it should be. It's time to take it back.

-- Lie down on the floor with something heavy (about thirty pounds give or take) resting on your navel. Now, breathe in and as you do, try to lift that weight up at least three inches just by breathing in. In through the nose for a twelve count and out throw the mouth for fourteen. Take a look sometime at how much of your torso is taken up by your lungs. When you breathe, your entire torso should expand up and out from the navel to the shoulders.

**Warning; you may get light headed after a few times. Take the weight off and lay there and breathe normally until it passes.

7) Hands on. The older a guy gets, the more tactile stimulation is going to be needed to get past the refractory period when visual or auditory alone used to do.

8) Keep your ass moving. If you give in to the weariness, it will own you. And, it will take longer for the come back if you are just lying there. Put your lips, tongue, and fingers to work. Seduce your lover all over again. Whatever. Just, whatever you do, don't flop over and lie there.

Now for some advanced shit.

9) Remember those breathing exercises and Kegels? Use 'em. About halfway through climax, pinch it off. Tighten up that PC. Tighten up those abs and breathe out long and slow. This combination will hold some of the semen back in the reservoir, giving you half a tank for the second run. **Note; this half-cum will not feel as good.

10) The more, the merrier. For some reason, which I am no closer to understanding after all this time, the more people having sex in an enclosed space, the shorter the refractory periods all around. I suspect it has something to do with pheromones and our monkey brains wanting to be Alpha. But, for whatever reason, if a couple both climaxes and they are alone, the refractory period will be longer than if, for example, there is another couple having sex in the same room.

The down side. You are talking about fucking around with virtually every neurotransmitter and chemical balance in your body. On the light end, we are probably talking stuff like depression and insomnia. Maybe some post-coital tristesse or dysphoria. On the long shot, we could (nothing proven so far as I know) be talking increased risk of Alzheimer's, Parkinson's, or other neurological crap. All shit I hadn't even heard of before I went down this road.

So, again, WHY would you want to? Just to be able to give a splash here and another splash there and maybe a third one for good measure?

From my perspective, as a male who has been multi-orgasmic in my teens and twenties then had a refractory period that was abnormally short through my thirties and forties and am just now settled into what is supposedly normal for a twenty year old this late in my life, any guy would be much better off to learn how to give their lover/s three orgasms before they even take their dick out, then have a good one and call it a day rather than do this crap to yourself.

 

[pplwatching]

Use a different woman for the second time.

Urban legend has it that President and Mrs. Coolidge were being shown [separately] around an experimental government farm. When Mrs. Coolidge came to the chicken yard she noticed that a rooster was mating very frequently. She asked the attendant how often that happened and was told, "Dozens of times each day." Mrs. Coolidge said, "Tell that to the President when he comes by."

Upon being told, the President asked, "Same hen every time?" The reply was, "Oh, no, Mr. President, a different hen every time." The President replied, "Tell that to Mrs. Coolidge."

Obligitory links :
http://www.heretical.com/wilson/coolidge.html
http://www.reuniting.info/science/coolidge_effect_2009

 

[WonderPonder]

Last year I was on a certain medication which one of the side effects caused me not to sustain erections. I got a prescription for Cialis which kept me hard plus recovery time was only a few minutes. The second time I could go forever.
Probably not what your looking for though.

 

[lilydance]

I vote to use that time for more foreplay.

But if you absolutely must, I've heard edging helps shorten the refractory period.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny---<-----that's me! The male half

I got an idea for a car that changes its own tires.

Denny------------- At my age this seems like something worth checking into.
Maybe while the car changes tires I can get another hard-on.

What really works is sucking and fondling titties. That can also be done during an automatic tire change.

Since people are always busy this automatic tire changing will have to be performed will still driving.

 

[luckyseven]

I vote to use that time for more foreplay.

But if you absolutely must, I've heard edging helps shorten the refractory period.

I'm in my mature years and have always had a high sex drive and enjoy sex whenever the opportunities arise. I'm still able to achieve and maintain a healthy erection but age now means I take longer to another erection after ejaculation.

Worried? No, as has been said focus on your partner and engage in more foreplay, that works for me. However, being committed healthy lifestyle e.g. eating well, excercising regularly, moderate alchol consumption, not smoking and most of all being less stressed also works. If I am are without a partner I go solo. I have always enjoyed masturbation and probably always will. Edging works for me; makes me last longer and I believe it does reduce the refractory period.

 

[Rollinbones]

I'm not as good as I once was but "Once" I'm better than I used to be.

I had a recent health scare which prompted me to start a fairly serious exercise and healthy eating regime. I lost about 10 kilos in six weeks which was I was pretty happy about but the real bonus was a renewed bedroom vigour.

Refractory time lowered from 3-4 hours to under half an hour which is pretty good at 46 and lets me have a break to fetch beers or check the game.

Different things for different people but for me exercise, getting off medications and de-stressing seemed to work a treat.