time to try some cock

[270buck]

OK my wife and I like to keep our sex life new and interesting. I love it when she dominates me making make her cum then rolling over and not letting me cum. and many other things, she has mentioned me sucking cock and being fucked. Problem is I don't know how to go about finding someone to try it with. Just can't go up to a friend and say "you want fuck".not sure bout using strangers either. she has also mentioned having two cocks , but i am not so sure I can watch another guy bang my wife.anybody have any suggestions

 

[Bigjoesy]

OK my wife and I like to keep our sex life new and interesting. I love it when she dominates me making make her cum then rolling over and not letting me cum. and many other things, she has mentioned me sucking cock and being fucked. Problem is I don't know how to go about finding someone to try it with. Just can't go up to a friend and say "you want fuck".not sure bout using strangers either. she has also mentioned having two cocks , but i am not so sure I can watch another guy bang my wife.anybody have any suggestions

Leave the room when she is being banged?

 

[Bigjoesy]

OK my wife and I like to keep our sex life new and interesting. I love it when she dominates me making make her cum then rolling over and not letting me cum. and many other things, she has mentioned me sucking cock and being fucked. Problem is I don't know how to go about finding someone to try it with. Just can't go up to a friend and say "you want fuck".not sure bout using strangers either. she has also mentioned having two cocks , but i am not so sure I can watch another guy bang my wife.anybody have any suggestions

Leave the room when she is being banged?

 

[longneckbottle3]

buy some realistic toys so she can feel the sensations and you can suck and or ride them..theres the ultra cock and ass..HIGHLY RECCOMEND IT!!! Plus the fact less chance of disease..and the possible weird feelings afterwards....you can always buy 2 of the toys and really have fun..or if you got bucks buy a male realdoll...... Just one way to play and although not fully real..can still indulge a little

 

[getacktive]

at least you are at the point where you are both on the same page thats the hardest part i want to try cock so baad but don know how to approach my gf about it because im scared she would be repulsed... wouldnt want her messing with the dude tho

 

[wv4u]

msg

watch out when she said that she wants 2 cocks.
Like most folks, they drive out of town and go to a club and pick some one up. This way no one know u and if all is over the limit (drunk) this is the time to suck cock and your wife can have cock also.

 

[rbone04]

watch out when she said that she wants 2 cocks.
Like most folks, they drive out of town and go to a club and pick some one up. This way no one know u and if all is over the limit (drunk) this is the time to suck cock and your wife can have cock also.

 

[rbone04]

OK my wife and I like to keep our sex life new and interesting. I love it when she dominates me making make her cum then rolling over and not letting me cum. and many other things, she has mentioned me sucking cock and being fucked. Problem is I don't know how to go about finding someone to try it with. Just can't go up to a friend and say "you want fuck".not sure bout using strangers either. she has also mentioned having two cocks , but i am not so sure I can watch another guy bang my wife.anybody have any suggestions

I will tell you that you'd better be damn sure you want to watch another guy bang your wife before you let it happen. Although never married, I have been involved with many men with many of my different girlfriends at the same time but it has always been something I was extremely turned on by. When/if I do get married, however, that will probably be the time in my life where I commit to only being with her and it may not be the same once I have a wife instead of a sexy fling.

As for finding a man... I would (1) NOT go with a stranger. (2) find someone you trust and KNOW is going to be open to sex with a man, otherwise you will strike out and might lose a friend. (3) there are plenty of places online for personals and plenty of clubs (if you live even remotely close to a decently large city. Being from Georgia, you have a great GLBT scene in Atl--where I am now ). (4) when you do find a candidate, GET TO KNOW THEM beyond just a night. It will pay off.

 

[pcarp]

I love all the hypocrits that want another guy so THEY can enjoy and have sex with him, but don't want the wife to do it too. You can bet if they got another woman in bed with them and their wife, they would expect to enjoy her, not just watch her and the wife.
I truly love watching my g/f and our friend have sex. It is a blast to join in and help them each pleasure the other. No matter how much fun she has with him, I know that she only has sex with him when I am there, and that when it is all said and done, she is leaving with me.

 

[getacktive]

Yeah it is true that it is hypocritical butthe fact is that some guys are not comfertable with thier wife sleeping with another guy and Im sure there's a larg percentage of guys that would be happy to have their wife suggest a threesome with another girl and not be able to touch the other girl I doubt there is a lot of guys that would be mad that thier wife wants to have sex with another girl but doesn't want him to. Just to be able to each their girl with another girl would probably be pretty arousing

 

[beachtime]

A long time ago I witnessed my wife with another guy. I was filming with a VHS camera and from the bottom of the bed I watched close up when he slid it in her. He was fucking her very slowly and I wanted him to just cum in her and be done. I came and could barely hold the camera it was so intense. Then I really wnted them to be done but it was the same slow show. I really got frustrated because I was done and felt out of place. In the following years I would always make sure to be the last to cum in a 3sm. Did not always work because of control but most of the time and it was much better.

Yeah it is true that it is hypocritical butthe fact is that some guys are not comfertable with thier wife sleeping with another guy and Im sure there's a larg percentage of guys that would be happy to have their wife suggest a threesome with another girl and not be able to touch the other girl I doubt there is a lot of guys that would be mad that thier wife wants to have sex with another girl but doesn't want him to. Just to be able to each their girl with another girl would probably be pretty arousing

 

[pcarp]

My g/f brought a female friend (Rosie) to bed with us many years ago. Rosie was not into a lot of f/f contact and my g/f knew that, she brought her for me to play with and so she could mostly watch me and her friend together. She would join in but sometimes I would watch her just sit there and masturbate watching Rosie and I. We had a few f/f/m threesomes later where we both shared the other woman equally and when we finally added another guy, it was only fair that she enjoy him too. Actually it was done mostly so she could have another guy. It was only after that she convinced me to suck his dick. I do agree about being the first to cum and then watching them, but I keep busy licking her tits or her clit and his dick. It doesn't take long to make them both cum if you try. While our new friend isn't into performing m/m he doesn't mind letting me suck him. I think one of the best things is to watch them making out as I alternate between eating her and sucking him. I love to watch them together. Sometimes if I am the first to cum, I will sit back and watch them. I understand the erotic feelings she had watching Rosie and I. I have managed to bring myself off again, just watching them. My g/f likes it from behind and loves to straddle my face so I can lick them both as he does her. Of course it doesn't matter where he cums, I know she wants me to clean it up, but she absolutely loves to watch him cum in my mouth. It is the biggest thrill to watch her play with his balls as she tells him to cum in my mouth. I love hearing her talk dirty and obviously so does he.

 

[sarod]

for sure...

yeah, I agree... if you do not want your wife or girlfriend to touch the guy, just you, and you only want yourself to touch the guy, then you aren't having any fun. Where's the fun and the turn on if she can't join? Seriously, I want to suck a cock to orgasm after the guy has pounded the fuck out of my girl and made her come, pussy on cock would be an absolutely delightful dessert, MMMMMM! Better yet, I'd love for him to fuck my girl, and then when he was close to orgasm, I'd love for my wife to go down on him and then offer me some of his cock so we could share his pussy creamed cock with our mouths, I'd love to hear her moans and tell me what a good cock sucker I was and that just watching me service our stud was makig her wet, and then right before his orgasm, I'd want my wife to go doggy style on him, with me lying down with my face below their crotches, and let him squirt his hot load into my wife and then pull out and shove his cock in my mouth down my throat and give me some yummy cum, and then let my wife drip her deposit of goods into my eager slutty mouth, afterwhich I'd lick his cock and her pussy clean. A good time had by all. Does this make me gay? No. I just want to have some good clean bi fun.

I love all the hypocrits that want another guy so THEY can enjoy and have sex with him, but don't want the wife to do it too. You can bet if they got another woman in bed with them and their wife, they would expect to enjoy her, not just watch her and the wife.
I truly love watching my g/f and our friend have sex. It is a blast to join in and help them each pleasure the other. No matter how much fun she has with him, I know that she only has sex with him when I am there, and that when it is all said and done, she is leaving with me.

 

[in4more]

I have to agree that watching someone else do your partner is a little different but if you're all three in bed that's what you're there right? I think most of the guys here that are for the most part straight want to experience sucking a cock with their woman present. I agree that lying under my wife while she's getting fucked from behind and me having my tongue on her pussy and a cock would be about as hot as it comes. I know how she likes it from behind so to know she's loving it and I'm getting to eat her pussy as she gets fucked would be a huge turn on. She'd probally be shocked that I wanted the cock in my mouth, but as said in other posts, a pussy coated cock coming in my mouth would be the ultimate turn on.

 

[AussieSailor]

I have to agree that watching someone else do your partner is a little different but if you're all three in bed that's what you're there right? I think most of the guys here that are for the most part straight want to experience sucking a cock with their woman present. I agree that lying under my wife while she's getting fucked from behind and me having my tongue on her pussy and a cock would be about as hot as it comes. I know how she likes it from behind so to know she's loving it and I'm getting to eat her pussy as she gets fucked would be a huge turn on. She'd probally be shocked that I wanted the cock in my mouth, but as said in other posts, a pussy coated cock coming in my mouth would be the ultimate turn on.

wow, I just read that 3 times and loved it more each time... If your ever in Sydney I would love to show you around

 

[in4more]

wow, I just read that 3 times and loved it more each time... If your ever in Sydney I would love to show you around

Thanks for the offer! I've always heard you Aussies were a friendly bunch!

 

[lustatopia]

To start with get a life-like dildo and bring it to bed with you and your wife. Play with it, get her to teach you how to suck on it, fuck her with it and lick the shaft of the dildo as you slide it in and out of her pussy. This will serve several purposes. If you and your wife love it, well then doing it with a real stud is the next step. And it will help both of you loosen up sexually, preparing the body and mind for the real thing.

Finding a male lover is almost too easy nowadays. The options are many. But it will all boil down in the end to either a guy who is going to be a complete stranger or someone who is or will become a family friend. Both have advantages and disadvantages. Strange cock you can find tomorrow online and pick strictly on size, shape, good looks and compatible interests. Strange cock will simply provide the sex for you and your wife with no or little emotional attachments.

Finding a guy who will be a steady lover or boyfriend is a much slower process. Like you said, it's difficult to ask an old friend if he'd like to have his dick sucked while your wife watches and/or joins in.. And of course sex added to a relationship based originally on a platonic friendship will change the dynamics of everything. Getting friends involved also means coming out at least to some of your circle. It involves an emotional dimension which will transcend the simple dirty sex aspect. Some people relish this, but it is entering the pool from the deep end.

I've known many couples in your situation. What often happens is the husband and wife team have a few MFM relationships and this ends up supplying their sex life with fantasies enough to carry them for years, often for the rest of their lives.

As a beginner you should consider that this may in the end be what you are looking for--a little bit of kinky experimentation to spice up an already quite hot and satisfactory relationship rather than a major life style shift to bisexual polyamory.

I would recommend going for the quick, dirty and easy strange cock. Arrange a meeting at a bar or restaurant. If everything feels right go to a motel room or home and fuck your brains out. Then say good night. In the days and weeks afterwards you can decide whether you two should continue on your adventure, none the worse for wear. Good luck!