tips on overall sex.

[CuriousGeorgeIV]

im a male and i am fairly new to sex. i was woundering if anyone had any tips to pleasing my partner. like favorite positions...tips for certain positions,tips for oral sex...condomns...so on and so forth. just pretty much how to make it better.

 

[phoenix1224]

I would suggest getting a copy of the Kama Sutra... great position ideas... With oral sex, just pay attention to how your partner reacts to what you do... And as for condoms, use ones that are ribbed and lubed... like Trojan 'Her Pleasure'...

And just like getting good at anything, you have to practice, practice, practice...

 

[NawtylilGirl]

Your own practice will make perfect - what works for me may not for you.

Read allot of the stories on lit.

 

[Bobmi357]

Forget the Kama Sutra, forget different positions. If you want to become an excellent lover you will learn one important fact.

The woman you are making love to is a feeling, breathing person. Not merely a walking sperm receptacle.

If you learn that fact, and start taking care of her and her needs, the rest you will learn with a little practise. The rest is all mechanics.

 

[Machiavellian]

The woman you are making love to is a feeling, breathing person. Not merely a walking sperm receptacle.

I wish more men knew that... lol - I think they forget too much when it comes to sex/fucking/lovemaking - whatever you want to call it.

Remember do for her what she wants - not what you want to do!