Tightness

[Chemscout]

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[VelvetDarkness]

It's not affected by either, it's an orifice with a certain tightness and depth. Women's vaginas are no more shaped by the penis they fuck than their tits are by the man that mauls them.

What planet do you live on exactly?

 

[Chemscout]

What planet do you live on exactly?

You know...the planet where I don't have a vagina and have to rely on information from others.

 

[FriendlyDude]

The previous reply is correct. Tightness is largely a product of a woman's natural body. However there are powerful muscles at play that can be a factor.

Often, extreme tightness can be caused by a woman not being comfortable with her partner. Sometimes this is something that can be addressed through a little talking. Sometimes it's something more.

 

[mynameiskate]

That's right. A woman's tightness has nothing to do with the guy's penis.

 

[Chemscout]

Thanks for the answers, I appreciate them.

 

[horsie_gurl]

You know...the planet where I don't have a vagina and have to rely on information from others.

lol

 

[infinity706]

Honestly, I think the assumed virginal tightness is more the result of not knowing what the fuck you're doing and going for penetration without the woman being ready for it. Afterall, a dry pussy/ass would feel a lot tighter than one that's well lubricated. When you push into someone without enough wetness, it's going to hurt and the muscles are going to contract because of it.

 

[WriterDom]

They squeeze out babies for christ sakes. Your cock is a pencil compared to a baby.

 

[Luna_Bella]

lol Muscles!!!! It's all about the muscles and the physical composition of a woman!! Nothing to do with any penis....

But pelvic exercises may help to tighten up the muscles
look up "Kegels"

 

[Derya]

you guys tickle me

nature and muscles......

 

[satindesire]

There is one thing I want to add here:

Not only how much or how little sex a woman is or isn't having have nothing to do with her vaginal tightness, vaginas are much like penises (penii? Er, the plural of penis. Someone help me out here...?! ) in their general size and shape. Some are larger, some are smaller, but most are average in size.

Therefore, you can assume that much like the fact that the average penis will be a certain size, so will the average vagina.

 

[Cattypuss]

penises (penii? Er, the plural of penis. Someone help me out here...?! ) .

Strictly, going with the Latin, "penes".

I prefer "cocks"

 

[Chemscout]

So a woman can have tons and tons of sex and not loosen up permanently? That's interesting. I appreciate these responses so far, thank you for taking the time to post.

 

[satindesire]

Strictly, going with the Latin, "penes".

I prefer "cocks"

I prefer the word Penis because I can say it in polite company and not get looked at funny.

Did you know that puritanical Americans made up the word "Rooster" to describe a male chicken because they were uncomfortable with the word "cock"?

So a woman can have tons and tons of sex and not loosen up permanently? That's interesting. I appreciate these responses so far, thank you for taking the time to post.

Yes.

A man's penis doesn't change when he has a lot of sex. Why would a woman's vagina?

 

[fallingwindows]

This thread makes me happy. I lost my v-card a few months ago and I was the tightest he'd ever had (me being an uncomfortable virgin). He and I were sure though that the more sex a girl has in general the looser it gets.
I'm happier informed.

 

[testosterone1]

I have heard of women having babies and losing their tightness.Sometimes they need to have a procedure to tighten them back up.I have also heard of women who have to get adjusted to men who are larger so even though the vagina is elastic,I can only assume that they can adjust in size. A good example is a girl who is a virgin that may need to adjust if she has a big partner.They need to go slowly sometimes over a month and lube everything up with a lot of KY jelly or other lubricant. Guy's are instructed to go very slowly over the days putting more and more of his penis each time. Before long, they have no problems at all. But this is very much not the norm.
Also girls that have had larger guys and then get a small partner needs to do
Keggle exercises to help feel their new smaller partner.

 

[satindesire]

Yes, vaginas are quite elastic little structures. It's true that after vaginal delivery, a woman must do her kegels to hasten the toning of the muscle structure. And yes, a woman can grow accustomed to her larger partner, absolutely. But the AMOUNT of sex has nothing to do with what her vagina does. It's basically like training a muscle, if you are doing one thing with it all the time (Having sex with a larger man) then those muscles get trained to accept that stretching with little difficulty. I've been with my husband for a few years now and we still have a little trouble sometimes, but we've both learned to be more careful, and I have noticed a marked improvement pain-wise compared to the first few months of our sex life.

It's amazing what that thing can do!

 

[testosterone1]

Gosh I wish I had your problem

 

[satindesire]

Gosh I wish I had your problem

Pain during sex? Why on EARTH would you want that?

Believe me, our size mismatch makes sex much less enjoyable. I'm not fudging the facts to brag about his penis, and I'm not lying to pad smaller guy's egos. I genuinely hate having to lug around lube, I hate having to be so damn careful all the time, and I hate it when I get dry mid-sex and can't do it anymore because I get so raw I bleed.

That is NOT FUN, okay? Not the kind of problem you want sweetheart.

 

[testosterone1]

I was referring to myself being bigger. My wife and I had painful sex in the beginning and it was totally frustrating. I was trying my hardest to please her and all I did was cause her pain.

 

[satindesire]

I was referring to myself being bigger. My wife and I had painful sex in the beginning and it was totally frustrating. I was trying my hardest to please her and all I did was cause her pain.

Ah, well, then you probably meant to reference my husband instead of me.

 

[embarassment]

See being a somewhat smaller man down there I have never had that problem. I do feel though that the only person I was with was either to comfortable with sex or just had a very large vaginal cavity (is that the write terminology), because I didn't really feel all that much. I hate to say it like this but I kinda understand the saying of "Throwing a hot dog down a hallway."

 

[TeriGirl1983]

Nature and nuturing...

As someone who used to worry about this, I am happy to report that while nature gives you what you've got, learning to use your muscles is very important in both directions.

If you're small, you can with practice with the right partners or toys, and learn to expand yourself pretty well. If you don't and something big comes along it can really be painful - not too different from anal, really.

Keep those muscles in shape. I Kegel when I run and when I'm doing yoga, and of course during. I've found it's very appreciated by anyone and everyone who is on the receiving end.

I've also heard that a girl with a larger vagina can exercise and "tighten up" when necessary. As someone who is very sensitive and orgasm from vaginal stimulation as well as clitoral, I'd think that this would help people with problems there as well.

I'm not a real doctor, but I enjoy playing it.

Love and Kisses,

Teri

 

[Firebrain]

It is down to nature, as others have said - much like penis size. Kegels can help somewhat but only so much. I am very fortunate - I gave birth and snapped back almost tighter but then I have always had really strong muscles down there. I know women whose lady bits were totally slaughtered by birth, tis pot luck.

Women don't get 'looser' from having lots of sex but a sexually aroused girl will feel looser, and I guess that's where the more derogatory assumption comes from.