Ticklishness

[tanyachrs]

What do you do with someone who's ticklish right where you want to play with them? It's kind of curtailing my fun since giggling is not the reaction I was looking for. Anyone ever had any luck desensitizing someone or training it out of them? Unfortunately neither of us has a tickling fetish.

 

[Chicklet]

I'm quite ticklish.

I find, however, that when I'm aroused, and in the right mood, I can psyche myself out of it. Or else i just forget how ticklish I am.

I say, keep trying, and eventually you'll come across a time when your partner isn't as sensitive to the tickles.

 

[Tuomas]

Ticklishness is a threshold thing; if you press a little harder, or a little lighter, it doesn't tickle, but feels different. Like your feet.... they aren't ticklish when you walk on them, but a light touch like a feather...

But, then it depends on the spot and the play you are doing to it... maybe that's not an option ...

 

[raven_wish]

not to pry
but maybe giving us the location would help
the location of the ticklish spot where youd rather play, that is

 

[tanyachrs]

The main areas of concern are stomach and neck and the play at this point is only what should be pleasurable (kissing, licking, etc.). I've tried harder and softer, more or less sucking, teeth, etc., and yes, he seems to get a little less ticklish as he gets more aroused but we've had him pretty aroused and he's still jumpy. It makes me feel like my access to him has been limited and I don't like that.

 

[myinnerslut]

i am very very tickelish in my every day life. my friends know that if they touch my stomach or side in the right spot ill be curled up on the floor in hysterical luaghter. for some reason, Sir never (unintentionally) tickles me when he touches me. im just glad he likes to make me squirm in other ways, becuase if he tried to, he would have me on the floor luaghing for as long as he wanted, and i would be one very tired and frustrated sub.

as to your question, i really dont know if ther is anything you CAN do to make him less tickelish

 

[Tuomas]

The main areas of concern are stomach and neck and the play at this point is only what should be pleasurable (kissing, licking, etc.). I've tried harder and softer, more or less sucking, teeth, etc., and yes, he seems to get a little less ticklish as he gets more aroused but we've had him pretty aroused and he's still jumpy. It makes me feel like my access to him has been limited and I don't like that.

I see. Well, what I did for a girl who was very ticklish in her stomach, I would rub my hand over the area first (because that wouldn't tickle her), and then kiss it. After a while she got used to it...

 

[lne_iii]

Heh, I find ticklishness to be very arousing...but then again...that's one of my biggest fetishes.

-shrug-

And tickling a ticklish person can be very dominating (at least I think so.)

 

[Chicklet]

Heh, I find ticklishness to be very arousing...but then again...that's one of my biggest fetishes.

ugh, for me, being tickled is one of my biggest turn offs... sorry to hijack = )

 

[Aeroil]

haet... tickling.....

Tickling is listed as one of my Banes... it R VERY BAD MEN

 

[raven_wish]

i am quite ticklish on my neck too
what my hub does is bite me REALLY hard there first
i am talking some pain here
not a lil bite or even a medium one
immed teeth imprints and bruising for a week are the after affects <not that i am complaining>
but its never ticklish after that

i saw you had already tried biting but not sure how hard
and this is what works for me

 

[FurryFury]

I happen to enjoy that he is so easy to get jumping most of the time.

For a very long time I was ticklish in several key areas to the point that I not only would scream and squirm but would start blocking too.

I now know that for me (and yes I'll say up front I'm probably not your normal girl,) my shyness and ticklishness had to do with a lot of forced sex from my ex. My body just handled it that way.

Once I discovered cyber and my libido which was already high sky rocketed, that shit was gone. I wasn't ticklish at all I was wide open and wet and wanting ALL the time and anything.

God I miss those days.

If I didn't cyber for a while it returned somewhat. That made me angry at myself. So building desire and acceptance helped me. It might not work that way for someone else.

I REALLY enjoy a good bite in the right spot on the back of my neck while being doggie fucked though. *pants*

Now when he goes near areas that had been no no's, I just buckle down and take it most of the time even if I'm in a ticklish mood. I can control myself if that's where he wants to go. I hate being that way, it signals a closing off of me that I don't want.

Not sure this will help at all in your situation though.

Fury

 

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