I had my first threesome with my wife and best friend about 6 years ago. My wife and I were dating at the time and the idea was mine not hers. I suggested it to her during sex one night and noticed how much more turned on she became. I then began to add watching porn during our foreplay, porn of 2 guys and a girl and suggested that she might like it. She decided to try it after a few weeks of my suggestions. She was fantastic. She wore a french maids outfit and proceeded to take care of us for the evening. I am not going to lie about my sexual prowess, once and done usually to sleep, but I was so incredibly turned on by her that I was able to achieve erection 4 times. I came 3 of the times. I loved watching her suck and fuck this guy. God was it a thrill for me and still is. We have had another since then but non since the wedding.I need and want another badly!!!
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Meat Whistler
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I don't think "coaxing" is a good idea. While it may have worked before, if it is a desire of hers now, she will share it with you. I'm not preaching at you, but you could end a perfectly happy marriage out of your own selfishness.
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I have to say that it's nice to read about someone wanting a threesome and not just thinking it means girl-guy-girl for once. So many act like that's all a threesome means, and won't even consider 2 guys and a woman.
I kind of get pissed at women who act like that too and then say threesomes are a bad idea. I'm like, well, duh, you're acting out a fantasy that's more a str8 male fantasy than a str8 female one, so what did you expect?
Sorry for the rant. Back to the topic at hand. (Ahem.)
If you have a guy around who might be interested in this, and who might be a good candidate based on his behavior, you might try talking about it with her again. I agree with Italian Goddess, though, coaxing her to do something she doesn't want to do is a bad idea. Just try to get her to tell you why she doesn't want to try it again, if you haven't. She may be feeling insecure about herself.
I kind of get pissed at women who act like that too and then say threesomes are a bad idea. I'm like, well, duh, you're acting out a fantasy that's more a str8 male fantasy than a str8 female one, so what did you expect?
Sorry for the rant. Back to the topic at hand. (Ahem.)
If you have a guy around who might be interested in this, and who might be a good candidate based on his behavior, you might try talking about it with her again. I agree with Italian Goddess, though, coaxing her to do something she doesn't want to do is a bad idea. Just try to get her to tell you why she doesn't want to try it again, if you haven't. She may be feeling insecure about herself.
My wife and I did threesomes a couple years back and we both loved it.Then suddenly she wanted no more.By the way it was MFM.I finally asked her why no more and she said because she feels it is breaking our marraige vows.Damn,I hated hearing that,it was so hot watching her with two cocks in her and how hot she got.Oh,well maybe someday she may change her mind.
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I'm in the same boat. We did the MFM thing, my best friend and co-worker this had building up for 9 years so we finally did it. As soon as he dropped his shorts my wife was all over his cock I never seen her get that crazy..We did the Dp everything, his wife doesn't even give him head, so when my wife had both of us dump our loads down her throat, he couldnt believe it....Weve done it about 6 times then all of a sudden she stopped and said, I was doing this so I could go screw around, but to be honest I was cool with the whole thing I would do it again in a minute...
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My fiance and I have both decided we're ready to act on our fantasies of including other people in our sex life - hoping to start with a fmf threesome, or maybe a foursome with another couple. We've found www.swappernet.com to be a great site... we're having a lot of fun browsing through all the profiles and seeing what kinds of people are out there who want the same things we do 
The coaxing remark may sound a little insensitive. I meant badger! Just kidding! She gets really hot when we talk about it but I think she is hesitant because of the wedding vows and because of insecurities over some weight gain. I think she looks great and am still turned on by her great body. By the way her great body is a big girls body. I have always loved the fact that she is sexy without having to be bulemic!!! She has a great spirit and personality.
On the subject of guy girl guy, I am accused of being weird by my male friends for wanting to share her talents. I really wouldnt want it any other way. 2 girls don't really do it for me. My wife is completely against having another girl anyway. Straight to the point of homophobe...almost! Me, if it feels good and nobody gets hurt in the process...go for it!
Bring on the lucky guy!
On the subject of guy girl guy, I am accused of being weird by my male friends for wanting to share her talents. I really wouldnt want it any other way. 2 girls don't really do it for me. My wife is completely against having another girl anyway. Straight to the point of homophobe...almost! Me, if it feels good and nobody gets hurt in the process...go for it!
Bring on the lucky guy!
I think we need the Book of World Records here.............."2 girls don't do it for you"
........WOW you and my friend Cosmo (the guy in my SUV story) are the only two I've ever heard that from, lol.
As long as it's fun do it, whatever it is.......
And anyway women can be so insecure it's not funny, so with all the love for them I could have I'll again say..........FUCKIN WOMEN, lol.
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Christ. Let a person get off on what they want to get off on, and not like what they want to not like. There's no need to fall out of your chair.Rusty914 said:
There's also no need to generalize. http://www.amanita.net/images/smilies/crazy.gif
I'll have to say that I've enjoyed MFM threesomes just as much if not more than FMF threesomes. What it really centers around is how much my SO is enjoying herself, and she really likes being worn out with two dicks. I guess it's the same reason I enjoy giving oral more than receiving. My pleasure arrives from someone elses. I think it's my passive agressive-ness coming out in my sex life. I love to make people squirm.
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Etoile I'll address you first.....hmmmmmmmm assmunch, well quite the lady aren't you, lol. Well sticks and stones..................., lol.
Anyway.....Porn choice........no not at all, hun. We're talking about "real" life. You know outside your door, not in front of the keyboard...... And what I said was my feeling and personal experience. I have those rights too, don't I, lol? I've only heard of two guys him and my friend that don't enjoy the thought of two women. So I joked not mocked..........there's a difference. I feel for him, tons more than you do, I'm sure.
So all you drama queens, game players (yes you're in there Etolie) if you read this post walk away with one thing (ok, two things if you include disliking me, lol) ...........understand that the more you cause drama and play games about being insecure to us and the more it makes us want to do what you're insecure about. Look at the guys that are online looking for sex outside of their marriage..........they all have the same story, my wife is controlling our sex life. It's manipulative and it ends up destroying.
And on the other hand the more you're straight and direct with us the more we want to understand and be there for you. You don't like FMF threesomes ok, but you don't want to do MFM's now cause you think I have ulterior motives, that's game playing that's all. So my point is to those women.........stop the games, you'll find out it works a lot better on the men.
So if it feels good, do it and have fun.....
Cya all.....Rusty or as Etolie loving calls me ~assmunch
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Mary Hall said:
Slap my eyebrows off??? LOL ... Yes sir............or is that maam?
Wow, ok, then I guess that means I should accept her name calling and your threats cause she's a mod?
Ahhhhh ok, very fair again, lol.
A little humor (with the book of world records) and personal experience (how many guys that didn't go for bi women) is all I added to this thread, in the begining.
So mod or not, conversation not threats is what I thought these threads are about. But seems there's more drama then conversation here, so I'll glady end my contribution or lack thereof of to this thread.
Bye......
(And yup, I won't answer so sound off all you'd like.)
Guys--meant generically,
I am sorry to have started a thread fight. I was just being honest in my responses so that those who choose to participate wont have to guess where I am comming from. I agree one hundred percent to the rights of free speech for everyone in this country and throughout the world. This also means the right to personal opinions. I don't take the comments by Rusty as a personal attack, trust me I have been looked at as weird about my opinion on a threesome involving MFM. I actually have always gotten off to the thought and sight of the woman I love having sex while I am watching her. I can be on the other end or just in the room. Weird? Maybe. Makes my cock hard? Definately. I don't ask why rather just go with what makes me feel the best. Opinions are welcome. Again, sorry for the thread fight, my fault since I started the thread.
I am sorry to have started a thread fight. I was just being honest in my responses so that those who choose to participate wont have to guess where I am comming from. I agree one hundred percent to the rights of free speech for everyone in this country and throughout the world. This also means the right to personal opinions. I don't take the comments by Rusty as a personal attack, trust me I have been looked at as weird about my opinion on a threesome involving MFM. I actually have always gotten off to the thought and sight of the woman I love having sex while I am watching her. I can be on the other end or just in the room. Weird? Maybe. Makes my cock hard? Definately. I don't ask why rather just go with what makes me feel the best. Opinions are welcome. Again, sorry for the thread fight, my fault since I started the thread.
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Carver- you did not start a thread fight. Seriously you didn't.
Rusty- if you felt attacked by me, then I do appologise. I wasn't attacking you, merely stating my possition. I don't attack people without severely good reasons.
As to women playing games- not all of us do. I hate that game playing shit from both sexes and will chew out anyone I'm friends with who do it. Non-friends- well if they're chatting about thier sex life and asking opinions then I'll give it but only if asked.
Takes a lot of courage to admit what you want, even to your s/o sometimes, especially if its something that you or society deems "odd" or "messed up."
Funny thing is- Etoile isn't even... nah I'm not going to point out that bit of obviousness.
Rusty- if you felt attacked by me, then I do appologise. I wasn't attacking you, merely stating my possition. I don't attack people without severely good reasons.
As to women playing games- not all of us do. I hate that game playing shit from both sexes and will chew out anyone I'm friends with who do it. Non-friends- well if they're chatting about thier sex life and asking opinions then I'll give it but only if asked.
Takes a lot of courage to admit what you want, even to your s/o sometimes, especially if its something that you or society deems "odd" or "messed up."
Funny thing is- Etoile isn't even... nah I'm not going to point out that bit of obviousness.
