The virgin thread...

[InnerDarkness]

Hehehe...now that I have you all in here....I have a serious thread to start. Kinda serious, kinda fun at the same time....started this in Cafe, but if it belongs in Talk it can be moved.

The purpose of this thread is to post all the activities you are a "virgin" at. The point is to share some things we have never done and maybe the reason why....it can be something you want to do but haven't had the opportunity to do, something you want to do but are afraid to do, something you think you will never do, etc etc etc...the point is simply to express something you have never done. And if you end up doing it...to come back and let us know.

I will start...

I read Quint's thread about a big fetish party/rave thing, and I have never been to one. Someone replied to that thread (sorry I can't recall the name right now) about loving dark raves. I haven't been to one because I don't have the opportunity, but even if I did...I am not sure how I would fare at such an event...or if I would even get the guts to go. I can barely conceptualize those kind of events in my mind...but they look SO FUN!!!

Next...

 

[littlegirlslut]

too many to list...

I wouldn't even know where to begin. It might be easier to list what I have done.

1. Had vanilla sex in a couple different positions.
2. Well there really isn't a 2.

Hopefully this will all change in the future, but I am not in a rush.

LGS

 

[graceanne]

Re: too many to list...

Anal sex. Becuase I have ulcers in my colon, and my dr says it's not safe. It could open them up, and make them worse.

 

[Xelebes]

I will start...

I read Quint's thread about a big fetish party/rave thing, and I have never been to one. Someone replied to that thread (sorry I can't recall the name right now) about loving dark raves. I haven't been to one because I don't have the opportunity, but even if I did...I am not sure how I would fare at such an event...or if I would even get the guts to go. I can barely conceptualize those kind of events in my mind...but they look SO FUN!!!

Next...

'Twas me.

Anywho...

Sex.... in general. Have yet to be kissed and all that stuff. So, I'm a virgin by definition but uhhhhh.... what other things.

Drugs - though I have no intention of taking any. If the stuff the doctors prescribe fuck me over, I wouldn't trust what the street-side apothecary has to offer.

 

[InnerDarkness]

Re: Re: too many to list...

Anal sex. Becuase I have ulcers in my colon, and my dr says it's not safe. It could open them up, and make them worse.

is it something you WANT to do or just something automatically on the virgin list and staying there?

 

[InnerDarkness]

Re: Re: The virgin thread...

Sex.... in general. Have yet to be kissed and all that stuff. So, I'm a virgin by definition but uhhhhh.... what other things.

Do you mind if I probe? (pun intended)

What about oral? Masturbation? Not on the virgin list?

Sorry if too personal...

 

[Xelebes]

Re: Re: Re: The virgin thread...

Do you mind if I probe? (pun intended)

What about oral? Masturbation? Not on the virgin list?

Sorry if too personal...

If I have never kissed, what makes one think I have given or recieved oral? In other words, nope, that's still on the virgin list.

As for masturbation - that's the only orgasm I have recieved.

 

[graceanne]

Re: Re: Re: too many to list...

is it something you WANT to do or just something automatically on the virgin list and staying there?

Well, I don't know about want to. He does, so I'd be willing to if I could, but we're not going to risk it.

 

[InnerDarkness]

Re: Re: Re: Re: The virgin thread...

If I have never kissed, what makes one think I have given or recieved oral? In other words, nope, that's still on the virgin list.

As for masturbation - that's the only orgasm I have recieved.

some people find kissing to be too intimate but can go down on another person no problem. I blew a guy before I kissed him once. Ain't proud of it, but it happened. Now that I think about it...I am not sure I ever kissed him and we did a lot of stuff over many many times together...

Things don't always have to follow a linear order...

 

[MastrJ]

I haven't tried some Shibari things I've seen and liked.

 

[dbriannelson]

hmmm.

Never had much to do with stuffed animals.

Never had any interest either.

Seems to me that one should pretty much do whatever one wants, provided it causes no harm.

No real animals either, just to answer the unspoken questions.

-D

 

[ownedsubgal]

as of yet, i have never:

engaged in sexual activity with an animal
been pooped on or in
been vomited on or in
been hung by the neck
engaged in gun play
been intentionally cut with a knife
been anally fisted
had sex with a Man of 100% native american descent
had sex with a TG/TV/TS/CD
been gangbanged in a public place


...well i'm sure there are tons more, but that's all i can think of for now.

 

[ownedsubgal]

double post

 

[Quint]

Ooh, I hate playing "I've Never." Always end up losing unless I pull cheap shit like "I've never done X with my penis."

Ehh, instead I'll limit my responses to things that I'm probably going to change. Hard limits kinda fixed.

My biggest blindspot is bondage. No handcuffs, no shibari, no armsleeves or hoods or bodybags or any other fun extreme deprivation toys.

Never swallowed piss.

Never had two men play with me simultaneously--one I DO mean to fix at some point!

Never had fetish photography taken, although our video is pretty hardcore.

Still....these are all variations on a theme. I'm not much of any kind of virgin in the non-specific sense. *melodramatic sigh*

(Hey, ID, don't feel bad about missing the party. I've never been to one before either and I have no idea what I'm in for. The pictures look like fun for all, though! I'll be sure to report back with stories.)

 

[Quint]

as of yet, i have never:

engaged in sexual activity with an animal
been pooped on or in
been vomited on or in
been hung by the neck
engaged in gun play
been intentionally cut with a knife
been anally fisted
had sex with a Man of 100% native american descent
had sex with a TG/TV/TS/CD
been gangbanged in a public place


...well i'm sure there are tons more, but that's all i can think of for now.

I like your list. How many of these do you expect/hope will change, and how many are completely out of the question for your Master?

 

[catalina_francisco]

LOL, this is an interesting thread, and the lists I imagine can be endless as no matter how many things one tries, there are always so many more to anticipate and/or attempt. Part of my list would include:

Never been in a porn flick (though we have been offered a paid opportunity to change that by being in a BDSM themed one)

Never taken part in a gangbang

Never been paid as a pro sub or slave

Never played with Master with another female sub/slave

Never been subject to the sexual and sadistic attentions of 2 or more Dominants at the same time

Never been dominated by a Domme

Never tried play piercing (though he has)

Never tried suspension (though that may change soon )

....and the list could continue.

Catalina

 

[ownedsubgal]

I like your list. How many of these do you expect/hope will change, and how many are completely out of the question for your Master?

i think 4 or 5 of those things may change someday...things like the pooping, vomiting, and TS/TV/TG thing i can say with pretty much 100% certainty won't ever happen as my Master would be far too repulsed.


a couple more:

...never done anything physical with a Domme
...never done anything sexual involving food (that's right, i've never licked whipped cream off a cock, lol)

 

[InnerDarkness]

Never been in a porn flick (though we have been offered a paid opportunity to change that by being in a BDSM themed one)
Catalina

ohhh...I am so curious about this one! What was your response to those that made the offer? Still thinking? Any chance you might??

 

[catalina_francisco]

ohhh...I am so curious about this one! What was your response to those that made the offer? Still thinking? Any chance you might??

LOL, well he filed the email for a possible later consideration but don't know if he stil has it.

Catalina

 

[Miss Diva]

Since I am a newbie slave the list of what I have done is shorter:
Been tied up twice
Been blindfolded twice
Have gone down on my Master
Have hickies on my boobs
Been spanked
Been flogged
Had the feather used on me
Had a certain toy called a bullet used on me too (loved it)
Been kissed

As for what I will never ever do
Be pooped on
Do the breath play thing
Knife play (my Master is afraid of blood)
Never be in a porn flick
Never be vomited on or in
Never behung by the neck
Never be engaged in gun play