Threesomes

[vibes]

I'd also love it if the guys were comfortable enough with their sexuality to suck each other off while i watched.

This new (to me) definition of homosexuality made me smile

 

[saylervee]

I did regret it each morning a bit, asking myself what type of girl I was.

A very sexy, liberated one, who won't be looking back regretfully on missed opportunities.

 

[HotHelen]

This new (to me) definition of homosexuality made me smile

why are people so hung up on labels?

i see so many "hetero" guys drooling over fucking a chick's ass, as if that's not borderline gay. And don't get me started on the double-standard of guys getting off watching two girls go at it!

 

[vibes]

why are people so hung up on labels?

On the contrary, and that is what I meant with my smile

Uhm ... as far as the ass goes, wanting to feel more friction because of its tightness doesn't make one gay ... as far as double-standard instead, to my own surprise, I read on Lit of more and more ladies confessing to being aroused by two guys go at it

 

[lynn-23]

Hun, she used it as an excuse......... If she hadn't had a desire for women she wouldn't have switched sides. You were an excuse to her frail little ego.

I LIVE in a permanent MFF relationship. It works for the three of us.

That is very interesting Wyldfire. I would love to hear more about your situation.

 

[lynn-23]

I have had several threesomes, all MFM so far, with hetero males. The experiences have been sexually amazing, with the ability to make me have wild orgasms enhanced by the fact that there are two men, two cocks, two tongues and four hands to give me pleasure. At the same time I find the ability to pleasure two mean at the same time, in a spit roast position for example, to be wildly erotic.

Mentally I try not to think of it as anything more than intensely erotic and pleasurable sex for us all.

I will certainly do it again in the future, at every opportunity I get!!

Best way to orgasm - being slowly fucked doggie position from behind, as I am sucking the second guy's cock and he is licking me. I have cum wildly in that position many time during threesomes.

Wow, interesting. Who have you done the mmf with? The same guy? How did it first get started? Who suggested it?

 

[vibes]

Wow, interesting. Who have you done the mmf with? The same guy? How did it first get started? Who suggested it?

I often wonder how these situations start out too

 

[Joankraig]

MFM's are our favorite sexual activity. I love the attention - two mouths, four hands, two cocks, lots of cum. My husband loves to watch and join in. I know this is how we will welcome in the New Year.

 

[marriedpervs]

Wow, interesting. Who have you done the mmf with? The same guy? How did it first get started? Who suggested it?

Hi Lynn,

The mmf's have been with a number of different guys. To be honest, I actually prefer when it has been a stranger that my hubby and I have 'picked up' when out or on vacation to add a little spice to our marriage. The threesomes with friends have always resulted in wild sex, but a little weird afterwards for some reason.

First get started?? Wow, the first time was totally out of the blue after a party with friends. We stayed over at a friend's place, and there were four of us, two couples, in the spa. The other wife went to bed and the three of us ended up towelling each other off in their lounge room, and we just went from there. It was crazy good sexually because it was completely spontaneous.....

 

[Wyldfire]

That is very interesting Wyldfire. I would love to hear more about your situation.

Well, the three of us are in a poly relationship Lynn. I married him a time back, and to keep it on the fair side he and I divorced so Kitty could marry him. I never changed my last name back to my maiden name so we all legally have the same last name, and he is the legal father to all five of the kids as he sired all but my eldest, whom he adopted while we were legally married.

The kids just think of it as they have two moms and all the other families out there is at a disability.... We've had three different kids functions to attend at one time and we managed it just fine......

 

[lynn-23]

Well, the three of us are in a poly relationship Lynn. I married him a time back, and to keep it on the fair side he and I divorced so Kitty could marry him. I never changed my last name back to my maiden name so we all legally have the same last name, and he is the legal father to all five of the kids as he sired all but my eldest, whom he adopted while we were legally married.

The kids just think of it as they have two moms and all the other families out there is at a disability.... We've had three different kids functions to attend at one time and we managed it just fine......

Thats amazing Wyldfire. Never any jealousy? Everything working great? Love to PM if you want.

 

[Wyldfire]

Thats amazing Wyldfire. Never any jealousy? Everything working great? Love to PM if you want.

My PM box is almost always open hun...... And no lealousy at all between us girls. We were an item before we met him..... And what does he have to be jealous of? Having a pair of ex-dancers that adore him with all their hearts?

Drives these country folk crazy trying to figure us out........ But the ones that just relax and take us for what we are the bomb. He he he New Years is going to be a blast this year, if Yule was any indicator....

 

[Sundayschild]

why are people so hung up on labels?

i see so many "hetero" guys drooling over fucking a chick's ass, as if that's not borderline gay. And don't get me started on the double-standard of guys getting off watching two girls go at it!

Ooh - if I came here to argue I'd so object to both these premises. As it is I'll just say I like both these things and pretty much consider myself straight. Could explain further but I know its an emotive subject so prob won't (not now at least).

On topic - I'm not sure I'd enjoy it unless I was totally relaxed with both parties AND I knew they'd like each other - as a natural worrier I'd be concerned about how they'd get on, regardless of gender.

 

[Wyldfire]

Hey Lynn, thought you might like this as an AV.......

 

[njlauren]

I had 3, with my then-girlfriend, "Amy", being the common factor. Ratings? 10, 7, and -- for reasons other than bad sex -- 2.

The first time was with a neighbor woman, "Joyce", with whom I shared a yearning. Amy had had a touchy-feely with a girl in college, so Joyce and I concocted a plan to get Amy hot for her while dancing at a club, then later again at our apartment. It was fantastic, and the girls said they really enjoyed watching the other one enjoy me.

To even the score, Amy playfully called it, she wanted to be with two men. I had a married bisexual friend I trusted, so he was our third. We both fucked and sucked Amy, and he blew me. I didn't particularly like seeing Amy cum with another man's dick inside her, but the blow job was skillful.

The third time, months later, was ugly. Remember the married friend...? His wife hadn't known he was fucking around on her, and when she learned about us, she wanted to even the score -- and there was nothing playful about it. I didn't want to do it but Amy, who was by now secretly seeing women, wanted to. We started the threesome, but The Wife wasn't into the lesbian portion, which turned Amy off. She walked away, and I kept fucking The Wife until we were done.

Amy left me a few days later, and I continued to fuck the Wife every once in a while for about a year until her husband left her and it was no longer any fun for her. I spent the next year or so celibate ... which really sucked ... or didn't suck, depending on how you look at it.

That is a common problem with threesomes I hear, where someone feels left out, ignored, or whatever, it is one of the biggest fears I have heard (for example, in a MFF, that it will be all about the man, or the man and the other F end up having all the fun, or of course the worst case scenario, end up in an affair..)

Just out of curiously, did Amy end up with another guy, or did she end up going with women primarily? It isn't just Aus, I have heard of more then a few MFF's where the primary F figured out she liked women better, or started to, hence my question

 

[Wyldfire]

That is a common problem with threesomes I hear, where someone feels left out, ignored, or whatever, it is one of the biggest fears I have heard (for example, in a MFF, that it will be all about the man, or the man and the other F end up having all the fun, or of course the worst case scenario, end up in an affair..)

Just out of curiously, did Amy end up with another guy, or did she end up going with women primarily? It isn't just Aus, I have heard of more then a few MFF's where the primary F figured out she liked women better, or started to, hence my question

It is probably THE most common problem in threesomes hun...... I'm just glad that my family's situation worked as well as it has....

 

[Sundayschild]

I'm glad some people have had good experiences. I kind of wish I'd gone through with the 2 group opportunities I feel I could have had, but in reality I think both would have ended up badly in one way or another.

 

[Wyldfire]

why are people so hung up on labels?

i see so many "hetero" guys drooling over fucking a chick's ass, as if that's not borderline gay. And don't get me started on the double-standard of guys getting off watching two girls go at it!

Okay, okay. I can't sum this up for any but the guy in my life but here's his viewpoint (yeah, I asked.). He enjoys the aspect of anal sex with us girls as a control issue. We have a bit of that in our relationship, so he can get his alpha on by taking our asses if he likes. Both Kitty and I enjoy it.

And what is wrong with a guy enjoying watching two women? Just because he doesn't want to participate in being with another guy doesn't make it wrong hun, or a double standard. He's got the cream so why not appreciate it? There have been many a time that we have started before he gets in and all he's done is sit back and enjoy the show.

So, where exactly are the labels? I honestly get a sour grapes feel off your previous posts hun. Makes me wonder what happened to you to make you so sour. Need to talk about it?

 

[njlauren]

It is probably THE most common problem in threesomes hun...... I'm just glad that my family's situation worked as well as it has....

I have a lot of respect for people in Poly relationships, years ago I met Lady Greene, one of the author's of "Ethical Sluts" that covers poly and was in a poly herself (not sure what she is in these days, been a lot of years)and it amazes me how folks make it work. She was the first to admit that it wasn't always perfect,that jealousy and such doesn't go away totally, but that they made it work.

 

[69thfirmesthand]

I have been fortunate to been part of both.FFM,MMF.My stingy side liked the part of being serviced by my wife and her cousin.JMO there is nothing better than one lady sitting her sweet wet pussy on your face and another tightly wrapped around your hard cock.

I dont mind two males female as long as I can her sweet pussy then have it wrapped around my hard cock.I dont mind being second especialy if she has soasked panties on still.

 

[njlauren]

I'm glad some people have had good experiences. I kind of wish I'd gone through with the 2 group opportunities I feel I could have had, but in reality I think both would have ended up badly in one way or another.

One thing that people who do these routinely advised me that if your gut tells you it probably won't work, trust your gut feeling. I often wondered about my primary relationship, about doing some sort of threesome , but I also wondered about the impact, too..plus we were not in a place to do it in the past, in the future, who knows?

I did one threesome back when I was transitioning, with a guy and his wife, and it was fun and the guy had a nice cock to boot, but I guess being the 'outsider' it is very different. The couple were pretty cool, last I heard about them a couple of years ago, they are still together and having fun, so I guess I wasn't enough to drag either of them away *lol*...(not that I ever would, too much the romantic, always want couples or poly's to sail off into old age, in lust and love...)

 

[njlauren]

Okay, okay. I can't sum this up for any but the guy in my life but here's his viewpoint (yeah, I asked.). He enjoys the aspect of anal sex with us girls as a control issue. We have a bit of that in our relationship, so he can get his alpha on by taking our asses if he likes. Both Kitty and I enjoy it.

And what is wrong with a guy enjoying watching two women? Just because he doesn't want to participate in being with another guy doesn't make it wrong hun, or a double standard. He's got the cream so why not appreciate it? There have been many a time that we have started before he gets in and all he's done is sit back and enjoy the show.

So, where exactly are the labels? I honestly get a sour grapes feel off your previous posts hun. Makes me wonder what happened to you to make you so sour. Need to talk about it?

Can't speak for the poster, but I think it is bitterness at the fact that someone who is completely homophobic, who would think, for example, that if his girlfriend played with his ass it would make him 'gay' or who otherwise would talk about being sick watching two guys have sex, call them freaks and sick and such, would get overheated watching two girls having sex (among other things, most 'lesbian' porn is aimed at men, not women, two women being a big time fantasy of many men). Women who might want to try a MMF run into their partner saying "no way, that would make me gay" even if there was no pressure to do anything with the guy, while the same guy would drool at a MFF, even though he would expect/want his GF to have sex with the other woman, that is okay, even though it is 'gay'.....

 

[Wyldfire]

I have a lot of respect for people in Poly relationships, years ago I met Lady Greene, one of the author's of "Ethical Sluts" that covers poly and was in a poly herself (not sure what she is in these days, been a lot of years)and it amazes me how folks make it work. She was the first to admit that it wasn't always perfect,that jealousy and such doesn't go away totally, but that they made it work.

I've seen that allot as well. We've been very lucky in that if a situation arises that makes any of us nervous, we ALL back away from it and move on. I think our relationship is one of the exceptions to the rule, but we have so far made everything work out well.

I think the only time Kitty ever really got jealous, was that we hadn't arranged His and my divorce so she could get her name changed and have her turn as the legal wife. We promptly went down to the court and rectified the issue. It had been past time for her to have our family name. Hell, we've all joked that it might be time for them to divorce so Kitty and I can go to a state that has legal same sex marriage so we can have a turn being married.

 

[chocolatecookie3]

I did a couple of threesomes back in my wild days hooking up on Craigslist--a MFF that turned into MFFM, a MMF, and a MFF from what I can remember. I think knowing the people well would be much sexier than with strangers. I'm actually working on a threesome story, so I would appreciate comments when it gets posted!

 

[gregy70]

Best way to orgasm - being slowly fucked doggie position from behind, as I am sucking the second guy's cock and he is licking me. I have cum wildly in that position many time during threesomes.

That coming from a woman's lips is so dreamy to me. This is a big big fantasy for me *sigh*