Ladies...have you ever? would you ever? My lovely wife wants two at the same time (yes...men) myself being one of course. We have discussed openly (and with rather intense results I might ad) but find the disheartening part to be just how one goes about such a quest. She is a beautiful late 40's woman with a very submissive side in the bedroom. When she lets herself go it is amazing for the both of us. Recently during one of our discussions/bedroom extravaganzas I was even able to make her squirt. To say she was thrilled would be a serious understatement. This being said...fulfilling her desire to have an extra set of "hands" in the bedroom is a definite must as I love to give her the pleasure I feel she deserves. Thoughts as well as experience would be great.
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TheRiseFromAshes
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I have to say that I'm a cuckold male. I would be open to seeing a girlfriend/wife trying out with another man.
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I volunteer my husband he'd love to and I encourage it,..
But where are you...
But where are you...
Joankraig
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This, MFMs, are our favorite sexual activity. My husband absolutely loves them, as do I. If your marriage is strong and loving, if you do not have issues with 'recreational sex', I would definitely say, "Go For It"!
We are in Minnesota...north country...It seems to be unbelievably difficult to put ones self in a situation where this could actually be carried out in a fun and exciting manner. We get a lot of one liner emails with a pic of some guys junk. Seriously? We know you have a penis...we don't want a close up of it. Guys need to learn that this is a bigger deal to most women than just spreading their legs and letting them have their jollies. How does one find the perfect caring individual so that it will be an experience to enjoy discussing for years to come.
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Me and my wife too have talked about a MFM threesome and it usually Ends with the most amazing orgasms shortly after. We role play with our lifelike toy cock and it's a fun way to try to live the scenario out.
I know what you mean....it's extremely difficult to find that third party. We'd want a nice smooth fit guy with a beautifully sexy mind and thats hard to come by. We'd want someone who is in it for everyone's pleasure, not just his own. It could be such a magnificent experience all around but finding the "right" one would be key.
I know what you mean....it's extremely difficult to find that third party. We'd want a nice smooth fit guy with a beautifully sexy mind and thats hard to come by. We'd want someone who is in it for everyone's pleasure, not just his own. It could be such a magnificent experience all around but finding the "right" one would be key.
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I volunteer my husband he'd love to and I encourage it,..
But where are you...
Seems to me, js, these women are giving you the best advice: find yourself a couple in which the woman is happy for her man to 'be of service' to another couple. That way your woman has the pleasure of two guys who are experienced lovers, and you'd be in partnership with a guy who also has an adventurous woman - a kind of common bond between you, as he with you gets busy pleasuring your wife. When it comes together please tell us about it! Simon
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we have talked about several times. Now I just have to convince her it is actually okay to go through with it.
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Thats a shame
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Don't give up....
suckonsimon
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Your 'that's a shame', together with you avatar and profile pic, I find immensely appealing. After all, it's about two guys getting a woman delirious
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Your 'that's a shame', together with you avatar and profile pic, I find immensely appealing. After all, it's about two guys getting a woman delirious
Bring a friend!!!!!
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My husband and I had one many years ago. It was someone I met online first, we became friends with and I invited him up to visit.He had some drinking issues at the time so I wanted to help him try and get sober, and he kind of became our live in third for a while.
It was an amazing experience that I am very grateful I got to experience, but as was mentioned, it does take a strong couple with no jealousy issues or insecurity. My husband is neither, so it worked out really well for us.
THe flip (FMF) didn't go as well as I am insecure and kept wondering if she was pleasing him better then I could.. but it was still fun.
She will enjoy it though. Good luck.
It was an amazing experience that I am very grateful I got to experience, but as was mentioned, it does take a strong couple with no jealousy issues or insecurity. My husband is neither, so it worked out really well for us.
THe flip (FMF) didn't go as well as I am insecure and kept wondering if she was pleasing him better then I could.. but it was still fun.
She will enjoy it though.
Good luck.My husband and I had one many years ago. It was someone I met online first, we became friends with and I invited him up to visit.He had some drinking issues at the time so I wanted to help him try and get sober, and he kind of became our live in third for a while.
It was an amazing experience that I am very grateful I got to experience, but as was mentioned, it does take a strong couple with no jealousy issues or insecurity. My husband is neither, so it worked out really well for us.
THe flip (FMF) didn't go as well as I am insecure and kept wondering if she was pleasing him better then I could.. but it was still fun.
She will enjoy it though.
No sense in being insecure. Sassy you are absolutely gorgeous.
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Well thank you. But even if I as secure enough to believe that for myself, it takes more then just looks in the bedroom
I will always say I can use more experience until the day I die. No one is perfect and everyone can improve. 
Well thank you. But even if I as secure enough to believe that for myself, it takes more then just looks in the bedroom
Somehow I think you have nothing to worry about in the bedroom performance wise
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I have been in several with my husband, he has loved it. We have had our friends join us. Our times have always been fantastic and very very satisfying.
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Personally, I think a lot of men dream about MFM. We all know that men obsess about FMF and its over played in the media. As for the menage (mfm) some men are afraid to admit they love watching their wife being pleasures (insecurities some times set in), the sight of a hard cock excites them (fear of being labeled as bi or cuckold), and of course in the back of a lot of men's mind is the fear that the wife might leave him for a man with a bigger cock.
A lot of women are bi curious but hate to have another woman in her territory
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If you don't find a suitable partner on here, you can always try some swingers sites or a swingers club.
I would give a big thumbs up to the club.
I would give a big thumbs up to the club.
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Personally, I think a lot of men dream about MFM. We all know that men obsess about FMF and its over played in the media. As for the menage (mfm) some men are afraid to admit they love watching their wife being pleasures (insecurities some times set in), the sight of a hard cock excites them (fear of being labeled as bi or cuckold), and of course in the back of a lot of men's mind is the fear that the wife might leave him for a man with a bigger cock.
A lot of women are bi curious but hate to have another woman in her territory
Can I give a married man's response to this? How typical, I have no idea:
The attraction of mfm for me would be joining another guy who I knew is a good lover, in order to give a whole other level of intensity of pleasuring to a woman who wanted that adventure. I would enjoy seeing and being involved with the other guy's input, and our horny exchanges. But it really would be focused on the woman getting overwhelmed with a quantity of masculine attention which one guy cannot achieve: four hands, two mouths, two cocks, and the probability cum-play while there's still a rock-hard cock which hasn't cum.
I'm married to a woman who doesn't want that adventure. End of story, beginning of fantasy. That's fine.
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For starters, you gotta understand there is no such thing as a "perfect" individual, only individuals that fall across a spectrum of acceptable.
Secondly, is this going to be a one-off experience or an ongoing relationship?
Thirdly, you and she need to make a couple of lists; one with the desired qualities of a prospective third, one that covers any 'deal-breaking' character traits, and a third for stuff you both are flexible about. Prioritize the items on those lists.
If this is to be a one-off, check into the local swinger scene, online dating, etc. Interact with likely candidates. Take the time to vette them. Spend a little cash and do a background check on any finalists. Then just keep at it until y'all find someone acceptable to both of you.
If y'all are looking for a more long term relationship, then you gotta build it just like any other LTR.
Good luck. I hope it all works out.
