There's a first time for anything....

[AJMistere]

I'me new to the forum, and I've never posted a personal ad.

A little about me:
I'm 24, of multicultural background (almost all of europe and even native mexican). I'm mexican-american born, raised in Mexico, recently moved to the US.
Fresh out of college (alas, still jobless). Graduated in clinical psychology (i will NOT analise people, so don't ask me to do it....it's annoying).
My friends consider me a Renaissance woman. I love art in all it's forms and have participated in: writing, drawing, acting, singing and mask-making. I also love philosophy, martial arts, nature and languages....among many other things. Anything creative and that makes me think is right up my alley. Camping, hiking and most outdoor activities appeal to me.

I'm 5'3'' (160 cm.), white skinned (slightly tanned). I have curly dark brown hair and brown eyes. I'm a little on the hefty side since i'm recovering from a training injury that kept me off the dojo for some months. I have one belly piercing. Three piercings on my left ear and two on the right. Don't have any tattoos...yet.
I guess that's about it......

Ok, here's the thing....
I've always been involved in so many activities and (believe it or not) I'm shy at times. So...i've never had a boyfriend. At the risk of sounding like a movie title....I've never even been kissed...so yeah...i'm a virgin.


I'm not looking for anything serious right now. Just getting to know people via email or chat. That's all i can offer right now.
Although i'm looking for friends in general, i am attracted to bi/straight males, from 20 and up (i do like older men).

And oh yeah.....being a psyche major, i got to see a lot of things. So i'm hard to shock/freak out/creep out/surprise. I'm very direct and like people who are direct. Most men i've met find that threatening or scary, so that's probably why i never found a "Mr. Right", even if it was only to fool around.

So........yeah....i guess that's about it.

...............i can't believe i'm posting this....

 

[pierceheart]

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[AJMistere]

Thx for the welcome.

I'm shy when it comes to the 'personal ad' things.
Whatever i lack in actual physical experience, i can make up with drive and imagination, and i've always been comfortable with it.

But since i grew in a society where women are expected to be 'nice and demure', i never got to show any of that drive and imagination. Men freaked out when they found that i had the martial ability and strength to break their arms, hehe. Telling them what went inside my mind would've given them a heart attack.

When i was in college, i did engage in cybersex, often finding some very disappointing results. So that's why i never tried anything of the sort again.

Anyhoo, thx again!

 

[pierceheart]

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[Ljbonobo]

Very good post. I hope you find what you are looking for. If you want to chat sometime just pm me or use an instant messaging program. I am like you in the fact that even though I do not have a lot of experience in the sexual ways my imagination is quite vivid, and for me cybersex does nothing.

 

[The Gimp]

I'd settle for friendship via email or phone, but will you marry me? I'm an attractive intellegent well paid young man, 27, who's tired of being alone. Honestly I'm not completely alone in that I have both male and female friends here locally and the rest of my family lives about an hour from here but waking up alone on a daily basis is really starting to bother me.

The scariest part of this message is that I'm completely serious. One of these days I'm gonna have an emotional meltdown and propose to the first girl who's willing to have me. Oh well.......

 

[Semler]

You sound like a good catch to me. I'm 39, too old for you, but if you have an older sister?

 

[The Gimp]

No sisters, just two younger brothers one of which is already married. I guess 12 years is a bit of a stretch when it comes to starting a relationship, when I was in first grade you were graduating

Come to think of it retirement age actors in hollywood hook up with twentysomething actresses all the time so mabye there's hope for us after all.......

 

[Semler]

Those old actors with the young women are stretching it a little too far.