To all nice and caring Literotica Dom's *smiles*

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

soz

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[Betticus]

Looks like a thread addressed to every dom/me here.

 

[sweetlouise]

Orrr so cute x

 

[SheDevilShay]

Hehe... *nods* there's quite a few Doms here who have given me feed back and insite that have helped me understand my own better... and I really appreciate that.

 

[FurryFury]

Shit on a stick! I missed something.

*grr*

 

[midwestyankee]

Shit on a stick! I missed something.

*grr*

Maybe not. The original post was deleted less than three hours after it was first posted.

 

[FurryFury]

Maybe not. The original post was deleted less than three hours after it was first posted.

That's what I mean. I missed that post. I hate mysteries.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

explanation why this post was edited/deleted

That's what I mean. I missed that post. I hate mysteries.

you didnt really miss anything sexual FurryFury

My post was just about me saying theres some really nice male Dom's on this website, i named few of them and said that i appreciate them, but i talk too much sometimes so i deleted it all a bit after yes.

Still think the same tho, this is really a great website with some cool people around, Dom's and sub's as well. Sucky i can't say the same about BDSM websites in my own country.

I don't like BDSM sites in my own country, the peeps on it sounds just like bunch of idiots who can't wait to call someone whore and beat the shit outta them. After i have read some of those sites i understand why my man don't like it. He think we are just some weird people who likes to get beaten for some reason, he don't get it at all.

He had a friend before me who tryed get him into BDSM. She kinda tryed make him her Dom. She wanted from him to whipe her, slap her and call her names etc and actualy i would like it too, but the way she introduced BDSM to him she made it just look shit to him.

When we spoke about it few weeks ago and i've admited i am submissive and that i do understand what that girl wanted from him. He told me "I just hope you won't want me to treat u the same way cuz the last thing i miss is to beat you and call someone i love whore or a slut"

Theres things i can't still tell him, i am not so stupid like the girl before me to throw it to his face all at once. I know what i can tell him and what i can't. Some things i won't prolly be able tell him never ever and i don't mind, i love him and i won't force him to like something he don't like by himself or force him to be my Dom.

We are together for so long that i can hardly imagine i could ever consider my man my Dom. All i can do is to add some kink into our sexual life wich become quite boring after all those years. He is okay with that whats nice.

I am telling him things i like during the sex, kinky things, but only things about i am sure he will like them as well, so it works for now. I can't tell him the level of pain i like and that i get aroused when someone call me a whore while we play, he wouldn't understand that at all.

I made this topic when i was looking for some similar sites in my own country, so i could show it to my man and let him understand my likes better, but i didn't find any usable site with some "nice and caring" Dom's on it. It made me appreciate peeps on this board even more. Thats why i've started this thread.

I am glad i have found out that BDSM is not just about pain, but also about love, trust and respect. Pain given by someone who loves and cares for you is so sweet, i just love it.

 

[FurryFury]

Thanks for telling me what I missed!

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Thanks for telling me what I missed!

You are very welcome

 

[incubus_dark]

Shit on a stick! I missed something.

*grr*

You know, the Romans used to wipe their arses with sticks. The rich ones had sponges attatched to their sticks for their comfort (which the slaves washed and recycled). I always wondered about the splinters for the less affluent effluent.

Nothing to do with the thread though.