newsubandtop
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- Jan 5, 2014
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Hi, guys! I am (once again) here for advice… I feel kind of bad about it…
Thing is, I’ve been chatting with a dom guy for a few months, we have gotten close in the past three months and he has asked me to spend Easter holidays at his place.
On a relationship level, I feel there is a nice friendship between us and I long to spend real time with him. About bdsm sex, we have played on cam and have clicked, at least in my head. I know what he is into and I have made sure he knows me well too. It has been so much fun discussing scenes and ideas, and I really like him. But it is nothing more than playing, there isn’t any kind of real power dynamics between us.
I’ve asked him what his expectations about our meeting are and he has assured me that nothing will happen if I don’t want it. He says he will be happy just to see me and he won’t try sex if I am not for it. I really want to meet him and I have these butterflies in my stomach lol
Does this seem risky to you? I’ve never met anyone from the internet for real so this feels like I’m stepping into unknown territory in so many ways.
Ever done it? Does it seem like a crazy idea? I have the impression that everyone does it these days and it is a pretty common way to socialise today but still I am weary...
My main concern is another though: what if we try and it turns to be disappointing for one of us or for both? Or even worse, harmful is any way? I have broken up with another guy not long ago and I am not ready to burn myself again but I really want to try. I am tired of looking and waiting and I feel I really have to give this a chance
Thank you, guys for reading this and if you have any ideas and would like to share them, I would be grateful. you!
Thing is, I’ve been chatting with a dom guy for a few months, we have gotten close in the past three months and he has asked me to spend Easter holidays at his place.
On a relationship level, I feel there is a nice friendship between us and I long to spend real time with him. About bdsm sex, we have played on cam and have clicked, at least in my head. I know what he is into and I have made sure he knows me well too. It has been so much fun discussing scenes and ideas, and I really like him. But it is nothing more than playing, there isn’t any kind of real power dynamics between us.
I’ve asked him what his expectations about our meeting are and he has assured me that nothing will happen if I don’t want it. He says he will be happy just to see me and he won’t try sex if I am not for it. I really want to meet him and I have these butterflies in my stomach lol
Does this seem risky to you? I’ve never met anyone from the internet for real so this feels like I’m stepping into unknown territory in so many ways.
Ever done it? Does it seem like a crazy idea? I have the impression that everyone does it these days and it is a pretty common way to socialise today but still I am weary...
My main concern is another though: what if we try and it turns to be disappointing for one of us or for both? Or even worse, harmful is any way? I have broken up with another guy not long ago and I am not ready to burn myself again but I really want to try. I am tired of looking and waiting and I feel I really have to give this a chance
Thank you, guys for reading this and if you have any ideas and would like to share them, I would be grateful. you!