The Un-Isolated Un-Blurt Thread

[TwinkleStars]

sad news, twink

Yeah but my sister and I are managing.

 

[haha_on_me]

Hau kola, Happy Thanksgiving.

 

[TwinkleStars]

My sister has come for a visit. This makes my dad happy. He's all hugs and kisses with her. It's precious.

That's about the only good thing this week. Seeing my dad happy.

 

[Noor]

My sister has come for a visit. This makes my dad happy. He's all hugs and kisses with her. It's precious.

That's about the only good thing this week. Seeing my dad happy.

That is a good thing! I hope next week has more good things.

 

[TwinkleStars]

That is a good thing! I hope next week has more good things.

It does, I get money. *laughs*

 

[TwinkleStars]

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[TwinkleStars]

I was suppose to go with my dad for his CT scan but I missed my ride. I did see him later and he's ok.

Had a fucked up day. Only bright side was seeing my dad. Tomorrow I hope is better.

 

[Noor]

I was suppose to go with my dad for his CT scan but I missed my ride. I did see him later and he's ok.

Had a fucked up day. Only bright side was seeing my dad. Tomorrow I hope is better.

I hope it is better too!

 

[TwinkleStars]

I hope it is better too!

Thank's so much, Noor.

 

[snugglestruggle]

My sister has come for a visit. This makes my dad happy. He's all hugs and kisses with her. It's precious.

That's about the only good thing this week. Seeing my dad happy.

I thought you didn't get along with "the bitch"?

Good news about your Dad, he probably forgot that she is a bitch though

 

[TwinkleStars]

I thought you didn't get along with "the bitch"?

Good news about your Dad, he probably forgot that she is a bitch though

We're nice enough when we see each other. She doesn't know how I feel about some of the things she does, though. I like to make the visits happy for dad is all.

 

[TwinkleStars]

Oh man, this month is going to be crazy.

 

[TwinkleStars]

My dad was a mess mentally today. This is so depressing to watch him decline.

 

[Noor]

My dad was a mess mentally today. This is so depressing to watch him decline.

Hopefully he will still have some good days with you.

 

[jezzilee]

I am so sorry TwinkleStars. It is hard to watch those we love go through this. From personal experience all I can say is be there for him and be strong. Focus on all the good times, and talk to him. Tell him all of the wonderful memories that you can recall. Focus on happiness whenever you are near him.

 

[TwinkleStars]

Hopefully he will still have some good days with you.

Yes, I do.

I am so sorry TwinkleStars. It is hard to watch those we love go through this. From personal experience all I can say is be there for him and be strong. Focus on all the good times, and talk to him. Tell him all of the wonderful memories that you can recall. Focus on happiness whenever you are near him.

Well, then I'm covered because I do just that. Still saddens me.

 

[TwinkleStars]

My dad is alright but he's acting up. He's taken to unhooking the alarms on his wheelchair and bed. Now, he's done this before which worries me and the staff as he could hurt himself trying to do something he can't do on his own.

A new thing he's doing (because they moved him to the second floor) is hiding the alarms. I'm not okay with this and yet, can not help but laugh at his stubbornness and defiance. I know why he's doing this. He's upset at being moved.

I just find it funny he's gone to hiding these alarms. Not turn them off but hiding them. The action is funny but not what could happen to him if he falls or hurts himself.

He'll settle down in a little bit. It just takes him time.

 

[TwinkleStars]

Merry Fucking Xmas. First xmas in a long time without family.

I hate holidays.

 

[Noor]

Merry Fucking Xmas. First xmas in a long time without family.

I hate holidays.

You aren't seeing your dad?

 

[TwinkleStars]

You aren't seeing your dad?

Nope. I see him next Tuesday.

 

[TwinkleStars]

I feel like crap. I've made two big mistakes recently and I feel terrible. I hate myself right now.

 

[Noor]

I feel like crap. I've made two big mistakes recently and I feel terrible. I hate myself right now.

HUGS!

Everyone makes mistakes. If there is any way of changing it, do that.
Otherwise just figure out why they happened, what you can change for the future, then accept it and move on.
Sometimes mistakes open us to other opportunities.

 

[TwinkleStars]

HUGS!

Everyone makes mistakes. If there is any way of changing it, do that.
Otherwise just figure out why they happened, what you can change for the future, then accept it and move on.
Sometimes mistakes open us to other opportunities.

It did enlighten me as to what not to do and to be more cautious.

 

[Noor]

It did enlighten me as to what not to do and to be more cautious.

Okay then! Now forward...!

 

[TwinkleStars]

Okay then! Now forward...!

Apparently my brain wishes to dwell on it and make me feel bad. Aside from hitting myself in the head with a brick, I have to remember this feeling will pass.