The Training..

[thatgirl2136]

I am very new to this lifestyle and have no had the chance to experience it in real life.
Therefore, I have taken the time to explore my submissive side and learn about the lifestyle.
However, when it comes to videos, I never see the respect and thoughtfulness that I have learned subs are given. The video's I've stumbled upon usually just look like rough sex with no actual relationship to it.

Until the other night I found a series called the Training of Bobbi Starr

http://www.tnaflix.com/view_video.php?viewkey=214198da4251bb5b3951

I think this is the first video that I was proud to see. He starts with questions in the begining to get to know her and is fully aware of her state of being throughout the entire filming. Even, cutting the scene at one point.

I just thought I'd share this maybe others would be interested. The other 3 days are at the bottom.
I was slightly disappointed in the ending though

What does everyone think?

Or do you by chance have any other good video examples?

 

[Primalex]

Sure, but I don't make them public

 

[thatgirl2136]

lol nice.

 

[be_ignited]

Those are from the Training of O at kink.com. There's a ton more of a similar set up (with different girls) over there.

 

[thatgirl2136]

Those are from the Training of O at kink.com. There's a ton more of a similar set up (with different girls) over there.

I took a look at the site. I find it very interesting, but cannot get myself to pay for the subscription.

 

[ataxia.girl]

i've paid for various subscriptions at kink.com before. i generally like their stuff. i never do the recurring thing though because i always end up getting bored after a few months and then stop watching porn altogether for awhile.

 

[bruisedangel]

There are a couple free porn sites that I know of. I could dig up the links, if you want.

 

[thatgirl2136]

i've paid for various subscriptions at kink.com before. i generally like their stuff. i never do the recurring thing though because i always end up getting bored after a few months and then stop watching porn altogether for awhile.

I find that happens with me too, i get tired of the repetition.

There are a couple free porn sites that I know of. I could dig up the links, if you want.

Oh that would be great, but only if you want to.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

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However, when it comes to videos, I never see the respect and thoughtfulness that I have learned subs are given. The video's I've stumbled upon usually just look like rough sex with no actual relationship to it.

That's because it's _PORN_.

BDSM Porn is to BDSM relationships as Harlequin romances are to REAL relationships.

In otherwords, it's fantasy wanking fodder.

Looking at porn of any variety to get ideas about how people live BDSM relationships is kinda like reading Star Trek or Gor novels and trying to figure out the same. Get involved with your local BDSM community. Attend educational presentations, workshops, events, play parties. WATCH the people interact, talk to them.

To find local Munches, email groups, and events in your area, try:
SceneUSA - http://www.darkheart.com/sceneusa.html
Caryl's Page - http://www.drkdesyre.com/
The BDSM Events Page - http://www.thebdsmeventspage.com/ which has links to both organizations AND events.
SirPaul's National Munch Page - http://phoenixdragon.dreamknight87.com/nmp.htm

Good luck!