Things your partner should be.

[Betticus]

Thought this might be an interesting topic. A spot to put down what your partner should be for you, something that you want or need.

For me, she should be a workout partner. I tend to not take care of myself unless I have a subbie so when I have one the urge to eat right and exercise really hits me and doesn't go away. So a sporty subbie!

 

[leeroy jenkins]

I want a woman that can be a nasty sadist as well as a sensual one too. This would be the best of both world to me.

 

[FurryFury]

Full of energy at least when I want/need him to be.

Always horny.

At least a bit sadistic.

 

[skittles_lm]

Patient. My partner needs to have almost infinite patience!

a very large sex drive is second on the list!

 

[Netzach]

Ultimately flippable. They can be 10% bottom but I'll be the one to make it happen for them.

Can't like suckass movies. Must not be afraid of subtitles.

 

[amadaun]

Has to have at least a little bit of music-geekiness in them. Doesn't necessarily have to be indie rock, but none of this "anything but rap or country" bullshit. Maybe even better if they were obsessively into experimental jazz or something I know nothing about.

Able to deal with my randomness and constant need for sexual attention... also important.

 

[Netzach]

Has to have at least a little bit of music-geekiness in them. Doesn't necessarily have to be indie rock, but none of this "anything but rap or country" bullshit. Maybe even better if they were obsessively into experimental jazz or something I know nothing about.

Able to deal with my randomness and constant need for sexual attention... also important.

Insist on the indie rock. I get stuck with Oasis and Peter Murphy and Spacehog in the car now.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Insist on the indie rock. I get stuck with Oasis and Peter Murphy and Spacehog in the car now.

Netzach does Spacehog have a song The female of the species?? I am fairly sure but if you know could you tell me.

 

[wynnie]

ultimate qualities

Mmmm.. well since i am married... he has alot of the qualities i like. The one quality that is very important is the fact that he is willing to experiment or try new things..and if I really want something he doesnt deny me.

 

[OzoneRed]

1. Female.

2. Smarter than me. Or at least as smart. Smart people aren't always likeable, but they're always challenging.

3. Morning person; likes to get up early to watch sunrise. Such people are seldom whiners or complainers.

4. Likes to cook. I'm a lousy cook, and I don't enjoy it at all. Should be easy to make a deal: "If you'll cook, I'll clean up."

 

[Yasashii_Kaze]

Creative. I tend to try to find loopholes in everything. He must be able to out-think me. Intelligent. Well-read. Needs to keep up on at least the basic goings-on of the world around us. Definitely should have a mile-wide sadistic streak of pure evil running through Him.

 

[wynnie]

Creative. I tend to try to find loopholes in everything. He must be able to out-think me. Intelligent.

giggles.. okay that is totally me too!! I like to challenge ...to push..

 

[catalina_francisco]

Francisco...totally hot, sadistic, creative, challenging, intelligent, great cook (though he hans't cooked us any of his famous Spanish dishes of late ), and high libido.

Catalina

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Things my partner should be...

MUST HAVE QUALITIES:
Honest
Forgiving (Hey, I'm human I goof up sometimes and need to be forgiven like anyone else)
Patient (I operate on MY time schedule, not theirs...)
Spankable bottom

Optional Quality:
Pain slut, or okay with me playing with pain sluts

 

[Ksb]

Netzach does Spacehog have a song The female of the species?? I am fairly sure but if you know could you tell me.

I know that the UK band Space most certainly do, on the album 'Spiders '. Maybe thats what you're thinking of...


As for the original question... I think I need him to be secure in himself, very tolerant to my crazyness, and obviously be a kinky bugger.

 

[myinnerslut]

he needs to be creative, funny, entertaining, patient
he needs to keep me on my toes, be able to keep up with and/or control my sex drive, and be able to command control of me... if you cant command control over me i may listen to you, but ill never respect you

 

[BiBunny]

The superficial me says he needs to be tall. I'm 5'9", so I like men who are 6'+. I also require a laidback man with a good sense of humor. Must be able to carry on a conversation. I prefer a switch who swings to the Dominant end of the spectrum. I'm equal parts sadist and masochist, so it's nice that he would, too.

Ok, I just described B., my Master.

 

[JupitersGirl]

Self-confident enough to be patient.

High libido.

Controlling and sadistic.

More intelligent than I am.

A good voice.

 

[myinnerslut]

Ok, I just described B., my Master.

i found when doing mine that i ended up describing Sir. funy how that hapens, isnt it

 

[emotionskill]

He needs to be patient enough to put up with my random, silly, air-head moments.

He needs a good sense of humor and intelligent.

 

[shyybabe]

He must be able to laugh with me, there is far too little of it these days. Honestry and trust a must. Love unconditionally, forgive when required, be secure in his sexuality and allow me to explore mine. Love lizards, cats, horses and anything else I bring home. Must not snore or complain when I ravish him senseless in the middle of the night. Everything else negotiable.

 

[shy slave]

Sadistic but fun
Have a really erotic soft danish accent
Intelligent
Crave sex particularly having his cock licked, sucked, stroked and touched
Be able to laugh and make me laugh
Be able to handle me when I am being difficult and in a bad mood.
He has to at least like my sense of humour, even if it does lead to consequences!.

Hmmm Andante fits that bill quite well

 

[Byakuya]

I just want her to be a bit more willing to experiment. Although I've discovered that she's most receptive to trying new things when she's in a good mood. I also wouldn't mind if she was a little more sadistic.

 

[FurryFury]

I have bad news on that snoring issue. Most snore at one time or another. It tends to happen with exhaustion, upper respiratory infections or illnesses, with age and weight gain.

Fury

 

[danimouse]

Thought this might be an interesting topic. A spot to put down what your partner should be for you, something that you want or need.

For me, she should be a workout partner. I tend to not take care of myself unless I have a subbie so when I have one the urge to eat right and exercise really hits me and doesn't go away. So a sporty subbie!

Maybe a tomboy?

Dani