In public, I am shy and haven't come on to other women in public. I am very in the closest, and haven't gone to any lesbian bars, etc. (Involved and he has no idea; not going to tell him.) I don't come across as interested in other women, but I'd like to. My gay-dar works, but most don't like bi gals like me. Ladies, how should I flirt with you 'cause I would love to kiss and lots more... I live in So Cal.
Tips for women flirting with women...
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hotnhotter
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It's in the eyes - the sexiest part of a woman. Hold that eye contact & she'll do the rest.
Good luck - it's worth it!!!
Good luck - it's worth it!!!
RebeccaRose
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The eyes, oh yes definitely, a lot can be said for "the look" thats for sure. 
In my experience, which I realise now is quite lacking, its never good to worry yourself too much on "the trick to successful flirting".. I think the biggest advice I can give is just go with the flow, sounds corny but don't get hung up on trying to impress or the "tips for flirting with women". That way I think you'll probably feel more comfortable with it. you know.
You say ladies don't seem interested because you're bi? I don't know many women for who that would be a turn off, but then maybe I live in a very accepting community. Either way these women don't seem like the kind of people anyone would want to associate with. Then again I can't stand unaccepting people.
Anyway lol Good luck!
Its well worth it, trust me.
In my experience, which I realise now is quite lacking, its never good to worry yourself too much on "the trick to successful flirting".. I think the biggest advice I can give is just go with the flow, sounds corny but don't get hung up on trying to impress or the "tips for flirting with women". That way I think you'll probably feel more comfortable with it. you know.
You say ladies don't seem interested because you're bi? I don't know many women for who that would be a turn off, but then maybe I live in a very accepting community. Either way these women don't seem like the kind of people anyone would want to associate with. Then again I can't stand unaccepting people.
Anyway lol Good luck!
Its well worth it, trust me.
Going to the local art museum to flirt...
Met a gal on Craigslist...I said I wanted to flirt with a girl....to see what happens. She wants more. And so do I.... Wearing a hot green sun dress and no panties or bra. She's driving all the way from Santa Barbara to Los Angeles to meet me. Can't wait!
Met a gal on Craigslist...I said I wanted to flirt with a girl....to see what happens. She wants more. And so do I.... Wearing a hot green sun dress and no panties or bra. She's driving all the way from Santa Barbara to Los Angeles to meet me. Can't wait!
Julie_in_the_north
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It's not very revelatory, I know...but I really think that when you meet someone new, you're always best off just to be yourself, to relax, be honest, not try too hard, and follow your instincts.
Easier said than done, quite often, I realise. But ultimately, it works. If you're a little shy, and you attempt special "tactics", you'll only feel more nervous and awkward.
Easier said than done, quite often, I realise. But ultimately, it works. If you're a little shy, and you attempt special "tactics", you'll only feel more nervous and awkward.
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I don't flirt with men any differently than I flirt with women. I'm very direct and honest, though, and that helps a LOT.
I know that men and women communicate a lot differently, but directness in my experience works really well with both genders. Expecting people of any gender to 'read signals' and 'get hints' to me smacks of passive aggressiveness. I'm not shy in the least, and I've always advocated that life isn't going to hand you want you want...if you want something, go after it yourself!
I know that men and women communicate a lot differently, but directness in my experience works really well with both genders. Expecting people of any gender to 'read signals' and 'get hints' to me smacks of passive aggressiveness. I'm not shy in the least, and I've always advocated that life isn't going to hand you want you want...if you want something, go after it yourself!
