Threesomes

[AngelsAndDemons]

Anybody had a lot of experience with these? My girlfriend wants to do one, but it'd be me, her, and another girl. I'm open to the idea of course, and she seems to not care if I sex the other chick while we're doing this. But what was the experience like?

 

[Ravin the Poet]

I can give you some things people will say. One being, you better make sure your girlfriend isn't a jealous type because if she sees you spending time with that girl and not pleasing her, she may get a little upset. You got to have communication and make sure you talk to the girl being added, are comfortable with her being there and know you won't get attached.

Others with experience will be able to add more.


Ravin

 

[Eilan]

Do you have a good relationship to begin with? Is it something you BOTH really want to do? If you answer "no" to either of these questions, threesomes aren't for you.

If you decide that it's something that you'd like to try, it's best to set up some ground rules (those will vary depending on who's involved) BEFORE you're all in bed together. However, establishing ground rules doesn't guarantee that there won't be some jealousy afterwards.

Both of you should think carefully before you make your decision. Sometimes fantasy is best left as fantasy.

 

[AngelsAndDemons]

Do you have a good relationship to begin with? Is it something you BOTH really want to do? If you answer "no" to either of these questions, threesomes aren't for you.

If you decide that it's something that you'd like to try, it's best to set up some ground rules (those will vary depending on who's involved) BEFORE you're all in bed together. However, establishing ground rules doesn't guarantee that there won't be some jealousy afterwards.

Both of you should think carefully before you make your decision. Sometimes fantasy is best left as fantasy.

It was HER idea to bring another female into the picture, and when I said I'd prolly only sex her, all she could say was ok..So I guess I need to talk to her and find out what the boundries are or something.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Once all the potential jealousy issues are worked out...

It's a really good idea for everyone in the bed to simply take turns pleasing one another. If someone wants more of something then he or she should simply ask. If someone doesn't speak up then that person has no good reason to complain about too much attention going to someone else.

It's really more basic than one might think. See if there's any ground rules the two of you would like to set up and then have fun.

 

[Eilan]

So I guess I need to talk to her and find out what the boundries are or something.

Um, yeah. Not only do you need to talk to your girlfriend, you also need to be talking to the person who's joining you. The rules/boundaries need to be established for everyone involved.

 

[AngelsAndDemons]

Um, yeah. Not only do you need to talk to your girlfriend, you also need to be talking to the person who's joining you. The rules/boundaries need to be established for everyone involved.

I will prolly leave that up to her...it's 100 percent her Idea

 

[Eilan]

I will prolly leave that up to her...it's 100 percent her Idea

I assume that you trust her enough to make the decisions for you, but I'd caution you against allowing that to happen. If you're also going to be participating, shouldn't you have some input? I should think so.

 

[AngelsAndDemons]

I assume that you trust her enough to make the decisions for you, but I'd caution you against allowing that to happen. If you're also going to be participating, shouldn't you have some input? I should think so.

That's true, I'll discuss it with her sometime soon.

 

[John_Mira]

MY fiance and I have had a few group sex experiences. We are lucky that it has not lead to any jealousy issues. One thing we always do is after the group is done we always have sex together and it is always fabulous. The reaffirmation of our love after a hot erotic adventure is reassuring and erotic as well.

 

[Eilan]

MY fiance and I have had a few group sex experiences. We are lucky that it has not lead to any jealousy issues. One thing we always do is after the group is done we always have sex together and it is always fabulous. The reaffirmation of our love after a hot erotic adventure is reassuring and erotic as well.

I second that. Our experiences have heightened my appreciation of my husband. We're so familiar with each others' bodies that we know exactly what to do to pleasure each other. When it's all said and done, it's his kiss, his touch, his smell, his EVERYTHING that I crave.

 

[delpdJune]

Wondering....

Has she ever been with a woman before? Been involved in that many times... I love to watch my guy with another woman.. but your relationship has to be strong... to withstand that.. If she is not confident how you feel about her.. there can be issues..
If my guy makes me feel loved and cared for... he will get a thousand times more back then he ever imagined... (sigh)... miss that... Good Luck.. and enjoy... el

 

[luckyseven]

I second that. Our experiences have heightened my appreciation of my husband. We're so familiar with each others' bodies that we know exactly what to do to pleasure each other. When it's all said and done, it's his kiss, his touch, his smell, his EVERYTHING that I crave.

This has been our experience as well.