Thematic sex

[Haida_lee]

Have you ever heard of themed sex? According to my friend, she always does it with her husband. They always have themed sex. With themed sex, they can escape the boring routine of sex. Because with themed sex, they aren't being themselves. They are acting out other figures that are their fantasies. Please share your opinion.

 

[SandraMaus]

Chatting with someone or sharing fantasies around a theme yes but acting it out? It depends on what the theme is.

 

[Up4fun&69]

If you have read some of my other posts, you know that after my divorce, long-time friends (also nudists), asked me to join them in 3some fun. After having been good friends with this couple for over 11 years—pre-, during, and post-marriage—we shared many times as platonic, nudist friends during those years. And as we started regular 3some play, we also didn't want to lose any of the other fun we shared in the past. So, we agreed to have themed dinners, at least once a month...Japanese, Mexican, Greek, Italian, etc. So for each dinner, we not only each prepared food in that theme but we also dressed the part, more in a historical or traditional sense...sheer, short kimonos, sheer, short togas, etc. Not only did the food and sexy dress get our motors running over the course of the evening, but we also tried to theme our sex play to that culture, even if it was more myth than fact...Japanese(bondage), Greek (anal and MM play), Italian (videoing each other's play), Dutch (smoking pot before playing), British (S&M/discipline), etc. It made our encounters more open and fun, and exposed us to different types of play we might not have tried on our own. And above all, it made sex even more fun.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

If you have read some of my other posts, you know that after my divorce, long-time friends (also nudists), asked me to join them in 3some fun. After having been good friends with this couple for over 11 years—pre-, during, and post-marriage—we shared many times as platonic, nudist friends during those years. And as we started regular 3some play, we also didn't want to lose any of the other fun we shared in the past. So, we agreed to have themed dinners, at least once a month...Japanese, Mexican, Greek, Italian, etc. So for each dinner, we not only each prepared food in that theme but we also dressed the part, more in a historical or traditional sense...sheer, short kimonos, sheer, short togas, etc. Not only did the food and sexy dress get our motors running over the course of the evening, but we also tried to theme our sex play to that culture, even if it was more myth than fact...Japanese(bondage), Greek (anal and MM play), Italian (videoing each other's play), Dutch (smoking pot before playing), British (S&M/discipline), etc. It made our encounters more open and fun, and exposed us to different types of play we might not have tried on our own. And above all, it made sex even more fun.

Over the years, I have heard friends talk about progressive dinner parties. 4 couples living in the same block or cul-de-sac, enjoying the meal, one house at a time.
The couple who provided the main course chose the theme or taste. 1st house - cocktails, 2nd house - appetizers, soup, or salad. Small plate types. 3rd house, main course with sides. 4th house dessert, coffee, after dinner drinks.

Taking that and combining it to your themed 3some gives me lots of ideas.

Random partnering at each house.
Kissing and petting.
Foreplay
Main sex theme
After care.

Like a themed swinger party.

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

My husband and I do this from time to time.

 

[EmmAgain]

I love the idea! It’d be like a sexy Halloween every week. But rounding up the right costumes would get a bit tiresome. I really admire the dedication.

 

[allegro5star]

isn't this the same as or similar to role play?
i've tried this once but my husband had a different idea that what i imagined in my head so it didn't work out the way i wanted. it was still hot if not a little awkward.

 

[Haida_lee]

isn't this the same as or similar to role play?
i've tried this once but my husband had a different idea that what i imagined in my head so it didn't work out the way i wanted. it was still hot if not a little awkward.

Maybe there's a communication problem. If we first discuss the direction and theme of the game, and each person gets into their roles, then the heat and passion will start to build. My husband often calls me "bitch" and "whore" when I play the slave.

 

[allegro5star]

you're right about the communication, plus i think the more we play the better we get at it and the more in-sync we will be.

 

[MarilynMonroeFan]

Have you ever heard of themed sex? According to my friend, she always does it with her husband. They always have themed sex. With themed sex, they can escape the boring routine of sex. Because with themed sex, they aren't being themselves. They are acting out other figures that are their fantasies. Please share your opinion.

And another silly thread, where You play the innocent, she never heard and done it….sorry please go somewhere else!

The people here are so lovely, they not need a fake user here…..