These Are A Few of Your Favorite Things...

[Lancecastor]

Supposing you were meeting someone for the first time for a weekend of play with whom you could engage in any form of kink, giving or receiving, you desired.

What would be a few of your favorite things?

To get things started, the Lance Castor Appetizer Sampler:

1. Brass bed bondage, spread-eagle, legs suspended;

2. Blindfolded temperature, sensation and shaving play;

3. Public displays;

4. Orgasm denial;

5. Spanking;

6. Saran mummification.

Always looking for inspiration;
Lance

 

[MsWorthy]

Supposing you were meeting someone for the first time for a weekend of play with whom you could engage in any form of kink, giving or receiving, you desired.

What would be a few of your favorite things?

To get things started, the Lance Castor Appetizer Sampler:

1. Brass bed bondage, spread-eagle, legs suspended;

2. Blindfolded temperature, sensation and shaving play; I want her looking into my eyes

3. Public displays; check

4. Orgasm denial; check

5. Spanking; check

6. Saran mummification.

7. Anal play: check (someone new to scare with my butt plugs and dildos *smiles*)

8. Hair pulling; check


Always looking for inspiration; Hey I am looking to you guys for inspiration *smiles*
Lance

 

[navarre]

What would be a few of your favorite things?

To get things started, the Lance Castor Appetizer Sampler:

1. Brass bed bondage, spread-eagle, legs suspended; check

2. Blindfolded temperature, sensation and shaving play; check

3. Public displays; check

4. Orgasm denial; check

5. Spanking; double check

6. Saran mummification. nah

 

[artful]

Supposing you were meeting someone for the first time for a weekend of play with whom you could engage in any form of kink, giving or receiving, you desired.

What would be a few of your favorite things?

To get things started, the Lance Castor Appetizer Sampler:

1. Brass bed bondage, spread-eagle, legs suspended;-CHECK

2. (a)Blindfolded-CHECK

(b)temperature-CHECK

(c)sensation (varied)-CHECK

(d)shaving play;-NOPE

3. Public displays;-CHECK

4. Orgasm denial;-TRIPLE CHECK

5. Spanking;-DOUBLE CHECK

6. Saran mummification-Never tried,...Maybe

7. Role Play-CHECK

8. Dirty talk-TRIPLE CHECK

9. Nipple clamps-CHECK

10. Various toys-TRIPLE CHECK

11. Service Oriented Play-DOUBLE CHECK

12. Position Displays-DOUBLE CHECK

13. Simple Cuffing-CHECK

Always looking for inspiration;
Lance

(the number 13 don't scare me)-LMFAO

Great thread Lance,...Thanks

 

[Cirrus]

Hmm...anyone I wanted, to do anything with.

As a sub I would like to be the recipient of:

Light anal play (not very experienced in the anal department yet)
Orgasm denial/forced orgasm
Spanking, flogging
Suspension bondage (want to try but Dom doesn't feel confident enough)
Electroplay, maybe violet wand


And probably some other things I can't think of right now...

 

[Ebonyfire]

Way too easy

Butt fucking!!!!!!

CBT

Face sitting!

Need I say more?

Ebony <Yee yah!!!!!>

 

[Kuurspet]

On either end

On the receiving end:

leather cuffs and chain for restraints
floggers, whips, and crops
hair pulling, face slapping
face fucking
caging


For those occasions when I want to top:
nipple torture
riding crops
pussy whips
blindfolds
gags
"pet" training

Dang - I'm feeling all hot and bothered now...and M is out of town until Saturday.

K

 

[cymbidia]

...on the sub side, i'd love to engage in this straightforward, non-alarmingly kink with my dominant:

1. Softly shared words of heat and passion, of excitement and intent, of need and want, all while lying clothed, fingers trailing over the parts that are exposed, buttons being opened, zippers being pulled, eyes and lips caressing each other as the tension builds.

2. Collar on. Cuffs, leather, wrists and ankles, on.

3. Clamps on.

4. Face down on the bed. (Yeh. Uh huh. With the clamps on.) Spreader bar between my ankles -and/or- wrists chained to my collar -or- put into a hogtie.

5. Flogger, crop, tawse, belt, strap, paddle, whip, cane used i some kinda soft-to-meaner rotation on my butt and back.

6. Clamps off. Arms and legs and body repositioned.

7. Hard dick in my mouth, thrusting, in and out, make me gag a little, a couple times, keep it coming, make me moan, make me beg, make me gasp with heat and need and wild arousal.

8. Gag me.

9. Ass fuck. Hard. Be brutal at this point. Make me scream. Let me touch myself while you're thrusting into me, hard, hard, hard. Cum in my ass and collapse on top of me while i shake under you, my orgasms tapering off more slowly.

10. A shared shower. Tender kisses. Hands stroking soap, shampooing hair, washing away fluids.

11. Back on the bed. Cuddles. Soft touches. Quiet talk. Lazy kisses. Maybe a slow return of heated need, but need destined to be channeled in another direction for the next go round...

There are so many choices.

 

[Lancecastor]

Such inspiring gifts...

....from each of you!

It's wonderful to read the range of ideas and to hear the variety of feelings associated with each...and so much of it strikes me here as positively romantic....and I'm a huge romance junkie.

Cheers;
LC

 

[CarolineOh]

cym, I am going to print out your post, and stick it on the front of the refrigerator.

"Sam, honey, why don't you go get yourself a cold beer?"

 

[WriterDom]

A weekend is a long time. I guess it would depend on her experience level and the potential of the relationship. It's so easy to jump into things once the door locks. If I thought it had a chance to be more than a weekend of sex, a long walk in the woods might be a starting point.

Nothing wrong with casual encounters. But once the number of encounters surpass your age, it's time to look for something with a little more meaning. IMHO.

 

[Quint]

1.) Entrance is heralded by a sharp slap across my face, knocking me to the floor. More follow, for whatever capricious whim he's indulging today. Making eye contact, not making eye contact, speaking of course is unpardonable but who wants to be pardoned anyway?

2.) Verbal humiliation and contempt. I have to plead (perhaps nonverbally--or perhaps verbally, knowing that I'll still get slapped by obeying one order yet disobeying the other) and prove myself worthy of attention and response.

3.) Physical humiliation if it's possible. Public display would be lovely. Webcams are convenient. Live audiences are better.

4.) Rough, hard, callous sex, accompanied by more verbal humiliation. Total loss of control. I want to be used in as many ways as I can take, as often as I can take--and I want both of those lines pushed.

5.) No feedback. Not on this weekend. I can do without afterglow until we're separated--I know how good I am. o)

Those are, of course, the basics. Assuming I have a toybox and time to indulge, here are some additionals:

1.) A clit vibe strapped on and occasionally even turned on, but only long enough for me to start whimpering and rocking my hips. It's off again.

2.) Light nipple clamps. Never worked with them before.

3.) He lifts me by the sensitive flesh right below my chin, forcing me to look into his eyes. I hear a familiar click but can't wince away, as terrified as the simple sound makes me feel. He moves the object closer and from the corner of my eye I see intense light; my face grows warm. He moves it around and I see the flame right in front of my face, and his scornful smirk behind the lighter. I am held too tightly to move away and so I can do nothing but hyperventilate as the fire moves closer....closer....then moved out of sight. Is it still on? Did he put it away? He's still smirking and oh my god it just burned me-

4.) Never been flogged or caned or whipped. I believe it's about time. All of the above, please.

(How many hours in a weekend? Damn...)

5.) I would like for him to invite friends over for dinner and have me wait on them. I want to serve them food and stand silently and obediently and not so much as cringe (outwardly) when he insults me to the other people. If they are the right kind of people (as in, won't go ballistic and call the police), I would even want him to order me to serve them however they wanted.

6.) Punishments I don't long for. Pleasure I have to beg for.

 

[indiandomme]

fabulous ideas

quint,
it was pleasure reading you... mmm..
everybody's descripition are good... but for me .. your one attracted most.

-----

Thunder

 

[dreamer]

OK, I'm going to ask a question and maybe it's making too much of a generalization.

When you all post these ideas are you invisioning a new relationship weekend fling? Or a long term grown to trust each other situation?

In my mind these don't seem to be weekend fling kinda activities...does the BDSM lifestyle fit with fast and furious meetings? I mean I always viewed the attraction to be the intimacy grown through exploration of each other, and each others limits. Or does one reach a point where the limits are fairly defined so the attraction is in the doing, not the building of the relationship?

I guess I have an image of these activities NEEDING a serious level of intimacy with someone. Is this not really the case? Is it more like most forms of sex and the intimacy makes it that much more special but it isn't necessary?


I hope my question makes a little sense. I'm interested in the process, more than anything. Although given the right person I suppose I'd be interested in exploring the reality too...hmmm...

 

[MzChrista]

I think most people will say yes they need that high level of intimacy but I take the dissenting view, which will surprise grand total of nobody, and say that I dig the higher anticipation level of playing with someone who I am not intimate with. That doesnt mean trust is not there. I play very rough mostly and would not expect someone to let me work em over without that. But I dont get there trust from a love relationship I get it through my reputation as being someone who plays hard but safe.
But love is cool if thats what your into.

 

[cymbidia]

Good questions.

When you all post these ideas are you invisioning a new relationship weekend fling? Or a long term grown to trust each other situation?

In the case of the one i wrote in this thread, it was a (basically) true account of time i spent with someone - and we were new to each other. It was our first time spending and focused, skin-to-skin time together. I've posted other stuff in other threads, though, that are accounts of time i've spent with people with whom i've built up caring, longer-lasting, relationships. All the stories/poems i've got posted at Lit are are true (except 1.5 of them); i don't know how to write fiction very well.

In my mind these don't seem to be weekend fling kinda activities...does the BDSM lifestyle fit with fast and furious meetings?

All human relationships can be fast and furious, or not. They can be imbued with great respect and caring, or not. They can be a "zipless fuck" or not. BDSM sex is no different.

Being in a BDSM relationship, now that is different from engaging in BDSM sex. But that's true of being in any relationship versus simply fucking around and having a hot time, right?

BDSM sexuality is just like regular sexuality (whatever *that* is) except we have a far greater focus, most of the time for most of those involved, on sensation play and aspects of control.

I mean I always viewed the attraction to be the intimacy grown through exploration of each other, and each others limits. Or does one reach a point where the limits are fairly defined so the attraction is in the doing, not the building of the relationship?

The attraction of a BDSM relationship is, indeed, for many people, the gradual ability to relax fully into trusting one's partner in a fundamental manner, yes, something that's true of all human love relationships. The gradually evolving intimacy allows the investigation into limits and edges that isn't possible for most of us with someone we don't know and love and trust.

I think we all get to a point where the limits are fairly well defined. However, that is such a vastness of ways to push the limits, to test them, to try walking the edges of them, that one needs never get bored in doing so with thier partner. To be truly intimate, absolutely open, with the one you love and trust above all others is like stealing fire from the gods - a thing of breathtaking reality and immense rarity.

I guess I have an image of these activities NEEDING a serious level of intimacy with someone. Is this not really the case? Is it more like most forms of sex and the intimacy makes it that much more special but it isn't necessary?

Some of the things people have said in this thread are things i'd imagine would absolutely require a huge level of intimacy. Quints whole thing, for instance, is one of those. Mine, however, as i've said, is something two new-to-each-other people can (and did) do. (New-to-each-other, yes, but not new to sex or BDSM kinds of sexuality.) There are others that fall between those poles someplace.

Everything between two people is between them. It all depends on the shared headspace and level of trust and intimacy they have going into the touching, you know? Just like any two people in any intimate situation...

I hope my question makes a little sense. I'm interested in the process, more than anything. Although given the right person I suppose I'd be interested in exploring the reality too...hmmm...

The process is fascinating. Ultimately, BDSM D/s sexuality, though, is a hands-on kinda thing. You can read about it and talk about it and think about all the livelong day. Until you actually go out there and do it, though, you don't know what it is for you.

It's different for us all.
That which excites Quint might be applling to me.
That which i find unbearably arousing might leave Risia cold.
That which you imagine might be wildly exciting to you might be, in fact, something you don't like - while something to which you gave little thought might be, when it was your skin and your brain and your desires skimming through the air to meet and match your partners', intensely and immediately erotic.

It is different for us all.
You have to go do it for real to know how it will be for you.

 

[cymbidia]

I play very rough mostly

Me, too.
Too bad you're so far away.

 

[dreamer]

But love is cool if thats what your into.

I think that's the best quote I've seen in ages...

Thanks MzC and Cym...both your answers made a lot of sense. I guess being new to the idea gives me a preconceived notion that most if not all of this would have to be within the boundaries of a long term relationship.

Guess I'm into love. YEA!! I'm cool!! Or is it the love that's cool and I'm still a geek?

 

[CarolineOh]

I think that's the best quote I've seen in ages...

Thanks MzC and Cym...both your answers made a lot of sense. I guess being new to the idea gives me a preconceived notion that most if not all of this would have to be within the boundaries of a long term relationship.

Guess I'm into love. YEA!! I'm cool!! Or is it the love that's cool and I'm still a geek?

Love makes the biggest geek cool and the coolest person geeky.

 

[Andreina]

1) Nipple clamps put on

2) Spread my legs and put a clamp on my clit while you shove a big dildo in my pussy

3) Turn me around and handcuff me to the bed

4) Assfuck me hard, very hard. Show me how dominant you can be, be rough be brutal, make me whimper, show me my limits

5) Turn me around, spread my legs, finger me gently, then more and more, spank my pussy, spank it hard...

6) Shove your cock deep in my mouth, make me deepthroat it and cum all over my face


.... and more....

 

[SierraMoon]

I play very rough mostly and would not expect someone to let me work em over without that. But I dont get there trust from a love relationship I get it through my reputation as being someone who plays hard but safe.

i'm liking you more and more with each post, MzC....

and cym.... she's not too far from me... na na na na na

 

[cymbidia]

OooooOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooh!
You're a brat today sierra!
Gloating!

 

[SierraMoon]

OooooOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooh!
You're a brat today sierra!
Gloating!

today??? i'm always a brat.... oh, ooopppss.. don't tell MzC.... i've just had a wonderful weekend, and i guess it's showing in my attitude.... sorry, cym.... hehehe

 

[Ebonyfire]

I think it depends

I think most people will say yes they need that high level of intimacy but I take the dissenting view, which will surprise grand total of nobody, and say that I dig the higher anticipation level of playing with someone who I am not intimate with. That doesnt mean trust is not there. I play very rough mostly and would not expect someone to let me work em over without that. But I dont get there trust from a love relationship I get it through my reputation as being someone who plays hard but safe.
But love is cool if thats what your into.

I played very hard (for Me) with a new sub a week ago. it worked out so well, we are planning to do it again, and again. We had spent time on discussing the ground rules, safewords and parameters. However, he was new to me, but he is a very experienced submissive. That helped too.

It just depends on the people involved and the established ground rules. I find that I do better when not romantically involved with a sub (hence th emotional upheavals of the past month).

Ebony