this true? women eyeing guys' bulges?

i eyefuck men like it's my job.

it kind of annoys me when men are so intentionally naive about women's sexuality. why wouldn't women check out men they think are attractive?
 
I don't do it often, but if it's noticeable then why wouldn't any woman.
Especially myself who has a husband so small you could probably only notice it in a speedo.....maybe. LOL

L:rose:
 
I don't do it often, but if it's noticeable then why wouldn't any woman.
Especially myself who has a husband so small you could probably only notice it in a speedo.....maybe. LOL

L:rose:

Are you not happy with your husband's size? If so, why did you get married to him?
 
Are you not happy with your husband's size? If so, why did you get married to him?

Other than his small size he's the best man I've ever met. I'd never been with anyone else or even seen another penis before him. I come from a strict religious upbringing.
But he's got us into sharing me and he loves being cuckolded so I don't have to worry. :)

L:rose:
 
Rather than get all annoyed and snarky at a simple question, I'll just say that yes indeed, women enjoy looking. We're visual, too. My opinion is that if male and female sexuality fundamentally differ at all, it's in degree, not in kind.

The differences, such as they are, are more pronounced at a younger age. My observation is that as people get older, male sexuality and female sexuality become more alike, probably because our hormone balances converge ... men have less testosterone, women have more.

Which is why there are horny milf's in the world.

But back to the original question ... yes, I look. But I don't stare, and I don't ogle.
 
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If it's obvious, then yes, just because it's in front of me & not because I am judging them in any negative way. However, if I am really attracted to the man, I will find most things about them sexy. So, any opportunity to admire them is taken with glee, whether it's their bulge or their sexy hands.

:)
 
Other than his small size he's the best man I've ever met. I'd never been with anyone else or even seen another penis before him. I come from a strict religious upbringing.
But he's got us into sharing me and he loves being cuckolded so I don't have to worry. :)

L:rose:

As long as you are happy and satisfied. That is all that matters. :)
 
If it's obvious, then yes, just because it's in front of me & not because I am judging them in any negative way. However, if I am really attracted to the man, I will find most things about them sexy. So, any opportunity to admire them is taken with glee, whether it's their bulge or their sexy hands.

:)

~modestly tucking my bulge behind my sexy hands~
 
Is it at all surprising that this would be true? Seems a very natural thing to me.

It may be less apparent simply because bulges are more often under a table or otherwise obscured than say, breasts, or perhaps because women are better at being discrete than men are. To imagine that this is somehow unusual or especially taboo or titillating seems kind of silly though.

Yes, I'm aware I'm being a wet blanket here.
 
Is it at all surprising that this would be true? Seems a very natural thing to me.

It may be less apparent simply because bulges are more often under a table or otherwise obscured than say, breasts, or perhaps because women are better at being discrete than men are. To imagine that this is somehow unusual or especially taboo or titillating seems kind of silly though.

Yes, I'm aware I'm being a wet blanket here.

it's also less apparent because a lot of the time we're staring at things men might think are non-sexual like hands, face, chest, waist, shoulders, etc. but are very sexual to the woman doing the eyeing.
 
it's also less apparent because a lot of the time we're staring at things men might think are non-sexual like hands, face, chest, waist, shoulders, etc. but are very sexual to the woman doing the eyeing.

Indeed indeed. I think in general it's true that men often narrow their attention to more "obvious" erogenous zones, perhaps especially in our younger years. The explanations for that (biological, socialization) are rather interesting to consider.

I am more attracted to the face, eyes and lips than anything else, which is fortunate because I can admire them to my heart's content during conversation and not come off as a skeezeball.
 
Indeed indeed. I think in general it's true that men often narrow their attention to more "obvious" erogenous zones, perhaps especially in our younger years. The explanations for that (biological, socialization) are rather interesting to consider.

I am more attracted to the face, eyes and lips than anything else, which is fortunate because I can admire them to my heart's content during conversation and not come off as a skeezeball.

what if the women doesn't have nice face eyes or lips? not being rude, just want to know.

i find i have "favorite" parts but mostly i just like looking at someone's best bits. some guys don't have great hands. others had fingers i would dream about fucking. doesn't mean the first guy was less appealing than the second. :3
 
what if the women doesn't have nice face eyes or lips? not being rude, just want to know.

i find i have "favorite" parts but mostly i just like looking at someone's best bits. some guys don't have great hands. others had fingers i would dream about fucking. doesn't mean the first guy was less appealing than the second. :3

Well much like you it very much depends. Those bits are my favorite, and tend to get me particularly excited, but they're still just a small part of the equation. I try not to have "dealbreakers." I think that just leads to missing out on wonderfully interesting and attractive people.

I suppose the things I notice vary from person to person. Sometimes great curves stand out. A great smile (with or without great lips) is also a killer. Nonphysical things like attitude and humor are probably the most important, but we'd be getting very far from the thread topic at that point.

In most instances when you can't see the attraction in someone, I think it's a problem with your vision and not with what you're looking at.
 
In most instances when you can't see the attraction in someone, I think it's a problem with your vision and not with what you're looking at.

yes! i totally agree! i love watching someone and becoming aware of how sexy they are, in their own way. admiring all the things that make them unique and special.

Cone_ten, you're all right :)
 
yes! i totally agree! i love watching someone and becoming aware of how sexy they are, in their own way. admiring all the things that make them unique and special.

Cone_ten, you're all right :)

Thanks, but -ahem- my eyes are up here. ;)
 
Ah... first-hand testimony that it does happen!

I've sometimes had a suspicion that I'm being eyed up (or, rather, down!) by a few women when I'm out in my tight running gear. I've tended to shrug it off as a mistaken perception on my part, even when it has seemed quite blatant. I imagined that most women would be so subtle at the art (in the same way as most men aren't!) that I wouldn't notice even if it were happening. ;)

I'm still none the wiser, but now I'm in danger of blushing if I think I sense it happening. Hmm... that could be awkward. :eek:
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Yo Numbnuts...Many of them LIKE to watch porn too.

True, there is good percentage who would like more story line but I notice the ones who bitch about porn the most will spend twenty minutes in the doorway during the hottest scenes doing it!:D
 
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