therpy today

[burrish]

well i would just like to keep those of you who were interested in my therpy that today was my first visit and it went well. he asked all sorts of questions to how i grew up and how mine and hubby's relationship started and how the cheating began and so on and so on. he advisd me for the time being to put it behind me and we would work on other issues and then when that "rock" came up we would deal with it then, so it is going to be a long process but it has started out well so far. i just want to thank everyone here for being supportive and understanding and also listening when i needed it. you are my only friends and i couldn't have asked for better ones. thank you
heather

 

[jeepman6]

well i would just like to keep those of you who were interested in my therpy that today was my first visit and it went well. he asked all sorts of questions to how i grew up and how mine and hubby's relationship started and how the cheating began and so on and so on. he advisd me for the time being to put it behind me and we would work on other issues and then when that "rock" came up we would deal with it then, so it is going to be a long process but it has started out well so far. i just want to thank everyone here for being supportive and understanding and also listening when i needed it. you are my only friends and i couldn't have asked for better ones. thank you
heather

Anything that is worth while is going to be a long process. It's going to take a lot of work and will take both of you to make it right and I speak from experience. Your therapist is right that you have to work on the other issues first because those issues will have a lot to do with why this happened in the first place. Good luck to you both and keep us posted if you feel comfortable doing so.

 

[SexyChele]

You've taken the first step. I hope the rest of the steps will find you and your hubby getting closer and resolving issues between you. Thank you for sharing your journey with us, and I wish both of you well.

 

[bobsgirl]

I'm so glad you took the first step! But I have to say, Heather, I still have the feeling that you think husband cheated because of something you did or didn't do. Cheating is HIS failure not yours.

 

[sheath]

Heather...

I just smiled and smiled when I saw that you had gone to see that counselor! Taking that first step is the most difficult one, and you've gotten past it. I'm so PROUD OF YOU!

Please keep us posted, Heather. There are many of us...more than you might think!...watching for your posts and rooting for you. We care.

Best of luck to you,

S.

 

[Mstrskey]

Outstanding!!

Heather this is a HUGE step in the right direction for both of you and I am very proud of you for having the courage and commitment to your marriage to take this difficult step.

I'm glad to hear it went well and please do keep us posted. I'm pulling for you sweetheart!

 

[Lust Engine]

Keeping my fingers crossed for good things to happen too.