The Ultimate JOI / CEI Thread

Love this one with Bryci:
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph59c4cd1a5911d

My first GF used to have me jerk off when I wanted to have sex (all the time) and she didn't (frequently). She'd either have me lie next to her on the bed. She'd let me see her tits but usually no more. Or, she would sit on the edge of the bed with only her panties on, spread her legs, and drop a pillow for me to kneel on. She would talk non-stop, using all kinds of phrases for jerking off (stroke your cock for me, beat your meat, fuck your fist, make love to your hand, ...) and would compliment me on how good I was at it ("you must have lots of practice because you are like a professional masturbater") and what a good boy I was. When I was close to cumming, she would tell me I couldn't control it and that I was going to explode. She would often hand me my boxers to cum in so that I wouldn't make a mess. When I finished, she'd laugh a little, kiss me on the top of my head (if I was on my knees) and say "Good boy." Both embarrassing and a huge turn-on.

She sometimes had me catch my cum in my hand, but never thought of having me lick it up. So, no CEI in real life, but the videos done well also really work for me.

The JOI and CEI videos are great when I am recalling those times, but her words were always sort of sweet even when she was humiliating me, while often in the videos, the women are insulting. Works less well for me.
 
When I was younger this used to be my favorite kink. I loved watching beautiful women tell me how to stroke. As I've got older it has to be an amazing JOI or I just cant get into it. I've really started loving tease, denial and edgeing. If to has elements of that I'm more immersed other wise I think its lost its believe ability. That said I've never done it in person, but if instructed through text or voice I really get off. Sorry if I rambled, but I love being told what to do and how to do it
 
I agree

I don’t know about you guys but over the past year or 2 (maybe even 3) I’ve really come to enjoy JOI (jerk off instruction) and CEI (cum eating instruction) videos. If you don’t know what they are I’ve posted some examples down below.

The niche has really exploded. There are more and more JOI and CEI videos every day which is great. One thing that sucks is that they are all very similar in nature. Most of them using the sissy or loser angle. This got me wondering. for those of you who like this niche what are your favourite aspects of these videos? Personally I’d love to see more videos where the guy is encouraged to do things because of his desire to please the girl rather than because he is a sissy or loser. As an example many of the videos end with the girl calling the guy a loser. I think it would be much sexier if the girl ended it with something like "It’s so hot that you ate your cum for me. I love that.” What do you guys think?

A question for the girls here. What do you think of this. Would you like to tell a guy how to jerk it or what to do once he’s cum? Or is it just weird?

And finally let’s post our favourite JOI and CEI and videos (gifs and pics too) of that nature here. Who are your fav JOI/CEI performers?

Here are a few primers
Lexi Lapetina
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1314153685
More from her https://www.pornhub.com/pornstar/lexi-lapetina

Amber Hahn
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph59c8a88fe0a3b
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph572b58a24679e
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph578abdd350895
More of her https://www.pornhub.com/pornstar/amber-hahn

Kayla Paige
https://xhamster.com/videos/cum-eating-lesson-joi-cei-1625708

Mistress T. This isn’t JOI but i love this style. Would love to see more of it. Anyone else?
https://www.xvideos.com/video26616351/7304045_i_do_this_so


To much negativity and rudeness in most if those vids. I like the idea of couples having fun.
 
To much negativity and rudeness in most if those vids. I like the idea of couples having fun.


I haven't watched the videos Mr. Briggs has posted, but you're right, JOI, and especially CEI can often have a mean, sometimes humiliating edge (some more than just an edge) to them. The real trick is finding the ones that appeal to you.

Sometimes, before I watch, I'll put the video on, then go off doing other things and just listen to the girl/woman's voice, the words she uses and the way she says them. Sometimes, just her tone turns me off. Certain words definitely turn me off. Trust me when I say, no matter what you're doing, when the words you don't care for come up, they tend to pop right out at you. Then, you just go back to the video and back out and try something else.

The appeal of JOI/CEI is the fantasy of masturbating to/for a woman, and have her talk dirty to you while you do it. The ideal ones have a woman who'll talk dirty to you while you masturbate, and be encouraging at the same time. At least, that's my favorite kind of these vids. I know the humiliation stuff works for other people. Not my thing.
 
I've seen some where mom walks in and catches him then proceeds to tell him how to do it. Theses are sexy because usually the women are a little older and there isn't humiliation. I will do some searching when the house is less full.
 
I'd imagine that the 'sissy' and 'loser' JOI/CEI type videos are so popular due to the fact that there are a lot of men who crave degrees of humiliation mixed in with their 'instruction'. I am always willing to accommodate using whichever manner that will get a guy off the hardest, so that he'll have more to lap up after.

But, being that I'm a woman, I'm more results-driven than process-driven...so I don't have a personal preference.

However, if you guys feel your type of porn isn't being represented, you should write a letter to your congressman or something. :D
 
I prefer the CEI encouragement vids. It's more fun, for me, any way, than the abusive ones.
 
I prefer the CEI encouragement vids. It's more fun, for me, any way, than the abusive ones.

I think there are more of us out there that prefer the non-abusive stuff than the videos would let on. I'm sure there are guys who enjoy the humiliation so many of those videos have, but I'd think there are just as many who just want/need the encouragement, without being called names.
 
The thought of being humiliated isn’t a turn on for me so most JOI and CEI don’t do it for me.. as has been discussed. However, I do crave being instructed and I do crave a woman controlling me in a nurturing way. I commissioned a video like this from a tumblr girl maybe 6 months ago and it makes me week in the knees. She tells me why I’m a good girl (I’m a male that enjoys cross dressing) and instructs me to dress in my sexiest panties.. all in the most nurturing way. Makes my knees buckle every time I watch it..
 
I never last to watch the whole vid, LOL!


I understand that. I have found some great fun, however, watching the likes of Brooke Marie, Lady Esme Fay, and Kelle Martine. They're very good at keeping you intrigued, with, typically, only moderate humiliation...
 
I like the guided ones, where there is edging, then cumming and if asked I lick up the cum.
 
I enjoy the JOI videos more than the CEI ones. And I have no use for the humiliation ones. I agree with the OP that most out there are similar, and over produced and rote.

I really enjoy the amateur ones that periodically pop up, but they are mostly few and far between.
 
I love licking up my cum and its so sexy when you can lick up your cum for a sexy woman.

I love it when a woman tells me to lick up my cum.
 
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