THTM: Two-Hour Torture Method

[rexfelis]

Here's another two hour torture method I "discovered" this morning.

Have someone come over to your house who is extremely sexy, and then have her tease you mercilessly while you are supposed to be teaching her. Then, don't have sex with her and don't masturbate because you don't have time.

That's what I call a two hour torture method.

Ouch.

Maybe I should add in the time I was horny as hell and say it's the four hour torture method.

 

[Miltone]

Four hours! Ouch!

That qualifies as an absolute form of torture my poor friend!

Having taught school for a few years and having worked as a tutor prior to that during college, I know exactly what you are talking about. There was one particularly gorgeous young woman whom I suspected of doing it on purpose, but that is the subject of another posting in the story section.

 

[foxxxyred]

Here's another two hour torture method I "discovered" this morning.

Have someone come over to your house who is extremely sexy, and then have her tease you mercilessly while you are supposed to be teaching her. Then, don't have sex with her and don't masturbate because you don't have time.

That's what I call a two hour torture method.

Ouch.

Maybe I should add in the time I was horny as hell and say it's the four hour torture method.

I see i have some competition! *sigh*

 

[rexfelis]

I see i have some competition! *sigh*

I would hardly call her competition. Not only would that be unethical, but there is a difference between having physical responses to being teased and having feelings for someone.

Big difference. You should know that.



I have missed you.

 

[foxxxyred]

I would hardly call her competition. Not only would that be unethical, but there is a difference between having physical responses to being teased and having feelings for someone.

Big difference. You should know that.



I have missed you.

Of course i know there is a difference.

I also know that it's very hard for me to hold a man's interest for very long! lol And you should know that too.

I miss you. Thinking of you probably more than i should xox

 

[rexfelis]

Of course i know there is a difference.

I also know that it's very hard for me to hold a man's interest for very long! lol And you should know that too.

I miss you. Thinking of you probably more than i should xox

I think you are worrying too much. You are going to find out just how patient I can be. If anyone should be worried, it should be me.

 

[apple3141]

Extended Massive Orgasm

I have seen posts on other sites dealing with this.

One post on a women's site instructed women how to achieve this for themselves, with the aid of a vibrator called "The Bullet".

There is a definitive article on cunnilingus on the sexuality site, which tells the licker how to use tongue and fingers to bring the lickee to an orgasm, the duration of which is limited only by exhaustion. This is achieved by stimulating the clitoris only lightly, concentrating attention on the G-spot instead.

In the January issue of "Marie Claire" is "The Secrets of the 60 Minute Orgasm". This is a reporter's account of a demonstration. The demonstrator was a 51 year old man, the subject, his 60-something wife. He used only his fingers, with a little lubricating jelly at the outset.

Surprisingly, a post on the women's site, drawing attention to these three sources of information concerning EMO showed women to be uninterested, even hostile. "Who's got time to lie about for an hour, having orgasms?" ; "If I've got to lie around having lots of orgasms, I'm outa there!"

The people in white coats with the stopwatch and the clip-board determined that the female orgasm, on average, took 5 to 8 seconds. (Kinsey) This is the Short Normal Orgasm (SNO)

The web is wide open to all and now the Marie Claire Article is accessible to millions, it seems likely that many, many women are experiencing EMOs. Or will be shortly.

Questions arise.

The first concerns sexuality. If a woman has experienced EMO a few times, would she be inclined ever to return to a Short Normal Orgasm (SNO)? With or without a partner? If both partners are female, they could induce EMOs each in the other. If one is male, sex in the relationship becomes very one sided, there is no equivalent EMO for men, it seems . Is this the end of heterosexual sex as we know it?

The second concerns body biochemistry. Orgasm triggers some massive releases of powerful chemicals into the circulation. The chief of these, as best I know, are adrenalin, sex hormones, endo-morphines, and particularly oxytocin. A lot of that stuff finishes up in the brain. It can cause fainting, right? Now, instead of the SNO's 8 second squirt of these drugs, they are being secreted for an hour or more. Is this likely to produce any long-term side effects? - thinking along the lines that there's no free lunch. The Marie Claire article says that the 60 odd year old, at the end of an hour, sat up flushed and energetic, looking 20 years younger, and feeling hungry. There may be no reason to fear.

 

[Miltone]

EMOs: Is it the end?

Does this mean the end of heterosexual sex as we know it? My God, I hope not! What have I gone and done now?!!

BTW, George, glad to see your post here! Thanks for your post and the excellent information contained therein. Your questions do provoke some thought.

All joking aside, I would hope that what we are discussing in this thread will be considered another toy to be taken out on certain occasions when the partners have the time and inclination. From my own unscientific experience I have found that some women are up to it for an hour or more, whereas others are more than ready to move on after 15 or 20 minutes. One of my main reasons for starting this thread was to help make men aware that prolonging foreplay via oral sex and stimulation of the other erotic zones of the woman's body can make the eventual intercourse portion of the experience even more sensational for both partners. It is not meant as a substitute for intercourse, only as a way to help make it better.

The youth and vitality inducing of such extended orgasms are certainly something I'd love to read more on, and I certainly hope that there are researchers out there examining male sexuality for a companion response.

Thanks again, George!

 

[howie448]

THTM

I would volunteer to be the GIVER for any females wanting to be the Recipient. I'll pop a couple of VIAGRA as we begin (it takes about 1 to 2 hrs to take effect, right?). About the time it does work, I'll be pleasently munching away and THEN we will both be ready for the next stage. Any takers in No. Va. area?

 

[rexfelis]

Very interesting... EMO... I wonder if I have ever done that. to a woman. It's been too long for me to remember. But I am thinking sex is one sided enough as it is, the way I do it. lol

 

[vooodoo]

Hi everyone

I thought i'd share my experience with a young lady I went out with for 2 years.

We would often spend the whole weekend without leaving the bedroom for anything but food. Sometimes she would be coming for hours on end. I wasn't clocking it or anything but i'd guess 2.5 - 3 hours sometimes. Now I don't mean coming non stop for that long, but definantly having constant stimulation of some sort.

I've been with a couple of women who were similar like that but couldn't go quite as long.

And as for me......I've lasted maybe 1.5 hours with 2 orgasms, but I was a mess afterwards hehe



WHERE ATTENTION GOES........ENERGY FLOWS

 

[Miltone]

Another Brother Testifies ...

I have the suspicion that there are a few of us out there who in their own way have been propagating this concept. Unfortunately, not enough of our brothers are tuned in. Glad to hear that you and your woman have enjoyed!

And Rex, how is that walk on the water going? You sure have a sweet lady waiting on the other end ...

Perhaps after this weekend, I may have a research report on the EMO condition. Enjoy, everyone!

 

[rexfelis]

Re: Another Brother Testifies ...

And Rex, how is that walk on the water going? You sure have a sweet lady waiting on the other end ...[/B]

She has requested that I stand and wait.

I shall do that.

 

[Miltone]

Re: Re: Another Brother Testifies ...

She has requested that I stand and wait.

I shall do that.

Spoken as a true gentleman! There aren't many of us around it seems these days, so my hat is tipped in acknowledgement!

 

[rexfelis]

Re: Re: Re: Another Brother Testifies ...

Spoken as a true gentleman! There aren't many of us around it seems these days, so my hat is tipped in acknowledgement!

When one discovers a diamond, red and rare, nearly flawless, and of as many carats as she is, (grin) it is inconceivable that such a time as I must wait would not be worth waiting, even if in the end it is just to have a closer look.

If, in the end, we are just friends, I will still be a richer person for having met her. Friends or more than friends, though, I still win.

 

[notenufsx4me]

Holy shit! Some time this year i hope to finish my story "Two Pennies Revenge" about this very thing based on a real life happening.

The handcuff markes faded after a couple of days!

 

[Miltone]

Tipping the hat some more ...

When one discovers a diamond, red and rare, nearly flawless, and of as many carats as she is, (grin) it is inconceivable that such a time as I must wait would not be worth waiting, even if in the end it is just to have a closer look.

If, in the end, we are just friends, I will still be a richer person for having met her. Friends or more than friends, though, I still win.

My hat is still tipping, my friend. And if the Lovely Miss K doesn't realize what sort of gentlemanly prize is awaiting her on these shores, then I will be most surprised. So let's hear from you foxxxxy, have you got a plan? I sure hope so.

And notenuf, this thread is about real stuff! I'd love to see you finish your story so we could all share it. I'm working on my own as a matter of fact and will keep all posted. BTW they do have padded cuffs or restraints, which I have found are an important accessory in these sorts of encounters. This is unless they really want the scars ...

 

[rexfelis]

Re: Tipping the hat some more ...

My hat is still tipping, my friend. And if the Lovely Miss K doesn't realize what sort of gentlemanly prize is awaiting her on these shores, then I will be most surprised. So let's hear from you foxxxxy, have you got a plan? I sure hope so.

Gentlemanly prize! Indeed. You honor me too much, Miltone.

I think she realizes what she has in me. But circumstances make things difficult. Que sera, sera. (sp?)

I think the odds in this situation are far too high for this to be a chance meeting.

Now it's time to surrender, and trust in the universe for a while.

 

[Miltone]

Re: Re: Tipping the hat some more ...

Now it's time to surrender, and trust in the universe for a while.

Very good point! Perhaps it's good to remember that favored things come more easily when unexpected. Now if you'll excuse me, I'm about to embark upon my own journey to redheaded wonderland! Fortunately for my own sake it is only across town not the Pacific!

 

[rexfelis]

Re: Re: Re: Tipping the hat some more ...

Very good point! Perhaps it's good to remember that favored things come more easily when unexpected. Now if you'll excuse me, I'm about to embark upon my own journey to redheaded wonderland! Fortunately for my own sake it is only across town not the Pacific!

You lucky, lucky bastard. lol

 

[petrel]

Just a quick 'two cents worth' I have a lover who is more than happy to give oral - in fact he says that he enjoys the giving process mroe than receiving for all sexual acts. However i find that i can get uncomfortably sensitive really quickly and that i rarely feel like more sex afterwards. I am unsure of how to tell my partner that i am uncomfortable or that he is too rough, too gentle whatever without insulting him -
come on guys help me out - how would you want oyur partner to inform you of things?

 

[Miltone]

Being honest gently ...

Let me see if I can help you out, Petrel. One thing that I'd like to mention is that the THTM does not mean oral exclusive of other techniques of foreplay and non-coital interplay. Oral can be a big part of it and I have found some females can realistically accept only so much vaginal and clitoral stimulation before they need some rest or diversion before moving on to intercourse or some such. Perhaps encouraging other forms of contact and stimulation by exporing other sensitive regions of your body might also help keep you ready for a great Act III climax.

I think bottom line is that you have to be honest with your guy, and this is the challenge you're facing: How do I tell him without hurting his feelings? There are two ways to try and do it, non-verbal, by showing him how you want him to touch you, and verbal, by telling him. If you choose the latter, I think you must be careful in your approach, making certain that you reassure him that you love what he is doing, but that you are ready for something different. Being positive and complimentary and encouraging him to do something else goes much farther than saying "Don't do that anymore."

I hope this helps. Are there anyother ideas out there?

 

[rexfelis]

Of course there are.

This seems to be a common problem. I, Dr. Kitty, will help you out. lol

In my experience, there are several ways to go about doing what it is you wish to do.

Perhaps the least likely to cause any trouble, but requiring the most skill, would be the method of my second highschool sweetheart. Her way of doing it was to turn it into something mysterious by only giving me meaningful looks, while she showed me what she wanted in a way that made it seem like an adventure. Exactly how she did that is not something I can express any better than I have.

What I personally prefer a woman to do is say to me, RexFelis (because that's my handle here and I'm not using my real name), I want to show you how you can do what you are doing even better. (That "even" will say he's doing a good job already and make him more receptive to your suggestions.) Embellish as you please. Most guys do not mind being shown how to please their lover "even more". In fact, most guys will jump at the chance to become a better lover if you present it in the right way, because being a better lover means more bragging rights. For instance, I'm the best there is. See?

(LMAO - expressing my ego as a joke is a good way to express it without taking it seriously. )

You can also tell him you want to play a role playing game. You tell him that you are going to be the teacher and he is going to be the student in highschool (or whatever) and then end up very explicitly showing him how you like it done by doing it to yourself. This is somewhat subtle, and is not guaranteed to be followed right away. If he does not follow, you can (as the 'teacher') show him how to do it just like you were doing it, or to the same effect.

You could use the dead blunt approach. "John, what you're doing isn't what I want you to do. Here's how to do it the way that I want it done." This does not go over too well usually, and you have probably already ruled this out.
There are other ways of going about it, but I must go do something away from the keyboard right now, so I have to end it here. *sigh*

Hope this helps.

 

[petrel]

thank oyu both for the tips - you may be seeing a fully satisfied and purring petrel on here in the near future!

 

[Miltone]

thank you both for the tips - you may be seeing a fully satisfied and purring petrel on here in the near future!

I anxiously await the sound of satisfied purring! Best of luck to you both!

And thanks Rex for the wonderful contibution! BTW, I have used your "teacher" method with astounding results.