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sporty21

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Lately I've been really curious as to what its like to give head. I don't have any experience in the area, and now that I've found someone to be with, am wondering if there are any helpful tips on how to please him
 
Practice, Practice, Practice...And when you think you have it right...Practice some more :D

FF
 
I agree with the last post and just add....use your tongue, lick ,lap even whilst sucking and I think you'll be on to a winner :)
 
honestly if his cock is in your mouth he'll probably like most anything you do......except biting...ouch
 
I agree with everything said already... Just pay attention to his reactions to find out what he likes best... If he moans or grabs the back of your head, your doing just fine... And, don't forget about the balls... Too many women totally forget about the balls... ;)
 
pull gently on his balls right before he comes-will help prolong a little too!

Have fun!
 
Just one thing - if you don't think you're going to enjoy giving head, don't do it. If you think it's "icky", or demeaning, then don't go through with it, because your partner will sense your distaste - and it will make them VERY uncomfortable (or at least it SHOULD!)

IMO, a half-hearted blow-job is even worse than no blow job at all!
 
yes,watch how he reacts to what your doing.if you dont enjoy it then find another way to please him. but if you do enjoy it you will find that you just lose yourself in the moment and thats when the fun really begins...or ends.all depends.
 
Swirling. I don't know anyone who doesn't like that. Swirl your tongue around his head rotating in one direction, then switching to the other direction. Try a few flicks on the very tip in between too. Good luck!!!
 
sporty21 said:
Lately I've been really curious as to what its like to give head. I don't have any experience in the area, and now that I've found someone to be with, am wondering if there are any helpful tips on how to please him


Slowly and very very lightly, lick the shaft of his cock from under his balls to the very tip of the head. Paying special attention to the sensitive area where the around the head where it meets the shaft and the center of the underside of the shaft. Twirl your tongue around this area while sucking the head of his cock.

Make a ring with your fingers and hold the base of his cock semi-tightly. Work your mouth and hand simultaneously, so that your mouth and hand feels somewhat like a vagina. As you work your hand up, twist it around the shaft of his cock as you continue to suck. Lick and poke your tongue in the opening of his cock.

Lick his balls and take them into your mouth and hold them there for a few seconds. Tug at his scrotum with your teeth--lightly. Nibble around the head and shaft.

I like to hold my lips inn one position as I work them down the shaft while tightly holding the base of his cock with my hand. Not all men like this tight of grip, but mine does.

Take cues from how your boyfriend responds to what you're doing. His reactions will tell you alot. Ask him if he likes "this" or "that."

If you want, use some flavored oils to help lubricate and make sure he's clean. Some first time oral sexers get forever turned off from giving head because they've been with a man who's kind of smelly. Better yet, go down on him while together in the shower!! The steam and hot water sure adds to the fun!
 
there's a few stories that were written by Naked Hunny a long time ago. They helped me a bit when I was in your shoes. My man told me this weekend he's not sure if he prefers a blow job or intercourse more.


and another thing, talk about it with the person beforehand. And what I mean is to talk about the amount of experience you've both had when you're in a non-sexual moment. It may help you both to be a bit more verbal and open when the time actually comes. Remember, teeth can hurt even if you dont think you're biting hard.
 
My first-timer's mistake was being a little too eager to please. In other words, i thought i had to suck and squeeze kind of hard, but i quickly learned that's NOT the way to do it. Be gentle and follow his lead.
 
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