There's this thing that guys do...

[honeypot104]

...in a crowded bar when they want to get past a girl. They put their hand/s on our hips or lower back, sometimes murmer a comment, and move past.

It's not like they're hitting on us, more like "I get it - you're a girl and girls are soft and smell nice".

I should get out more often

 

[BoomerP]

I do that too

Do you like it?

 

[alexandraaah]

I totally get the appeal of this.

It is really masculine, for some reason.

 

[cjh]

yes.

yes we do.

yes you are.

 

[bronzeage]

...in a crowded bar when they want to get past a girl. They put their hand/s on our hips or lower back, sometimes murmer a comment, and move past.

It's not like they're hitting on us, more like "I get it - you're a girl and girls are soft and smell nice".

I should get out more often

You don't get it. We are hitting on you.

 

[artemesia_g]

...in a crowded bar when they want to get past a girl. They put their hand/s on our hips or lower back, sometimes murmer a comment, and move past.

It's not like they're hitting on us, more like "I get it - you're a girl and girls are soft and smell nice".

I should get out more often

I love that.

 

[broken_lizrd]

We just wanna look in your eyes

 

[pellso27]

We also hold our hand about a fraction of an inch away from your ass as we do it too!

 

[alexandraaah]

How is it that nearly everything men do is seemingly unintentional, yet this one moment all women adore is something you're all in on?

What gives?

 

[pellso27]

we are all perverts inside

 

[Little Tighty]

I've actually noticed this and wondered why it is socially acceptible. If I want to get past a guy I hold my hands way up in the air just to make sure none of me accidentally touches them below the belt as I brush by.

Maybe a little ass grope would be better, like a bum honk to let them know I want to get by?

 

[posterOfAgirl]

i'm so oblivious to this
i should stand in crowds more often

 

[pellso27]

this is now an educational thread

 

[honeypot104]

I do that too

Do you like it?

lol, whatever works for you!

Yup - frissons.

 

[FiestyRedHead]

I do it too, though it's just a placement of my hand on their arm.

But I often do it so that, in a really crowded place, more body contact doesn't come into play as I walk past. Or that I actually touch skin and come off with their sweat. Which (ick) has happened to me in the past.

So I just assumed it's common courtesy.

lol - Guess maybe I thought wrong.

 

[broken_lizrd]

How is it that nearly everything men do is seemingly unintentional, yet this one moment all women adore is something you're all in on?

What gives?

Alcohol tunes us in to our most primal modes, in the bar it comes out.

Notice all guys look the other guys in the eye in this situation. It's a game of chicken when its M2M.

 

[Killswitch]

I never touch anyone uninvited.

It's a recipe for disaster, and Im surprised at the responses in this thread actually.

 

[broken_lizrd]

I've actually noticed this and wondered why it is socially acceptible. If I want to get past a guy I hold my hands way up in the air just to make sure none of me accidentally touches them below the belt as I brush by.

Maybe a little ass grope would be better, like a bum honk to let them know I want to get by?

That would definately be good for a drink or too!

 

[bronzeage]

I've actually noticed this and wondered why it is socially acceptible. If I want to get past a guy I hold my hands way up in the air just to make sure none of me accidentally touches them below the belt as I brush by.

Maybe a little ass grope would be better, like a bum honk to let them know I want to get by?

Its right on the border of socially acceptable. The man needs to get your attention and its too noisy for you to hear him. You can't try this in the library and get away with it.

If you are offended, he can raise his hands and ask you what your problem is. If not, you can look at him and smile. Its an in.

 

[honeypot104]

I totally get the appeal of this.

It is really masculine, for some reason.

Damn straight!

I love that.

I'd forgotten the appeal until just now. *sigh*

That's the sort of thing that leaves me looking a little doe-eyed

Thank god I'm not the only one.

How is it that nearly everything men do is seemingly unintentional, yet this one moment all women adore is something you're all in on?

What gives?

They're just saying that cos now they know we like it. It's all a sham...really, it is unintentional. Kind of like that time they almost fucked up but it turned out great in the end.

 

[sweetvee]

I don't particularly like being touched by strange men, no matter the context. In fact, more than one guy has felt my elbow connect with their gut when doing this.

 

[honeypot104]

Its right on the border of socially acceptable. The man needs to get your attention and its too noisy for you to hear him. You can't try this in the library and get away with it.

If you are offended, he can raise his hands and ask you what your problem is. If not, you can look at him and smile. Its an in.

Trying it in the library...now that would be hitting on us!

 

[juvare]

I haven't done the bar scene for some time. Remembering this (thank you, btw) almost makes me want to revisit.

 

[atmas]

Occasionally we'll work our thumbs into one of your orifices on our way past.

 

[RawHumor]

I don't particularly like being touched by strange men, no matter the context. In fact, more than one guy has felt my elbow connect with their gut when doing this.

Thus the problem for men... most women want men to be a little bit bold, but a select few want us to treat you like you're princesses with a glass bubble around you.