The Un-Isolated Un-Blurt Thread

[TwinkleStars]

I am glad he is in an alright place and that you guys are talking. I hopefully you will find something soon.

Thanks, Noor.

{{{hug}}} sounds like a good plan.

btw, your hair color is to die for.

Thanks, dear.

 

[TwinkleStars]

Great, more bad things.

Seems the case manager of the rehab my dad is staying at is in a fucking hurry to get my dad out of where he is. My dad has already fallen a few times in the place and they claim he's high functioning.
I also found out that the assessment for my dad and his situation is taking place tomorrow, not on the 26th. The bitch didn't even call me to tell me. So, now I have to go back tomorrow and make sure they (the rehab/nursing home) understand how bad his situation really is.

He cannot live by himself. It's not safe or possible at this point. I don't know what more I can do and my sister is being impossible. She doesn't live in the county I live in. This county is slow moving and has waiting lists. She thinks they'll find him a place to move into right away and that's not going to happen.
She's also annoyed that I'm spending our dad's money on him. I buy him things he wants or needs, I'm not running up a credit card bill. Jeez.

I just don't know what to do. I'm so depressed and my sister is NOT helping matters with her attitude. She really needs to face the reality of this. Things rarely work out the way you plan no matter how hard you try or how much planning you do. *sighs*

At least I have Aging and Community Services involved. They've been a big help.

 

[Noor]

ugh, glad aging and community services are involved.

 

[toubab]

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[TwinkleStars]

ugh, glad aging and community services are involved.

Thanks for the comment, Noor. Yesterday was the hardest of days. The assessment was a joke. At least they cannot kick my dad out of where he is staying. He'll be there until he finds a permanent home.

I'm so very exhausted and depressed.

 

[TwinkleStars]

My dad is doing just fine. Took him out to lunch yesterday and today. He was glad for the change of scenery.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

My dad is doing just fine. Took him out to lunch yesterday and today. He was glad for the change of scenery.

such good news!

 

[Noor]

My dad is doing just fine. Took him out to lunch yesterday and today. He was glad for the change of scenery.

Yay! Where is he living now?

 

[TwinkleStars]

Yay! Where is he living now?

He's still at the same place. We have to get all this paper work done to be to able move him to another nursing home.

 

[Noor]

He's still at the same place. We have to get all this paper work done to be to able move him to another nursing home.

He can stay there until you find a better place?

 

[bluebell]

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Hang in there, dearest.

 

[TwinkleStars]

He can stay there until you find a better place?

Yeppers.

Hang in there, dearest.

Thanks, bluey.

 

[Noor]

Yeppers.



Thanks, bluey.

Great! That should help all of you get some downtime for the moment!

 

[TwinkleStars]

Great! That should help all of you get some downtime for the moment!

The best part was taking him out to places. He really liked that.

 

[TwinkleStars]

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[Spins]

I applaud this thread

 

[TwinkleStars]

I applaud this thread

Thanks.

 

[TwinkleStars]

My dad is still in the nursing home/rehab. They said he didn't have to do the therapy anymore. I asked if he was being moved to the place my sister and I found and no one has heard anything.
This waiting game is annoying and worrying. We want dad some place permanent. Still just waiting and dealing with paper work.

I just want this to be over so we know he has a nice place to live out his days in peace.

Dad's fine. Just bored and wants to leave where he is. He's being somewhat difficult with me but I expected that. *sighs*

 

[TwinkleStars]

Took my dad to get his taxes done so, I'm glad that's over with. It's getting so hard to be around him as he's simply not there really. The dementia seems to really be progressing even with medication.

It just kills me that he's like this. He hardly wants to do anything now. I miss the old dad. I still help him as much as I can but it rarely seems like it's enough. *sighs*

I want my dad back.

 

[Not Normal]

My dad is still in the nursing home/rehab. They said he didn't have to do the therapy anymore. I asked if he was being moved to the place my sister and I found and no one has heard anything.
This waiting game is annoying and worrying. We want dad some place permanent. Still just waiting and dealing with paper work.

I just want this to be over so we know he has a nice place to live out his days in peace.

Dad's fine. Just bored and wants to leave where he is. He's being somewhat difficult with me but I expected that. *sighs*

Took my dad to get his taxes done so, I'm glad that's over with. It's getting so hard to be around him as he's simply not there really. The dementia seems to really be progressing even with medication.

It just kills me that he's like this. He hardly wants to do anything now. I miss the old dad. I still help him as much as I can but it rarely seems like it's enough. *sighs*

I want my dad back.

I'm sorry to read this. I wish you and your dad all the best.

 

[TwinkleStars]

I'm sorry to read this. I wish you and your dad all the best.

Thanks, dear. You know, Animal was always my fav Muppet.

 

[Not Normal]

Thanks, dear. You know, Animal was always my fav Muppet.

You have good taste.

 

[Not Normal]

http://img2.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20100613040528/muppet/images/3/36/Animaleatdrums.jpg

I love that one. I used it as my avatar before.

 

[TwinkleStars]

I love that one. I used it as my avatar before.

I like the one you have now, it suits you.

 

[Not Normal]

I like the one you have now, it suits you.

http://www.mytinyphone.com/uploads/users/missjas/532796.jpg

I look at the world a little sideways...