Tied down and blindfolded

[Cytra]

If your partner were to blindfold you and tied you down to a bed or chair, what is it that you'd like her or him to do to you? I want to do this to my partner, but this activity seems to be pretty limited. I want to try something innovative that I know he'll enjoy and has never really experienced. If this has been done to you, I'd love to hear about experiences...

Whip cream anyone?

 

[sabbathstorm]

I've actually done this to my partner. I teased him unmercilously for about an hour with my hands,tongue, ice, whipped cream...mmmm. When I finally set him free, he attacked

 

[WaxNWane]

I'm a restrainer, not a restrainee...but I can suggest that you not neglect the senses you leave the person. Actually, take advantage of them.

Especially prick their hearing...walk around them, rattle things, turn pages, anything to get their brain wondering if that's something you're about to do to them.

If it sounds appealing, bring it some good food - chocolates are good - and do something like that '9 1/2 Weeks' scene. Adding some, um, natural juices to things can be good (nothing sexier than a girl who likes the taste of herself).

And don't forget touch - same concept as the food, run different things in different places and let them guess...or wonder where you're going to put it next.

 

[MissVictoria]

My husband and I have done this on occasion to each other. We usually just explore the other senses. Touching with different things, etc.

 

[cherrylips_au]

Cytra as you know your partner best let your imagination run wild.
I agree with what has been mentioned about taking advantage of the senses he has left to him.
Hearing what you are doing, whisper in his ear, make him try to guess what you are doing to yourself just by listening.
Smelling different aromas, does he have a favourite ? use scented massage oils, if using foods to play with tease him with the smell of it before tasting.
Tasting let him taste something new maybe, even sucking your juices off your fingers, foods that you can play with and feed him.
Touching use whatever you have, silk, satin, velvet, ice, hard objects, soft objects, feathers, your toys if you have some.
Make it enjoyable for both of you treat his whole body to this pleasure.
Hope you both have lots of fun.

 

[SallyIsHere]

warm and slow

I don't like ice on me when tied down. I like warm things. My best experience was when I sat in a chair with my arms lightly tied behind me. He put warm oil on me, the insides of my thighs and my nipples. Light circles around my nipples, then gently tugging and twisting them. It was incredible and intense. I kept my panties on and that was sexy to. Feeling his fingers play around the edges of my panties was so hot. He went so slow and talked so sexy and nasty that I lost control. He rubbed his cock on my nipples, my neck and all over my face. I sucked him and he told me how sexy I looked with his cock in my mouth. He rubbed his cock on my panties while playing with my nipples. I turned into a quivering begging slut and it made us both so hot to build tension like that. One of my favorite memories.

 

[CuriouslilQT]

Sally...man o man...sounds like a real good time.
I definately going to share your experience with my man.

 

[jubilee]

I don't think your really limited when you do it. Maybe with a chair it can be a little difficult to go all the way, but still your senses (the one woh is blindfolded) get better and she/he will become more sensitive and receptive. And if you don't want to be so limited try it with tieing your partner to the be but let her/him some room to move (still really tie her/him but just a longer bond) that'll literally leave enough space for both of you.

 

[Wizard]

Cytra, I lot of goos advise posted here.........Just wanted to let ya know that there is much more advice on the BDSM section.......Check it out when you have time.

 

[coolr]

I've actually done this to my partner. I teased him unmercilously for about an hour with my hands,tongue, ice, whipped cream...mmmm. When I finally set him free, he attacked

lol damn........ got any plans like that for me?

 

[sabbathstorm]

lol damn........ got any plans like that for me?

I really don't know if you could handle it

 

[coolr]

I really don't know if you could handle it

me not handle it?? you obviously don't know me well enough hehe

 

[sabbathstorm]

me not handle it?? you obviously don't know me well enough hehe

Hmm well maybe not....but that could change

 

[coolr]

Hmm well maybe not....but that could change

like i always say, gimme a few years

 

[sabbathstorm]

At the rate I'm going, I'll be a nympho by then

 

[coolr]

At the rate I'm going, I'll be a nympho by then

seeing other ppl than your partner are you???

 

[sabbathstorm]

seeing other ppl than your partner are you???

Check your PM box....

 

[coolr]

whoo!!!!!

 

[sabbathstorm]

whoo!!!!!

Down boy

 

[coolr]

Down boy

hard to when i'm talking to you

 

[sabbathstorm]

hard to when i'm talking to you

I'm really going to have to work on restraining you then aren't I? Where did I put those cuffs?

 

[coolr]

I'm really going to have to work on restraining you then aren't I? Where did I put those cuffs?

as long as you let something else loose *looks down*

 

[sabbathstorm]

Looks like I left you tied up too long

 

[coolr]

Looks like I left you tied up too long

and you didn't even act on it....... for shame

 

[sabbathstorm]

and you didn't even act on it....... for shame

Maybe I enjoy making you wait....maybe it's all part of a big game