tips against gagging

[Munachi]

okay, suppose you give a blow job to someone who is quite big, and you still want to take it in quite deeply, are there any ways to keep yourself from gagging too much?

 

[evesdream]

Try to lean back, make your neck a vertical column, and open your throat.

 

[Cordae]

yup thats exactly it... I usually lie on my back with my head hanging over the edge of the bed. This lines up my mouth with my throat so its all one continuous line... my SO just stands in front of me.... personally its not an every time deal, but its nice once in a while

 

[silverwhisper]

munachi: that depends, i think, upon what position you're using. evesdream made an excellent point about how to position yourself. believe it or not, there actually are books on this, IIRC. while your local library likely doesn't carry 'em, they should be available in paperback for a reasonable price, i should think.

ed

 

[Munachi]

thanks... will try that next time... it was weird, i had never before encountered problems when giving a blow job, but the other day... for some reason i just couldn't...

 

[miss_kate]

I have a little trouble with the gagging issue. For me it is not necessarily the depth of the 'sucking'. Its the repetative motion that makes my eyes water.

When you are getting ur man all excited and you can tell he is enjoying himself- and then u GAG- its not very nice!

 

[angela146]

A couple of suggestions:

There are some numbing creams that you can swallow ahead of time to numb the throat and turn off the gag reflex ex: http://store.sex-superstore.com/cgi-bin/toys2.cgi?ecode=1360101N

Try to do it on an empty stomach. That way if you do gag, you won't risk throwing up.

Also, if you can learn to tolerate the feeling, it can make it good for the guy. My husband likes it when I gag a couple of times. It's an ego stroke and he likes the feeling of my throat muscles squeezing on the head.

 

[Munachi]

hm, interesting... have you tried these creams? it seems a bit scary to me to take something that numbs a natural instinct, but i might give it a try... i'd also try to tolerate that feeling, but the problem is that in the occasion that made me post this i actually was close to throwing up, and i guess that would not really have made a good impression...

 

[rosco rathbone]

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[H0wl]

We do that too...

yup thats exactly it... I usually lie on my back with my head hanging over the edge of the bed. This lines up my mouth with my throat so its all one continuous line... my SO just stands in front of me.... personally its not an every time deal, but its nice once in a while

Lately I asked my girl to try this for me and we found out that we both really really like it...both the power exchange aspect of it and the physical sensations. The only problem with it is that my bed is low enough that I have to sort of bend my legs to get my cock low enough to go in her throat and then support myself on my hands. It's awkward but fun

 

[h_i_s]

In addition to all of the advice already offered by others, it's essential to be as relaxed as possible.

I find it easiest to hold back on my gag reflex only if i am allowed to control how much and how quickly His cock enters my throat. It's much more difficult for me to relax my throat muscles if He starts thrusting before i'm relaxed and ready.

While i have had success with the method of being on my back on the bed with my head hanging off of the edge of the mattress, i find it is easiest occomplished when HE is on His back while i lean over Him from the side, facing His feet.

This method is easiest for me in that i can press my throat down upon His cock rather than Him pushing His cock into my throat. Reaching both hands under His ass seems to help too. This allows me the ability to be the one guiding the act, and as a result, to be more likely able to relax and take it all in.

He takes no issue if i do gag, He likes it that way. Gagging makes taking the whole length impossible for me. i have no doubt He enjoys it tremendously EITHER way.

¸,ø¤º°sinn0cent°º¤ø,¸ proudly owned by, and devoted to INSIDEYOURMIND

 

[SkyyAngel]

I find a breathing rhythm through the nose is a major issue for me in not gagging.

That being said my eyes ALWAYS water during a good BJ whether I get the gag reflex or not... and my man "LOVES" the gag reflex... the tightening around the head when I'm deep throating... it's not something I can do superficially so I have to actually kinda force myself to gag a bit to do it for him.

It's no biggie... I'm not going to hork and he loves it so... I give him all I can!

 

[BlueSugar]

mind over matter.


and relax your tongue and jaw.

 

[TJmarine]

*wishes he was getting a blowjob from these ladies*

 

[Munachi]

thanks everyone... now i gotta get another date with that guy so i can try out your advice...

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

Heh. I doubt it'd be all that difficult. Hell, you could probably just call him up and tell him in your sexiest voice that you're naked and that you need his cock. He'll be banging down your door.

 

[Munachi]

well i guess it wouldn't be, but today i was very busy, and tomorrow i have two wisdom teeth taken out, so i guess that won't be the best time to practice blow jobs. ah well maybe i should call him anyway. if my face won't look too swollen.

 

[angela146]

hm, interesting... have you tried these creams? it seems a bit scary to me to take something that numbs a natural instinct, but i might give it a try...

The one I use is actually from "Kama Sutra". It's mint flavored and works kind of like a cough drop.

It doesn't actually shut off the gag reflex. It just makes it so you can't feel it in your throat so you throat doesn't know it should be gagging.

The gag reflex is there mainly to prevent a large chunk of food from getting stuck. Since the penis is actually attached to your lover (presumably), he can pull it back out or you can pull off of him.

I would also second the suggestions to have him hold still and you do the moving. That way you can control how much length you are taking.

i'd also try to tolerate that feeling, but the problem is that in the occasion that made me post this i actually was close to throwing up, and i guess that would not really have made a good impression...

That's why it's best on an empty stomach.

Keep in mind that a deep throat job is a supreme pleasure to a guy. If you take it as far as you can without choking or puking, or if you can gag once or twice, you are still giving him something that most men never receive. Any amount of deep throating is better than what he is used to.

You should expect (perhaps demand) to be treated very well in return.

 

[schaeff]

*wishes he was getting a blowjob from these ladies*

NICE COCK

 

[JustSkye]

great thread!

 

[car nut]

A couple of suggestions:

There are some numbing creams that you can swallow ahead of time to numb the throat and turn off the gag reflex ex: http://store.sex-superstore.com/cgi-bin/toys2.cgi?ecode=1360101N

Try to do it on an empty stomach. That way if you do gag, you won't risk throwing up.

Also, if you can learn to tolerate the feeling, it can make it good for the guy. My husband likes it when I gag a couple of times. It's an ego stroke and he likes the feeling of my throat muscles squeezing on the head.

My ex tried the numbing stuff, it didnt help and actually made it worse for her.