Threesome: Planned or Random?

[lordfarquat]

To the Lit Universe:
It has been two years since I've been on here for a reason. My wife and I decided to do a threesome while on vacation in the next few weeks. We are open to MFM or FFM, but haven't decided to try to set one up or let it happen organically. We are two open-minded, educated, fit 30 year olds who love adventuring sexually, but are undecided on this question.

Any thoughts?

 

[fullservice65]

To the Lit Universe:
It has been two years since I've been on here for a reason. My wife and I decided to do a threesome while on vacation in the next few weeks. We are open to MFM or FFM, but haven't decided to try to set one up or let it happen organically. We are two open-minded, educated, fit 30 year olds who love adventuring sexually, but are undecided on this question.

Any thoughts?

Have either of you done a threesome before? And are you looking for a newbie or someone who is experienced?

 

[lordfarquat]

Never done a threesome in terms of fucking, just foreplay. In terms of newbie vs. experienced, we're open.

 

[fullservice65]

Never done a threesome in terms of fucking, just foreplay. In terms of newbie vs. experienced, we're open.

Just asking for a friend -- lol -- who is married, older and a newbie in the Bay Area

 

[WisBlueEyes]

Not planned.

But wife came home from work.Walked by my buddy and I went to take a shower. When she was done.She came walking by wrapped in a towel. looked at us and asked.Do you want to play strip poker. We looked at each other and said yes.
She said give her a 1/2 hour. Time came and she said come on in and only have 2 pieces of clothing on. She had 2 pieces of see thru on. The next few hours were great.

 

[lordfarquat]

Thanks for the advice. We are adventurous enough in spontaneity, but I was curious to see if people had success with setting it up.

 

[iaag1234]

Ours were spontaneous with friends....let it happen

 

[BrendaC]

Planned but not always by me

I haven't had experience with MMF 3somes, but I feel I was definitely set up on a FMF by a bisexual GF.

 

[Xerxes82]

Had a couple of planned experiences. Very fun.

Had one that was spontaneous for me, but I'm pretty sure was planned by the other two parties involved. That was REALLY fun. Though if I'd known sex was on the offer, I might have had one less drink at dinner.

 

[droopy1]

Had one that was planned with two professional ladies at a brothel in Nevada had an absolute Awesome time.

 

[Leigh81]

Friday night's are usually planned, any other night is spontaneous

L

 

[JohnnyNotCraig]

Both I've been in were planned

 

[malia123]

To the Lit Universe:
It has been two years since I've been on here for a reason. My wife and I decided to do a threesome while on vacation in the next few weeks. We are open to MFM or FFM, but haven't decided to try to set one up or let it happen organically. We are two open-minded, educated, fit 30 year olds who love adventuring sexually, but are undecided on this question.

Any thoughts?

for our first encounter it was really important to me that it was someone I was totally comfortable with and we choose a close friend of my hubbyʻs. It started with just the two of us and hubby watched, for say the first five times, then we eased into MFM, weʻve since have had three other men, of which, only one was random. I have a wonderful man and it was always at my comfort level. The planned version is good, because weʻve even gone to the extent where our other partners got tested for STD. (the random one wore a rain coat

~m