This Has To Stop Please!!!

[prettygrneyes]

I KNOW THAT ALOT OF YOU ,WELL SOME OF YOU,MAY GET MAD AT ME BUT LISTEN WORDS WERE SAID AND YES I HAVE ASKED CELTIC WARRIOR TO EDIT ALL OF HIS NOT SO NICE POSTS TO NAUGHTY AND HE IS HAVING PROBLEMS WITH DOIN IT,BUT BACK TO ME IF NAUGHTY LEAVES THEN I'M LEAVING TOO ,I HATE TO SEE THIS HAPPENING HERE,WE ALL COME HERE FOR DIFFERENT REASONS AND I LOVE IT HERE AT LIT.SOME OF YOU KNOW THAT LIT IS MY WAY OF GETTING AWAY FROM R/L STRESS AND AT THIS TIME I'M GOING THROUGH ALOT OF THINGS ,AND IF I DID NOT HAVE THE SUPPORT OF MY GOOD FRIENDS HERE AT LIT,I WOULD NOT BE GETTING THRU IT ALL.SO WITH THIS IN MIND I PRAY THAT WE ALL CAN FORGET AND FORGIVE AND MOVE ON.I WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH NAUGHTY AND CELTIC YOU KNOW HOW I FEEL ABOUT YOU,I JUSS PRAY THAT YOU TWO CAN TRY TO FORGIVE EACH OTHER PLEASE.I HATE COMING HERE AND SEEING THIS IS STILL IN THE AIR,PLEASE LET IT GO,OR I WILL BE GONE TOO.....THATS ALL I HAVE TO SAY ...I LOVE YOU GUYS AND I WOULD BE SOOOOOOOOOO LOST WITHOUT MY FRIENDS HERE AT LIT ...TRUTHFULLY AND HONESTLY ,PGE

THANKS FOR LISTENING TO ME....

 

[Naughty n Nice]

I've told you that I'm totally cool with you. I wish I could let go of what he said, but I can't. My brain doesn't work that way. I come here to get away from rl too. This is pretty much the only place that I interact with anyone. As most of you know, I'm recuperating from surgery, so I don't get out at all. But when I come in here to distract myself from the pain and boredom and see such a grotesque post in my own thread, it really affects me. He got exactly what he was trying to get. He really hurt me, and I can't let it go. The fact that Laurel acted on my posting the pm (which I didn't know wasn't allowed) but did nothing to what he said, is despicable. If that's the way this place is run, I don't want to be a part of it. PGE, I've taken you off my messenger, as you requested, if you want to be back on it, send me an im.

 

[Guest]

ARE THERE ADULTS HERE OR CHILDREN?????

 

[prettygrneyes]

ARE THERE ADULTS HERE OR CHILDREN?????

yup go get ur name and register and then we can talk about feelings and ppl getting hurt ,whether its here at Lit or in R/L,ppl have feelings..right Mr or Mrs unregisterred??

 

[prettygrneyes]

I've told you that I'm totally cool with you. I wish I could let go of what he said, but I can't. My brain doesn't work that way. I come here to get away from rl too. This is pretty much the only place that I interact with anyone. As most of you know, I'm recuperating from surgery, so I don't get out at all. But when I come in here to distract myself from the pain and boredom and see such a grotesque post in my own thread, it really affects me. He got exactly what he was trying to get. He really hurt me, and I can't let it go. The fact that Laurel acted on my posting the pm (which I didn't know wasn't allowed) but did nothing to what he said, is despicable. If that's the way this place is run, I don't want to be a part of it. PGE, I've taken you off my messenger, as you requested, if you want to be back on it, send me an im.

ok...

 

[1sexylady]

ARE THERE ADULTS HERE OR CHILDREN?????

Sorry that was me...and yes feelings get hurt all the time but it is the Adult that says ....*I will stay away from that person and not continue* or the Adult that says ......*everyone makes a mistake lets forget it*...and the Adult the says....*I am sorry*....

Forgive me for voicing my opinion and I do plan on not getting in the middle of anything but I don't see where anyone has to LEAVE.....one just has to leave the other alone....

 

[trixiefirecracker]

Sorry that was me...and yes feelings get hurt all the time but it is the Adult that says ....*I will stay away from that person and not continue* or the Adult that says ......*everyone makes a mistake lets forget it*...and the Adult the says....*I am sorry*....

Forgive me for voicing my opinion and I do plan on not getting in the middle of anything but I don't see where anyone has to LEAVE.....one just has to leave the other alone....

Amen sexylady.....I agree totally with that......

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Sorry that was me...and yes feelings get hurt all the time but it is the Adult that says ....*I will stay away from that person and not continue* or the Adult that says ......*everyone makes a mistake lets forget it*...and the Adult the says....*I am sorry*....

Forgive me for voicing my opinion and I do plan on not getting in the middle of anything but I don't see where anyone has to LEAVE.....one just has to leave the other alone....

I have been the adult. I dropped the PGE thing a long time ago. But when I tried to walk away, I got stabbed in the back. It is not in my chemistry to ignore such horrible things said to me. Why isn't anyone on his back telling him to grow up? The current issue is him, not PGE, and not me. So give him shit, not us.

 

[1sexylady]

I have been the adult. I dropped the PGE thing a long time ago. But when I tried to walk away, I got stabbed in the back. It is not in my chemistry to ignore such horrible things said to me. Why isn't anyone on his back telling him to grow up? The current issue is him, not PGE, and not me. So give him shit, not us.

Naughty n Nice...I am giving anyone shit...I would give you and Prettygrneyes flowers

 

[mbb308]

Wisdom from Webster's New 20th Century Unabridged

for-give', v.t. [AS forgiefan; for - away, and giefan - to give]

1. to give up resentment against or the desire to punish; to stop being angry with; to pardon.

2. To give up all claim to punish or exact penalty for (an offense); to overlook.

3. to cancel or remit, as a debt, fine, or penalty.

Syn. - pardon, absolve, remit, cancel, release.

That definition, and the application thereof, changed my life.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Re: Wisdom from Webster's New 20th Century Unabridged

for-give', v.t. [AS forgiefan; for - away, and giefan - to give]

1. to give up resentment against or the desire to punish; to stop being angry with; to pardon.

2. To give up all claim to punish or exact penalty for (an offense); to overlook.

3. to cancel or remit, as a debt, fine, or penalty.

Syn. - pardon, absolve, remit, cancel, release.

That definition, and the application thereof, changed my life.

Duh, we know the definition. I just don't have the ability to apply it. I can't for the life of me understand how I became the "bad" guy when it's celtic who shot his mouth off.

 

[Celtic Warrior]

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[mbb308]

Resentment and anger

I have 40 years experience with resentment, so I'm qualified to discuss the subject. I no longer live like that.

I am only responsible for my own part of anything. The person I resent doesn't care how I feel - that is important to me only, and it IS important. I have to live with me 24/7/365. If I let someone live rent-free in my head, I hurt only myself.

I made a list of all the people I resented, and why. I listed all the things I thought they had done wrong to me, and why I felt justified in my resentment - my anger, desire to extract punishment, and all those other things listed in the definition.

I then looked at what part of the situation I could control. I had no control over the past, or the people who had pissed me off. I did have control over what part I played in it. I had to look at where my basic instincts had been threatened in the encounter. These would be the instincts for sex, society, and security.

Sex is pretty obvious.

We are social creatures. We are not islands. We wish to interact with others of our own kind. And we wish to feel secure materially and emotionally. These are fairly basic and obvious also.

I then began to see that I was absolutely responsible for my own happiness. Abraham Lincoln said, "People are as happy as they make up their minds to be," and I made up my mind to be happy. That meant I had to realize that being content makes me very happy, and that being ecstatic is a fleeting thing.

I then made arrangements to see most of the people on my resentment list. I apologized for my behavior where appropriate, and said I was wrong when appropriate, also. I never said they were right - I made no accusations, and owned my part fully.

I found some peace with all of that. I wasn't ready to deal with quite all of the people on the list - two of them still piss me off, but I plot no revenge or anything like that anymore. I don't let them take up my mental energy like that.

Today, I deal with the things as they come up. Yes, I still get angry sometimes. I don't get as angry, and it doesn't last very long. I have to steer clear of some people - they are a little too sick for me to play with. That's just how it goes.

I did also have to acknowledge that, if there is a God, and He really is God, then he is in charge of judgment, and I am not. What I think of someone isn't important - what I do to them is of paramount importance. My concept of God wants me to be as helpful to my brother and sister humans as possible. I try to do that - I don't always succeed, but that is my goal.

Today, I live contentedly most of the time. I have poor days on occassion, but that means that I have to work a little harder to be kind to God's creatures here.

I spend less time thinking about my own little plans and designs today, and more time trying to figure out how I can be of some service to others, and to swim with the stream of life. I get more done, I feel better, people like me better, and I have more friends today than at any point ever. People even call me to see how I am if they haven't seen or heard from me in a few days. I had few friends, and my family was tired of me, before I made this change.

It all started with the question - did I want to live and prosper as a happy person, or stagnate and die as a miserable one? I chose the former.

 

[Celtic Warrior]

Well said mbb308. Thank you.

 

[Celtic Warrior]

Amen sexylady.....I agree totally with that......

I did move on and not continued to argue or say mean things.Then I see a message on PGE's Board from Laurel.It is her not letting it go.{NnN}

 

[busybody..]

Hey NnN

I dont know what the beef here is.

But the ONE time I posted here, I was SHITED on by you, UNPROVOKED.

As far as I am concerened you are a POS and I hope you will stay in FUCKING PAIN WITHOUT RELIEF, SCUMBAG!

 

[Celtic Warrior]

BB , I don't know who you are, but stop please. this is not right.
If you don't like her fine. But don't trash this thread and cause this to continue. If I don't like someone I just ignore them and hope they go away usually. Depends on the situation.
please no more hatred, there is too much in the world as it is. Be
at peace and go on. too much has happened here as it is.

 

[busybody..]

hey Naughty

Good Riddance.....

I hope the door hits you real hard and painfull on the way out....

Pathetic whiner......

 

[omahaman2]

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Okay, enough is enough NnN. I don't ever talk to you, so why do this? You are not going to break PGEs and I up and i don't I don't talk to you, so what is the point in all of this? Let it go and go and move on. Yes, it is aas simple as that. This is a big place. You don't have to like me and I don't have to like you, but you are causing my girlfriend grief. Is this your goal here. Please stop this. I have apologized TWICE and moved on. It has been a week.
Please stop this. I am sorry you werre the victim of someone using your name or one like it and causing you to be on the recieving end of my anger. Although the anger was justified it shouldn't have been at you . An imposter had us think it was you so redirect your being upset at the imposter like I did okay?
Please , please move on.

I don't know why you keep saying that I'm trying to break you two up. Plus, you take online relationships WAY too seriously. And I repeat, it hasn't been a week, it's been 3 days. Oh, and don't go on and on about how I'm upsetting PGE, did it ever occur to you that you're uspetting her? She's got a mouth, she can say what she feels. She doesn't need you to do it for her. So will you paleeeeez just leave me alone!

 

[trixiefirecracker]

I don't know why you keep saying that I'm trying to break you two up. Plus, you take online relationships WAY too seriously. And I repeat, it hasn't been a week, it's been 3 days. Oh, and don't go on and on about how I'm upsetting PGE, did it ever occur to you that you're uspetting her? She's got a mouth, she can say what she feels. She doesn't need you to do it for her. So will you paleeeeez just leave me alone!

I'm sorry...but its PGE I feel for....as far as I can see she has done nothing wrong...and you two are dragging her into the middle of all this.....

 

[skye in silk]

I'm sorry...but its PGE I feel for....as far as I can see she has done nothing wrong...and you two are dragging her into the middle of all this.....

very good point trix. god i knew you were smart as well as gorgeous!

 

[Naughty n Nice]

I'm sorry...but its PGE I feel for....as far as I can see she has done nothing wrong...and you two are dragging her into the middle of all this.....

I didn't drag her into anything. He did that all by himself. You don't think I feel for her too? You don't think that I've missed her?

 

[omahaman2]

come on everyone

 

[mbb308]

Post #13....

seems to have been a swing and a miss!!!!