To cum or not to cum...

[jonnysimple]

My girlfriend and I have been going for four months now, and she is as kinky as I am, if not more, so the sex has been insanely wild and amazing. She is stunningly beautiful and a complete turn-on to me. What I have found is that after one or more hours of thrusting, she will experience MANY orgasms, but I don't have one... however... I'm completely satisfied and don't need the release. I become soft, pull out, yet I'm quite content. I do have one or more orgasms per week, yet we fuck twice a day. When I do cum, it is monumental and biblical in its intensity, lasting for upwards of 15 full seconds. Another thing; I never suffer from "blue ball" syndrome, which is common if you are aroused many times but don't cum.

One theory I have is that at my age, being 53 (she's 28), the intensity of the pleasure I get from her pleasure stimulates my mind to a degree that has the same chemical affect than an orgasm would have, but spread out over a longer period of time. Another thought is that this is a form of "tantric" sex, since I'm building up to a massive orgasm over a long period of time, only this is not confined to a single session.

My question to the men (and women) out there is... does anyone experience something similar, and would you care to share your thoughts?

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Are you

53 or 31?

 

[babslovesherdaddy]

I would think it was age related. How wonderful to be able to thrust for an hour at 53! Sounds like you have a very lucky girlfriend.


Edited to add...twice a day at that! I am in awe.

 

[Raingirl85]

If it's making you both happy then enjoy it!

For me personally my male Dom's cum is an important part of our play..I like being filled with his cum in multiple holes..he always comes at least twice during a play session. And, not just with him, but with any partner, I tend to feel incomplete, as if I have failed, and generally unsatisfied if my partner does not come at all. So your dynamic wouldn't work for me personally, but if your GF is happy and you're happy, have fun and keep doing your thing!

 

[jonnysimple]

53 or 31?

53... my year-of-birth was wrong, I've updated it!

 

[jonnysimple]

I would think it was age related. How wonderful to be able to thrust for an hour at 53! Sounds like you have a very lucky girlfriend.

Edited to add...twice a day at that! I am in awe.

LOL... 53 isn't old you know I've lasted for more than an hour, and for multiple sessions within a short period of time. The other morning, we had three sessions that lasted 30+ minutes each, and I didn't cum.