The Safe Haven

[desert_rose]

Good evening Spicy and Azul, and nice to meet you Sienna.

I wish I could say life is getting better but it isn't. I'm beginning to think I must have done something wrong in a former life to get this kind of bad karma lately.

 

[Spicy Southern Belle]

Good evening Spicy and Azul, and nice to meet you Sienna.

I wish I could say life is getting better but it isn't. I'm beginning to think I must have done something wrong in a former life to get this kind of bad karma lately.

Sweetheart, don't think like that. You have a lot going on. *HUGS* It is going to take a while to get better most likely. It's a one day at a time process. We are here when you need us hon. *HUGS*

 

[Azuldrgon]

Good evening Spicy and Azul, and nice to meet you Sienna.

I wish I could say life is getting better but it isn't. I'm beginning to think I must have done something wrong in a former life to get this kind of bad karma lately.

Okay......first of all *hugs*

secondly *hugs*

It can get better.....we're prayin for ya.

 

[Callmetim]

Good evening Spicy and Azul, and nice to meet you Sienna.

I wish I could say life is getting better but it isn't. I'm beginning to think I must have done something wrong in a former life to get this kind of bad karma lately.

Karma can only be bad if you believe in it.

We've all had those rough spots and I am glad this thread is here for those in need.

There is a reason, a time and a purpose for all of these events. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you desert rose.

 

[Spenser41]

Praying for you Rose

 

[Spicy Southern Belle]

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-z8ELQXvjqHA/TXBALei6FsI/AAAAAAAAAH8/S0zRA5t2a7U/s1600/funny%2Bcute%2Bkitten%2Bpuppy%2Bear%2Bblanket.jpg

I just thought this was adorable.

 

[Azuldrgon]

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-z8ELQXvjqHA/TXBALei6FsI/AAAAAAAAAH8/S0zRA5t2a7U/s1600/funny%2Bcute%2Bkitten%2Bpuppy%2Bear%2Bblanket.jpg

I just thought this was adorable.

lol

 

[Azuldrgon]

It has been a while.

I had a fall at work Friday that hurt my knee. The worse part is the fact it triggered some bad memories.

 

[Spicy Southern Belle]

It has been a while.

I had a fall at work Friday that hurt my knee. The worse part is the fact it triggered some bad memories.

*hugs you tight* I'm so sorry sweetheart.

 

[thesweetsweetness]

It has been a while.

I had a fall at work Friday that hurt my knee. The worse part is the fact it triggered some bad memories.

(((boobiesquishinghug)))

 

[Triskele]

I hope you're knee is recovering well, Azul, and that you're able to work through everything.

Big *HUGS*, chocolate brownies and cocoa for anyone who needs quiet company.

 

[Azuldrgon]

*hugs to Spicy...sweetness...and Triskele*

So far I am recovering. Bumpin in case someone needs to have some time in here.

 

[Sienna]

Hi Spicy & Azul

((( hugggssss )))

Just passing through ...

 

[Azuldrgon]

Hi Spicy & Azul

((( hugggssss )))

Just passing through ...

*hugs*

 

[Azuldrgon]

In Memory of Spicy....

Safe Havens.....

When Spicy told me initially she was starting this thread, I was gung ho about it. It made sense. She talked to me many times about how sometimes we needed a place to hide in order to find ourselves and find our point in life to keep going.

The last time I was in here was 2012. This was way before I disappeared for a time. Spicy left Lit years ago, but she and I remained friends through a bunch of things. We have been through so much since then and one of my highlights in recent memory was when her family moved up here closer to me. The last time I hugged her was a few weeks ago. My last text message with her was last Sunday afternoon. Spicy was a huge part of my life for the last almost ten years I think.

I found out from a mutual friend that she passed this morning. A Facebook post from another friend told me she was gone around 5 am this morning. I am still in shock to be honest. Typing is a bit more strained than usual. What makes it harder is the fact that she is a constant in my life. Spicy was a woman who had a huge heart. She loved everyone. She also was there for me every time I needed her. The fact that a part of my heart is gone is still surreal.

I think the biggest thing her passing has taught me at least at the moment is to not allow time to pass without letting the folks closest to you know that you care about them. Here I sit now in the kitchen after holding my wife close and allowing her to cry on my shoulder over my friend. It still feels unreal honestly. At the same time, Spicy has found a new Safe Haven.

R.I.P Spicy.....I love you.

 

[Kat73]

Safe Havens.....

When Spicy told me initially she was starting this thread, I was gung ho about it. It made sense. She talked to me many times about how sometimes we needed a place to hide in order to find ourselves and find our point in life to keep going.

The last time I was in here was 2012. This was way before I disappeared for a time. Spicy left Lit years ago, but she and I remained friends through a bunch of things. We have been through so much since then and one of my highlights in recent memory was when her family moved up here closer to me. The last time I hugged her was a few weeks ago. My last text message with her was last Sunday afternoon. Spicy was a huge part of my life for the last almost ten years I think.

I found out from a mutual friend that she passed this morning. A Facebook post from another friend told me she was gone around 5 am this morning. I am still in shock to be honest. Typing is a bit more strained than usual. What makes it harder is the fact that she is a constant in my life. Spicy was a woman who had a huge heart. She loved everyone. She also was there for me every time I needed her. The fact that a part of my heart is gone is still surreal.

I think the biggest thing her passing has taught me at least at the moment is to not allow time to pass without letting the folks closest to you know that you care about them. Here I sit now in the kitchen after holding my wife close and allowing her to cry on my shoulder over my friend. It still feels unreal honestly. At the same time, Spicy has found a new Safe Haven.

R.I.P Spicy.....I love you.

Beautifully said, my friend.

My girl, my Spicy, may you find the peace your heart was searching for. I will always love you...

 

[PeteHulbert37]

Sad news indeed. Thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends.

 

[JennyNo1]

I am so sorry to hear this. Such a shock. For some reason, I had been wondering about Spicy recently. She was such a lovely, loving person. My thoughts and prayers go to those who loved her - she has found her peace.

 

[Azuldrgon]

I am so sorry to hear this. Such a shock. For some reason, I had been wondering about Spicy recently. She was such a lovely, loving person. My thoughts and prayers go to those who loved her - she has found her peace.

 

[Kat73]

I am so sorry to hear this. Such a shock. For some reason, I had been wondering about Spicy recently. She was such a lovely, loving person. My thoughts and prayers go to those who loved her - she has found her peace.

Big hugs Jenny...

 

[shmily]

Safe Havens.....

When Spicy told me initially she was starting this thread, I was gung ho about it. It made sense. She talked to me many times about how sometimes we needed a place to hide in order to find ourselves and find our point in life to keep going.

The last time I was in here was 2012. This was way before I disappeared for a time. Spicy left Lit years ago, but she and I remained friends through a bunch of things. We have been through so much since then and one of my highlights in recent memory was when her family moved up here closer to me. The last time I hugged her was a few weeks ago. My last text message with her was last Sunday afternoon. Spicy was a huge part of my life for the last almost ten years I think.

I found out from a mutual friend that she passed this morning. A Facebook post from another friend told me she was gone around 5 am this morning. I am still in shock to be honest. Typing is a bit more strained than usual. What makes it harder is the fact that she is a constant in my life. Spicy was a woman who had a huge heart. She loved everyone. She also was there for me every time I needed her. The fact that a part of my heart is gone is still surreal.

I think the biggest thing her passing has taught me at least at the moment is to not allow time to pass without letting the folks closest to you know that you care about them. Here I sit now in the kitchen after holding my wife close and allowing her to cry on my shoulder over my friend. It still feels unreal honestly. At the same time, Spicy has found a new Safe Haven.

R.I.P Spicy.....I love you.

Hugs sweet man,
I remember Spicy around here. Keeping you and her family in prayer.
s'

 

[Azuldrgon]

Hugs sweet man,
I remember Spicy around here. Keeping you and her family in prayer.
s'

*hugs*

 

[DarkSimian]

I'm not sure I remember Spicy from my time before, but I have shared enough stories to know that she was a beautiful, caring, loving woman.....and she will indeed be missed. May you find your peace at last.

 

[Azuldrgon]

I'm not sure I remember Spicy from my time before, but I have shared enough stories to know that she was a beautiful, caring, loving woman.....and she will indeed be missed. May you find your peace at last.

Thanks Beastie.

You'd like her.

 

[numeniusa]

Safe Havens.....

When Spicy told me initially she was starting this thread, I was gung ho about it. It made sense. She talked to me many times about how sometimes we needed a place to hide in order to find ourselves and find our point in life to keep going.

The last time I was in here was 2012. This was way before I disappeared for a time. Spicy left Lit years ago, but she and I remained friends through a bunch of things. We have been through so much since then and one of my highlights in recent memory was when her family moved up here closer to me. The last time I hugged her was a few weeks ago. My last text message with her was last Sunday afternoon. Spicy was a huge part of my life for the last almost ten years I think.

I found out from a mutual friend that she passed this morning. A Facebook post from another friend told me she was gone around 5 am this morning. I am still in shock to be honest. Typing is a bit more strained than usual. What makes it harder is the fact that she is a constant in my life. Spicy was a woman who had a huge heart. She loved everyone. She also was there for me every time I needed her. The fact that a part of my heart is gone is still surreal.

I think the biggest thing her passing has taught me at least at the moment is to not allow time to pass without letting the folks closest to you know that you care about them. Here I sit now in the kitchen after holding my wife close and allowing her to cry on my shoulder over my friend. It still feels unreal honestly. At the same time, Spicy has found a new Safe Haven.

R.I.P Spicy.....I love you.

I'm so sorry for your loss, Azul, and the loss of her for the others here who loved her. Those are such beautiful words for your friend, and you make me feel sad that I didn't have the chance to know her too. But this thread and your words have made her real for me. And I take your lesson to heart.

I hope you can find peace in her leaving.