Things you'd wish you knew

[dreaming_lilith]

I don't have any medical education but I find it important to be awarded of possible risks or results with some BDSM activities. There can be really bad side effects if you do things without knowing exactly what happens.

Here are two I’ve been told from friends:

Repeated spanking with a paddle on a certain body part over a longer period of time can result in permanent damage of the nerves. This because a paddle makes damage deeper than a flogger or a whip, and can hurt the nerves so they can’t recover = less sensitive.

Having a clothes pin (or such) locked around a nipple for longer than 20 minutes will risk the cells in the nipple dying. If no blood can bring oxygen for too long, it will basically die.

If you know of any more, because there must be unlimited info like this, please share!

 

[sigsauerprinces]

ive heard that about the nipples before..which is why i will never allow that kind of thing to be done to my nipples. its just not worth it. my nipples are SUPER sensitive, and i like them that way, theyre one of my most favorite/fun parts of my body and i'd like to keep them that way.

hadnt heard that about the paddle tho..

 

[rosco rathbone]

Bitch, I'm gonna kill your nipple.

 

[WriterDom]

Use panic snaps if you are restraining someone vertically with hands above their head. They aren't expensive and allow you to get someone down if they pass out even with the load. I guess you could also cut the rope, but I like to go directly from the restraints to the D ring.

And if you are very new to this, learn where is it safe to hit and where it isn't safe.

http://no.place.like.home.mindspring.com/abbot/articles/jl980119.htm

 

[rosco rathbone]

Is that a giant ball of light on your nose writer dom or are you just happy to see me?

 

[dreaming_lilith]

Oh that is a great link! Thanks!

 

[trodas]

sigsauerprinces - well, what to say - a little grip on your niples are not going to kill their sensitivity or their cells
And of you never play with them well, you don't know what you are missing

...anyway, when you are "superworried" about too few blood, what about applying vacuum to them?
(that way they get overflowed by blood, and watch the sensitivity then )

 

[dreaming_lilith]

sigsauerprinces - well, what to say - a little grip on your niples are not going to kill their sensitivity or their cells
And of you never play with them well, you don't know what you are missing

Amen to that. Nipple torture can be fantastic; just make sure the one playing with them knows how to not give permanent damage. But if you are very sensitive much shouldnt be needed to make you squirm.

 

[trodas]

Doing to anyone permament damage is very unattractive for me, eh, i can't probably do it even when asked - or at least feel very bad about it

However sensitive niples are fun to play with Glad you agree with me, however i would like to make girlies squirm

...at least a little

 

[dreaming_lilith]

Doing to anyone permament damage is very unattractive for me, eh, i can't probably do it even when asked - or at least feel very bad about it

but sometimes it can be the result when one doesn't know all risks

 

[Netzach]

I've specifically heard NOT to use panic snaps for the reason that they can become detached at the wrong time unexpectedly and were never made to bear a full human weight load. If I were going to do any kind of full weight suspension with rope I think rated equipment and other friends nearby are pretty crucial elements.

Smelling salts in the kit bag, if I knew then what I know now.

And you can never wear too many rubber gloves on top of the last pair when doing a "forced" enema. ecch.