Thinkin about a 3some

tim_shay

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For some reason I've always wanted my girlfriend to be fucked my another guy while I watch and join in later. Would a women (my girlfriend) be upset or would most women like the idea?
 
Think of the same thing

I actually posted a thread about the same thing. I get so turned on thinking about, I even masturbate to the thought. My wife and I have talked about it when we have sex and it gets me so horny, and she seems to cum even harder. The sex is hotter when we talk about it. She says she thought about and maybe oneday we can do it. Would love for her to make it happen. I don't drink, but I think she'd have to be a little drunk first. She's so sexy I want to share her. Good luck. :devil:
 
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LusciousJones said:
I actually posted a thread about the same thing. I get so turned on thinking about, I even masturbate to the thought. My wife and I have talked about it when we have sex and it gets me so horny, and she seems to cum even harder. The sex is hotter when we talk about it. She says she thought about and maybe oneday we can do it. Would love for her to make it happen. I don't drink, but I think she'd have to be a little drunk first. She's so sexy I want to share her. Good luck. :devil:

This happens more often than you might think....

You're right - she is sexy - thank you for sharing her.

-FNS
 
Me TOO

I often fantasized about the same thing. Divorced now, but she never would even think about it!
 
Hmmm...while I totally get off on the idea of it...I wouldn't do it irl. But that's just me. I know people who've been able to invite others into their bedroom with no issues...but I don't see how it can work without someone eventually getting hurt. This is, of course, assuming that there is love there.
 
My so loves the idea, but she is very picky about who the other guy would be.
 
Personally I like the idea *smiles* but like angel_girl pointed out, thinking about it and actually doing it are two very different things. :devil:
 
littleone77 said:
Personally I like the idea *smiles* but like angel_girl pointed out, thinking about it and actually doing it are two very different things. :devil:
Especially since that nasty demon called jealousy would rear it's ugly head if there isn't some care taken. A guy may be ok with it until the girl reveals by accident how the other guy does something her bf/so doesn't.
 
Azuldrgon said:
Especially since that nasty demon called jealousy would rear it's ugly head if there isn't some care taken. A guy may be ok with it until the girl reveals by accident how the other guy does something her bf/so doesn't.

Exactly. I have discussed it with him and its something which interests the both of us BUT we both know actually doing so would require alot of trust, security and love. I think I would be more worried about lacking or not being enough for him rather than jealousy.
 
You are all so right

True, eveyone has to be okay with it and sure of themselves and their partner. I think that if it satisfies both, and they can handle someone else making love to their spouse, then go for it. I have also fantasized about another woman being in the same bed. (For her, not for me) to ahve sex with :) .
 
Azuldrgon said:
Especially since that nasty demon called jealousy would rear it's ugly head if there isn't some care taken. A guy may be ok with it until the girl reveals by accident how the other guy does something her bf/so doesn't.

Precisely. I'm greedy enough to not care to share and I don't think I'd like the idea of my partner being willing to share me.

Having said that... what I do in my head doesn't hurt anyone. ;) :kiss:
 
angel_girl said:
Precisely. I'm greedy enough to not care to share and I don't think I'd like the idea of my partner being willing to share me.

Having said that... what I do in my head doesn't hurt anyone. ;) :kiss:

LOL, yes our inner thoughts are a great play area. Idk, maybe its just me but the concept of bringing in another is more of increasing/heightening pleasure than sharing.
 
yes all is true

My girlfriend and I love and trust each other like nobody I have ever been with. I think I would just like to see her get off with two guys at once. I think I'm a little weird as I beleive I would be more jealous if the other guy "kissed" her while we were in the 3some. I just think of it as being just another dick and turn her on more....that seems to turn me on just the thought.
 
I love the idea

I have thought about this for a while and she likes the idea of another mans dick in her while I watch. We love eachother more than anything and we're open minded. JUst need to prepare for it, can't just do it. Our friends tried and loved it, their very happy still, but they only did it once, not making it a routine for their relationship. Thats excactly how we intend to approach it, just once and then leave it for an erotic memory.
 
littleone77 said:
LOL, yes our inner thoughts are a great play area. Idk, maybe its just me but the concept of bringing in another is more of increasing/heightening pleasure than sharing.

I don't think the reality ever really lives up to that particular fantasy though.
 
angel_girl said:
I don't think the reality ever really lives up to that particular fantasy though.

That can be aptly applied to any fantasy; a homosexual/bi encounter, three some, BDSM, or even Daddy/Litte Girl. It is true in all realms, not just in this particular case. The clash of realities is one reason why I personally try to avoid pictures.
 
I want to have a threesome with my boyfriend and another (or a couple), but it's so hard to find one near us. :(
 
It is very erotic!

I've been involved in two threesomes and loved both. It was after my divorce and with another couple. They both enjoyed it as much as I did and no one ever got jealous. Strange though, it was a first for both women but not a first for me or either of the other men. Both women did say that they had never had as many or as powerful orgasms as they did in the threesome. :)
 
Bump

Would love to hear more insights on this. Was it enjoyable to you or was it a bomb? What would it take to convince you to do it?
 
I have had 3somes with my ex

Yes it was with my ex but as far as jealously.....well there wasnt any. And that is not why we broke our relationship off. I do agree with one of the other people who posted a comment saying, in so many words " don't make it an everyday occurance just a rare one".

When I dated the girlfriend before my true love im dating now, she had some strange skills called squirting and for some reason everyone and anyone wanted to see. She also liked guys who were hung I mean like 9-10 inches and thick....that was her favorite word "thick". She like to get off with a guy who was hung thick and long, I liked to watch and the other guy was just plain amazed about the sqiurting thing. After the 3some was over we just went back to our everyday lives but I still remember how she got off differently with the other guys as compared to me......I am not hung and I didnt seem make her yell with extasy as much as the other guys did. I am not mad or disappointed because I couldnt bring her to such a climax, but I believe It was just a dick...it wasnt like she was going to leave me just because the guy had a bigger cock. So there...that was my short and sweet story...ps the real reason we did break it off was because I moved away for better work and she didnt wanna leave....and yes we still keep in touch occationally.
 
3 somes,when they WORK are beyond amazing.I liked it for many reasons.It just felt fucking great,LOL.Words cant describe how much pleasure I got from knowng how much he liked it.The look on his face was worth every second.I liked sharing him with someone else.And she was a great choice for us.
YES YES YES I would do it again
 
angel_girl said:
Precisely. I'm greedy enough to not care to share and I don't think I'd like the idea of my partner being willing to share me.

Having said that... what I do in my head doesn't hurt anyone. ;) :kiss:
Yes, that's how I feel about these things as well. My fantasies are one thing, but I don't separate sex and love easily. I happen to WANT to be bonded emotionally and spiritually to a single woman, and having sex with someone else, even in a consentual arrangement, would wreck that for me.
 
angel_girl said:
Hmmm...while I totally get off on the idea of it...I wouldn't do it irl. But that's just me. I know people who've been able to invite others into their bedroom with no issues...but I don't see how it can work without someone eventually getting hurt. This is, of course, assuming that there is love there.

angel_girl said:
Precisely. I'm greedy enough to not care to share and I don't think I'd like the idea of my partner being willing to share me.

Having said that... what I do in my head doesn't hurt anyone.

southerntierguy said:
Yes, that's how I feel about these things as well. My fantasies are one thing, but I don't separate sex and love easily. I happen to WANT to be bonded emotionally and spiritually to a single woman, and having sex with someone else, even in a consentual arrangement, would wreck that for me.

Guess I don't really have a whole lot of input on this except to say that I agree with the above posts wholeheartedly..

Some things are great in your mind... but if they ever get out into real life they could destroy you.
 
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